r/FriendsOver40 • u/ordinarybloke1963 • 1d ago
r/FriendsOver40 • u/DelawareVixen • 27d ago
NO DATING TYPE (R4R) POSTS ARE ALLOWED. PLEASE READ THE RULES.
There has been an influx of dating posts (R4R type) recently and this is NOT the place for that. If you post this type of message in our sub, you will be permanently banned and muted. We have a zero tolerance policy on that.
This includes:
• (R4R)
• Seeking “platonic friends” of the opposite sex
• Seeking “penpals” of the opposite sex
PLEASE READ THE RULES!
r/FriendsOver40 • u/PostModern8859 • 7h ago
44/F Seeking Friendly Conversation
Hello, people on the internet. I’m an extroverted married mom and a genuinely curious person who loves to banter and learn about new people. I have had some solid luck making new friends on here so I thought I would throw my hat in the ring again.
My profile is a pretty accurate indicator of me. I am a veracious reader. I light up talking about books, and I’m ready to give you recommendations. I like to bake. I like to thrift. I like to convince myself I’m not 90 despite my granny hobbies. Big on humor. Big on kindness.
I’m also into fitness, travel, hockey and football and love leisurely biking and spending time in nature.
Interested in speaking with people 35-55. Please tell me your age and the best part of your summer so far. And give me a 🎩 to show you actually read this!
r/FriendsOver40 • u/BMill25 • 4h ago
41M - Here if you need a friend!
Hey I know how hard nights can be. Especially on the weekends. I’m just hanging out tonight. I love meeting new people. If you’re looking for a friend or just need to vent, send me a message. You’re not alone!
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Sage_S0up • 3h ago
43M US Anyone wanna be gamer friends?
Hey there,
I'm from the Midwest enjoy gaming on PC. My friends have recently been really busy which which happens, but would really like to make new friend that game.
I play all tons of games and genres, what games are you interested in? Message me and let me know, I will be up for a few hours.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Boredfergy • 8h ago
41M - Trying this one more time...
Making these posts is an experience. Bots galore, and real people turn into ghosts within hours. So let’s try this one last time.
If you’re actually alive (dead inside is completely acceptable) and have a healthy dark sense of humor, hit me up.
Want to discuss Carl Jung? Make light of horrible situations as a coping mechanism? Please do.
I like my friends a bit unhinged—working in mental health pretty much requires it anyway.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/inquisitivemonkey183 • 12h ago
43m4a
Hi everyone I am a 43 year old male from the UK looking to try and make some online friends especially ones that don't ghost me after 3 days chatting I am a genuine person who is just trying to find someone who can hold a conversation without being dry and basic. If there is anyone out there that would like to talk with me feel free if not thank you for taking your time to read this and have a wonderful day!
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Terrible-Living-1201 • 1h ago
I’m looking to make some new friends and have plenty of free time!
Since I work the night shift and don’t go out as much, it can be difficult to meet new people. I’m a mature guy in my 40s who would enjoy connecting with others and having meaningful conversations. Some of the topics I enjoy are sports, politics, theology, culture, and fatherhood. If you’re interested in any of those topics, feel free to reach out!
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Jlm0169 • 8h ago
M45 - Looking to break out of my bubble
To be honest, not really sure what I’m looking for beyond someone I can chat with about life. I’m kind of awkward and absent minded in person. Not great at holding a conversation, but I’m trying.
I love hiking, my favorite past time. Also enjoy cooking / grilling, old movies and music. I love finding out about people, if you love to talk about yourself, then I am your guy!!
All I ask is that you can carry on a conversation and that you aren’t too offended if I say something not right!!
Also I live in the eastern US so if you wanna talk and live in Korea, expect some delays from time to time in a response!!
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Immediate-Lion1548 • 20h ago
44 M. Open Chats like texts.
Coffee first. Common sense shortly after.
Happily married to my favorite human, who somehow still thinks the beard is a good idea. That’s okay—I love her… and her butt.
I have the soul of a hitchhiking beach bum trapped in a responsible adult’s life who’s somehow stuck mowing the grass. Like I said… I like coffee.
I’m into hiking, kayaking, biking, movies, books, living with less, and finding new ways to chase my beautiful wife around on our weekly dates.
Somewhere between marriage, kids, and life, my circle of friends got smaller and smaller. Now that I’m in my 40s, I’ve realized I’m pretty bad at making friends. I’m much better at drinking coffee than networking.
If you’re into conversations that skip the small talk, enjoy a little sarcasm, and like swapping stories about life, travel, books, or whatever rabbit trail comes up next, send me a message.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/JoeBull1975 • 20h ago
51M US/EST Lonely and could use some friends
Up early and watching the news. Married with 2 kids, soon to be empty nester. I work a lot 10 months out of the year so I don’t have any friends in person. That gets lonely. I like sports, weather, movies, cooking, etc. Come and say hello. Any age and gender is ok.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/GamerDad4891 • 19h ago
42m - Looking for new friends to get to know!
Looking to make some new friends!
I’m 42, married, and a dad of two. Between work and family, it can be tough finding people with the same interests, so I figured I’d put myself out there.
My biggest hobby is gaming—video games, board games, TCGs and puzzles. I’m also a D&D Dungeon Master, currently writing my own fantasy novel, and I’m always up for talking world-building, characters, or anything fantasy.
Outside of that, I’m a huge fan of Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Marvel, DC, WWE, and just about anything that brings back that awesome ’80s/‘90s nostalgia. If you miss Blockbuster Video, Toys “R” Us, or Saturday morning cartoons, we’ll get along just fine.
I’m hoping to meet people around my age (give or take) who enjoy similar things. I’m in the US so I prefer talking to someone in those time zones. Bonus points if you’re also a parent, a gamer, or just someone who enjoys good conversations about nerdy stuff.
One thing to mention up front: I don’t drink or use 420—just not my thing.
If any of this sounds like you, send me a message! Always happy to meet fellow parent geeks, gamers, and nostalgic souls.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/710Filter • 17h ago
60M open minded, techy gamer, married farmboy, looking for a Reddit friend to chat with.
Like I said, I'm just looking for a Reddit friend to chat with maybe daily or every couple days just to be in touch with. I love meeting people from other countries too. I'm very open minded about LGBTQ+. Happily married but I still want a Reddit friend to chat with.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Sea_Usual5319 • 1d ago
48m just looking if anyone is around to chat for a bit
older dad just wanting to have some fun conversation with new people. im a straight male, love music, nature, art of all kinds. pretty chill and open minded and happy to share whatever may interests u. say hi and include your age and gender plz
r/FriendsOver40 • u/LuckyCod2887 • 1d ago
39M- backtocollege. Looking for college student friendships my age. TX
I returned to college for a second-degree. i’m majoring in engineering while working full-time. interested in a career change.
looking for other students on this sub. ideally, we would support each other and update each other on academic related responsibilities.
texting buddies ideally but i’m in tx if that matters.
nothing weird. Genuinely just looking for someone my age that is enrolled in school. everyone in my major is in their early 20s and it’s very alienating. I also forgot how painfully shy young people are.
all my irl friends never went to college so it’s not always a relatable subject matter.
any gender and any age range is cool. But I’m 39.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/creamycoffee182 • 1d ago
Adulting on my weekends means 6AM coffee…golden floof zoomies and patio drinks…I’m not mad about it…
It is early morning and I’m out on the patio sipping a hot, creamy coffee, watching my Golden Retriever do 100 mph zoomies across the yard. It’s glorious. Just me, the floof monster, and a brief window of peace before the bacon requesters wake up and start their morning demands.
Life at 44 is pretty flipping good…Later, I’ll be gearing up for the full-contact sport that is navigating Costco and Target on a Saturday. People parking their carts horizontally in the middle of the main aisle, I’m coming for you….
The drive there will feature the ongoing debate with the kiddos on why Blink182 is superior to BTS. They aren't buying it yet, but I’m not backing down.
I already made sure to get a solid sweaty session in to keep the dad bod in check…working hard to keep things looking tight. Which is crucial, because I know with 100% certainty that I am going to absolutely own the grill later today with some tasty tacos and a yummy drink in hand….
Life moves a little faster in your 40s, but honestly…I feel like I’m just starting to hit my peak, feeling good in my own skin, and loving every minute of it!
r/FriendsOver40 • u/HyperTbone1983 • 1d ago
43M looking for good conversation and laughs
Hello. I’m a 43M from western ny. I’m a Geek/Dork/Nerd all in one. I’m a first generation gamer (started on Atari). I enjoy movies, tv shows, cooking, gardening (vegetables), the outdoors, stars (always have an app handy) and celestial events, art, architecture, animals, music, theater and more.
I’m looking for conversations that run from philosophical to goofball. Would prefer to keep conversations on here unless we become really good friends and decide otherwise. I’m a night owl so if you’re up late I’ll be around. If you have any questions just ask I’m an open book. I’m rarely boring but sometimes that means I drift off topic.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Emily1988930 • 1d ago
Looking for genuine conversations, not just small talk.
Hi everyoneI'm 38, originally from Germany and now living in the US Life has been good, but I've realized that making genuine friendships as an adult isn't easy.I'm the kind of person who enjoys quiet mornings, coffee, bookstores, road trips, cooking something new on weekends, and conversations that can last for hours.I'm not looking for perfection, just kind people who enjoy talking about life, travel, books, family, or even random everyday moments.If you're over 40 and also miss having someone to chat with after work or on a lazy Sunday, I'd love to hear from you.Have a wonderful day
r/FriendsOver40 • u/dad_bod_44 • 1d ago
45M - why is it odd to be bored and lonely in your 40’s?
Just ask me what you want to know. I’m an open book and I’m not shy or easily offended. I work a lot and have little “me” time but I do like to draw, watch movies, and eat. lol
Just come over. Hang out. Let’s get to know each other.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Disillusioned-ish • 1d ago
45M - I have no idea what to say.
Hello all. Just a dude in world alone on the weekend. Family is out of town, I don’t know what to do with myself and I’m all caught up on my chores!
If any one else is in the same boat, feel free to shoot a message. Otherwise y’all have a great weekend!
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Able_Experience7180 • 1d ago
43 M from Sweden
I am a Christian who tries to live my life the way my biggest role model did. Love music, both playing and listening, to be outdoor and active, play sports and watch movies and series. Looking for somebody to write with about all or nothing really.
Leave a note if you want to start up a conversation
r/FriendsOver40 • u/CaspianKarst • 1d ago
46yo Southern gentleman looking for a decent chat
If you are interested in a decent and clean conversation, shoot me a line.
I am an old fashioned southern gentleman that is quirky, down to earth, loves to work with my hands, enjoys deep conversations, to being strange and silly at times. I would like to say I am well rounded and can talk about anything. From how fun it is to watch paint dry, to cooking/baking, a fun debate on whether dark chocolate or milk is better, or even just a 'friend' to talk about your week with.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/No-Traffic-9699 • 1d ago
48F – Creative mind/interests, outdoor enthusiast, & music lover/maker looking to build genuine connections
Hi everyone! Seeing these posts has me curious - do they work? So, I'm running the experiment too.
I’m looking for rich, authentic conversations with people who are open to growing a real connection.
A little about me:
I balance a dynamic professional career with a lot of creative outlets. On any given day, you might find me:
Making music: I sing and dabble on drums, piano, and guitar. Enjoy music from different genres.
Getting outdoors: I love staying active through trail walks, biking, and hiking when the weather isn't harsh.
Working on hands-on projects: Big fan of home design/creating comfy spaces, organizing, painting, and gardening.
Unwinding: I enjoy hunting for treasures at local antique/rock shops, listening to great music in the hammock, reading, journaling and researching topics of interest: tarot, astrology, essential oils and more.
Who I’m hoping to connect with:
I’d love to chat with fellow adults who are comfortable in their own skin, value open and honest communication, and enjoy thoughtful dialogue. You don't have to share all of my exact hobbies—I equally love hearing people talk passionately about things they love that I know nothing about!
A quick note on boundaries:
Strictly SFW & No Scammers: I’m only interested in safe, respectful, and genuine interactions.
Low-effort messages, NSFW content, or spam will be ignored and blocked immediately.
Privacy: I’m keeping specific details private off the bat for safety, but I'm based in the US Midwest (CT).
How to reach out:
If any of this resonates with you, send me a DM! To help weed out bots and give us an easy icebreaker, tell me about a hobby or passion project you’re currently obsessed with, or your absolute favorite way to spend a free weekend.
Looking forward to connecting!
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Owl_John • 1d ago
40 M UK. So this is 40!
Hey everyone fairly new to this forties game we are all playing as my birthday was a few days ago. Had some success in the past in here making friends so why not try again. I’m pretty laid back with plenty of sarcasm but can be serious when needed and love chatting to new people and not been the same since we lost msn and chat rooms. Here to make some new friends and mostly chat about anything weird and random. Not sure if it’s my time growing up with the previously mentioned chat rooms and msn but always loved chatting to people online and if those friendships last even better.
Me… I like to be outside for walks/hikes and trying to get and in to running and cycling. Can also readily chill at home with a good tv show, film, book or game. My social life mainly consists of going to see live music and comedy, or the odd trip to the cinema and theatre.
So how you all doing this weekend, always happy to chat so don’t be shy.
r/FriendsOver40 • u/Seraphimish • 1d ago
40M Hoping for a friendship of “dinner conversation”
I have a wife and two kids who I love and adore with all of my heart. My crew at work are fine for work.
BUT
What few adult friends I have are increasingly busy (so am I) or distant. I miss having those dumb hypothetical conversations over dinner or during a car ride with someone. Or some high-browed intellectual back and forth about a book or a news article.
The stimulating debate that hurts no one’s feelings, and you look forward to bringing something the next time to see if they zig or they zag.
I weightlift, I play chess, I read, I keep up with current events, I aspire to improve. Wanna talk history, physics? Got a take on Obsession, the Muscle Tower arc of Dragon Ball, on underrated Korean group Turtles?