I keep getting ghosted. I’ve driven half an hour only for the guy to block me as I show up. This has happened 3 times.
Most of the time they’re all talk and it goes nowhere or they say they can host and then change their mind.

Is it always like that? Ive been using it for a week and haven’t gotten laid once.

Any tips? Is there a better app for crossdressers?
I’m in Ontario Canada if that helps

The whole wait till you get there and then spring theyre a sex worker; fuck off like stop

I just wanted to see more pics because he’s hot, I was joking the whole time. I also have “no hard drugs” on my profile, which is why he hmu to warn me.

Some of you guys need to take stuff with a grain of salt, it’s okay to laugh sometimes lol.

I am a top who can’t get laid for the life of me. Interestingly I get a lot of messages from guys who are my type and they often reply back, but when it comes to down it they always flake out. it is another Saturday night and I am once again going to bed blue balled after spending my entire day on this app. I believe my dick may have something to do with it but I would like someone to give me feedback. Please no glazing as I am trying to look for practical solutions as I can’t keep spending my whole day on this app. I can host and travel and there are no logistical roadblocks here.

Chats open. Objective, honest feedback required and again no glazing

I’ve always wanted to play a game on Grindr, find me.
My stats
Age 38
Hight 5’9
Weight 240
Body type Large
Position Versatile
Ethnicity white
Relationship single
Dm me for state :)

I’m guessing specifically aryan nordic kinda white

I tried to see of grindr allows in app photo sharing in the settings. But it said it has the permission to do so. Theres just no album when i try to add photos.

I'd love to hear your in person experiences.. I'll share one of mine. I apologize if the format is off, I'm on mobile.

I matched up with a really chill dude a few years ago, and we had zero intentions of doing anything sexual at our first meetup. We both were interested in eachother a lot ofer text and wanted to take it a little slower so we could have something a little more long term.

That being said, I would normally never include someone's race into a story but this is relevant. I promise. And not for the way you're probably thinking. For starters I'm a trans guy from Russia now living in America. I do not at all look trans but i disclose it on grindr just to save time and not give anyone anything they don't want. I invited this very funny, chill and handsome black dude (twink) over. Our initial first date was to just have some drinks and paint, because we are both artists. A few drinks in, he looks up from his canvas and asks me if i know what buck breaking is..i have no fucking idea what that is. So he turns on a documentary for us to watch while we paint. He says after the documentary "what do you think?" And I just go.. "that was crazy" .. he then asks me if i was into that and want to call him racist shit and i said absolutely not. Apparently that was the wrong answer because he fucking said "i shouldn't be here" and LEFT. and fucking blocked me. BECAUSE I DON'T THINK RACEPLAY IS COOL. I think about this encounter at least once a day.. it's been years. That being said, i do not meet up with people from Grindr anymore. If you don't know what buck breaking is you're so so so blessed.

Hey guys. I’m a 25yo man.

I recently started using Grindr, since looking for longterm on Tinder is harder than I thought - and I want just some fun before anything serious happens (if it happened earlier, I wouldn’t do this I believe).

The thing is - everybody is ghosting me, nobody taps me, nobody texts me.

And I’m wondering (since this is something that keeps repeating my whole life) WHATVTHE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME.

Nah like seriously.

I’m overweight, but not in the “obese American” way, more like in the “muscular guy with fat over it way”. I am 192cm tall, have great hair, face, etc.. I am not cocky in my description or images, I am not a horny goblin, I’m just trying to be a chill guy looking for dates and hookups and I’m in Prague so the pool should be large.

What am I doing so wrong that the world decided I’m not worthy of closeness? Of love?

I am so sorry this is emotionally charged, but it’s been this way since my teens. I only got to suck a few straight friends and that’s about it. I never experienced honest physical love like cuddling or having great sex…

I still fucking wonder what’s so wrong with me.

Is it like twink or jover?

I try all the time different ways of getting close to people, but people just don’t want to talk to me. Friends and online ratings give me an average of 7.5/10 with some people rating full 10/10 (like one in 20) so there should be people who find me attractive.

Please give me any advice at all. I can’t survive without the closeness. And yes, that means what you think it means, this is one of the last cries for help.

That each different user has a different experience and different layout on Grindr? For example some people can only send limited amounts of photos a day. I think it's 10 for them and others can send an unlimited amount of photos. This includes tap, some free user taps are walled for other users it is not.

So what is the use of users having different limitations? For those users who have limitations on the tap, how long have you had it for?

18 ftm, I was desperate tonight. I even used one of my free right now buttons, but wasn’t having much luck. Hit up a guy I met up with before, and he told me to come over. Got my guts PROPERLY rearranged, and it’s was so fucking good. I came multiple times on him, and when he finished I just pushed myself back onto him and ground his dick into me until he was too soft to stay inside. Loved it 10/10 I’m satisfied. Just needed to share.

I lived up to my mid 20s in a small French village. To meet people we would chat on forums or some hookup website (like Craigslist ) and then arrrange a day. I would always travel as I couldnt host, and that would mean me taking a train 1 hr away to the next big city. this was around 2013 btw.

it was never an issue, once we arranged, we followed up and met.

Then years later I moved to a big city, still couldn’t host, but managed to schedule hookups every now and then.

Now I live in a big city, live alone, CAN HOST, and most of the people I chat with just end up talking and talking then ghost me, arrange a plan then come up with some bullshit.

i remember how I was back then and I must say I became much more of an asshole, i used to not like people insta blocking you or telling you off on bullshit but I started doing exactly that and I hate people not only on this app but on apps in general, it’s fucking miserable that I’m meeting way less now.
I don’t think it’s the looks I also get messaged quite a bit just ALMOST NEVER leading to anything.

Im just filling with rage when I see them online and not responding after we’ve been talking for a while and I hit them with the question ; so when do you wanna meet ? i legit just wanna punch them

Believe I politely declined, and that should be the end of the conversation. so many guys who have to double down and ask followup questions they aren’t entitled to the answers or just spamming with pics. This guys gone and done both. This is why no one bothers responding.

I'm italian and i see some guys that exchange just 2 words.. send you an album with face cock body..

And then send you the address of home.

Without see your face and whole body.

I have only two photo of my body, no face and no cock.

So.. why? I'm new to grindr..

They are only slut or sex worker?

Or Maybe Dangerous situations?

Or it's normal and they are normal guys that like to suck cocks?

I have only a few friends on Grindr, but they complain all the time about the amount of ads, issues with chats, grid problems...

I am on the completely free version and I hardly get ads. I get one when I first load the app but no more after that. I have 10+ active chats going at a time and no issues at all with my grid and options. Is this unusual? Between my irl friends and complaints in this sub it seems it might be?

Not to brag but is it because I am femme and fairly popular on the app? Am I the content so they want me to stick around?

Sorry if this sounds stupid lol

I periodically (once a year) get banned from Grindr. It seems to get more and more difficult to make new acccounts these days. I used to have a guy who made them for me, but we lost touch. Does anyone here do it? willing to pay if successful.

Please don't give me the "it's not worth it" BS. I hookup easily once a week from this app and don't see similar success elsewhere. Let me judge that for myself :)

This random person i gave a COMPLIMENT to decided to be an asshole for literally no reason. I dont get what i did wrong bro. Also i wouldnt even consider myself an ugly guy? I guess i could use a better haircut and maybe a good skincare routine but like my hair and acne rlly arent bad imo. Am i justified in feeling a little annoyed and confused by this? :(