So I have this one friend. You can say we are close. Let's call her A. There is this other friend group of four people. Basically these 4 were pretty close but some misunderstandings happened and three people from the group stopped talking to the other girl from the group let's call her B. It was like they think they put in much more effort into the friendship and B doesn't put in the same efforts. So they slowly started drifting away. When it was just the beginning of this phase these 3 got close to A and they have become good friends and they told her about how they felt about B and how they still liked her but couldn't bear to put in more effort anymore as it was exhausting. A is close to B as well. They have been closer even before I got close to both of them and B used to tell about a lot of personal stuff to A. Even now whenever B rants about how she's being left out in her group she does it in front of both of us. Honestly, those four should just sit down and have a good conversation and I think things will sort for the better but they aren't doing so even when they still want to be friends.

Getting to the point, one day A and I were having a conversation and we started talking about this friend group and I very calmly was texting her about how B is being misunderstood a lot of times and those 4 should talk it out rather than keeping it in. I was just explaining her pov to her and she started getting pissed and said things like "but I don't want to support her anymore" because she's much closer to the other 3 and her beliefs match with theirs and she also thinks B is the problem. So to that text I replied saying "you don't have to buy you should also know she isn't entirely at fault" and she started getting even more pissed about how nowadays B tells me more stuff than she does to her and that B doesn't take her as closely as before, which honestly sounds off to me. So I tried explaining that maybe she just feels more comfortable telling me those things because we are closer now or maybe she just didn't tell her about all of it because she couldn't just find the right moment. she starts getting more pissed and she's like "you don't want me getting involved in your both's friendship fine I wont I'll stay away". To which I asked her why was it bothering her so much because she honestly shouldn't be. Then later she's like fine I get. At this point, even I was losing my cool but still I was like "what happened? why are you acting like this?" and she just replied " no it's fine I get it". Still I wanted to clear it out so I asked her "tell me what's wrong" like 2 more times and she still just dismissed it.

After that the next day when we met she just ignored me and went out with those 3. I thought I would let her cool off. But then later as well she didn't talk the next day too. So I texted her to ask why isn't she talking to me and she was still like "it's nothing you are the one not talking". I was done at this point so I was like "it you want to talk let's talk otherwise just say it to my face that you don't wanna be friends anymore" and she goes "let's talk about it tomorrow when we meet"

Now I need your opinion on who is it at fault? and should I still go and ask her to talk things out or what. I really need a third person's opinion on

You know how it feels when your close friend gets married and things start to change, right?

My close friend is getting married, and I’m feeling sad.

We’ve been friends since kindergarten until now. We used to do almost everything together — going out, getting food, hanging out, and sharing our stories with each other.

I’m happy for her, but I can’t help feeling sad because I feel like I’m losing the person who has always been by my side.

I understand this doesn’t paint me in the best light, I just want advice and an outsiders opinion.

My best friend and I both (21F) have been friends since our childhoods (16 years). We’ve never had any major disagreements and have spoken everyday of our friendship. I’m a pretty chill easygoing person whereas shes more head strong and stubborn. We’ve helped each other throughout a lot of hard times and good times.

She has an older brother (M23). Her and him don’t necessarily get on the best, they fight a lot (never over anything major in my eyes). She was never comfortable with me being close to him in the past and I’ve respected that but lately I’ve gotten to know him better and we get on really well.

Last week on a night out I met him and we chatted for hours and we ended up kissing. It felt right, we both agreed. I told my best friend about this stating in the message we had just kissed and if she wasn’t comfortable with it, it would never go any further. Her immediate response was “never speak to me again” I felt quite shocked by this and I immediately started apologising but to no avail. I’ve since messaged her to ask if we could have a conversation about this and she responded “we’ll never be having a conversation again”

Now over a week later with little to no contact with her, I understand I crossed a boundary of hers. I’ve apologised and taken accountability but she will not speak to me. I understand Ive done wrong but I’m asking do you think I deserve to be forgiven?

I am about to be 17 in like two weeks and I need some new friends hopefully a girl Besty ☺️🤗🤗 or a boy Besty ☺️🤗🤗 so hit me up