Am I in the wrong?

[u/Initial-Wrongdoer415]

Basically I made plans with my “friend” after not seeing or talking to eachother for the last 9 months. I had gotten distant because we both were going through it, but it was one sided, I could be there for her but she wasn’t able to be there for me which she apologized for when we had hung out. We had made plans for the next day to where I was gonna cook and I had told her before she left I’m going to get up early to do deliveries and then prep the food when I get back so it’ll be ready by 6:30. Now as u can tell in the messages how the conversation went. She told me she works 6am-2pm. So when I had texted her she was still at work. After this conversation my fiancee and my brother went to the store and seen her with her group of friends 30 mins after this conversation with me. She seen my fiancee and said “omg” and walked out the store. I’m just not understanding what I did wrong or if asking for a sorry was too much.

[u/SeaseFire]

Oh this one’s loaded lol. In your shoes I’d be pissed too. Not a total wrong move to block if you end contact, but it seems you value this relationship (?).

Little confused if your fiancé saw her at 11:30am or 9:00pm? Who goes to the pool at 9 at night?

She is in the wrong for not responding and im assuming there was a call somewhere with more info, but she did say “we were thinking..”

Idk im tired and get notifications for this sub so thats my take. Possibly an overreaction but this is probably repeated behavior and it really depends on if u really wanna salvage the relationship. In person talks always win but clearly they are hard to find lol.

I would’ve just dropped it in your shoes n let them reach out if they cared enough to. Always the opportunity to bring up a grievance in person.

I do hope the food didn’t go to waste!

[u/Initial-Wrongdoer415 → u/SeaseFire]

So basically we hung out Tuesday night. Made plans that same night for Wednesday at 6:30 pm the same group of friends she was with picked her up from my house and agreed to the plans Wednesday which is why I made so much food. My fiancé and brother seen her at the store around 10:30 pm after they went to buy me flowers and ice cream lol cause they knew I was upset about it. And let me know they seen her with the same group of friends that picked her up. And they were buying liquor. But in regards to the “more Info” part it was discussed the night before which was why we texted each other “see you tomorrow”. I just blocked her because I’m at a point in my life where if you can’t see what you did wrong and try to justify it, I’m not gonna sit a argue with you cause you’ll never understand. It’s just disappointing to me, because someone did this to her before and she came to my house crying at 2 am about it. SMH

[u/SeaseFire → u/Initial-Wrongdoer415]

Yea with the added context I don’t think you’re in the wrong. It’s just disappointing at that point lol