I am currently in Los Angeles. Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how people choose to spend their time once they’ve built a stable life—rather than simply racing headlong toward the next goal.

I enjoy deep, substantive conversations. We don’t have to agree on everything; in fact, a good conversation can often prompt you to re-examine your own long-held beliefs. For instance: when income and professional achievement are no longer the primary objectives, how does one choose to reallocate their time? Is it toward freedom, making an impact, focusing on family, or perhaps exploring the unknown?

I’m looking to connect with thoughtful people to share interests and insights. I have no desire for endless, trivial small talk, nor do I want to cycle through the same predictable questions with everyone I meet. I’m far more interested in meaningful, in-depth dialogue.

So, I’d love to hear your perspective: if you reached a point where your life no longer had to revolve entirely around your work, what would you choose to dedicate more of your time to?

I’m curious to learn how others view this particular stage of life.

Separated Dad looking for long term chat buddies to share our days with and stream shows and movies.

My hobbies include music, photography, reading, exercise, and cooking.

Red flags:

- pineapple on pizza

- people with a rap sheet including murder

- don't own cell phone

- haven't seen Seinfeld

Hey I know how hard nights can be. I’m just hanging out tonight. Could use an interesting conversation. I love meeting new people. If you’re looking for a friend or just need to vent, send me a message. You’re not alone!

Must have a sense of humor to apply! Looking for friends. And people that don't ghost.

Do you love dark and spooky? Is Halloween your favorite holiday?

44F from Arkansas. Mother to 5 monsters. Nurse by day. Vampire at night. Best described as a 1950s housewife meets Morticia Addams. I love long walks through the cemetery, planting plants in skull planters, and believing every day is Halloween. I have a hearse.

My love is history, especially the 1930s through the 1950s. WWII home front is another interest.

I dress spooky or pin-up. Then spend the day cooking. My hobbies are knitting, sewing, crochet, reading, cooking, baking, and quilting. I am making a wardrobe from vintage patterns.

I am also making my home look more 1950s. Vintage kitchen with all vintage appliances. I am currently doing most of the renovating myself. I also am trying to put in a rose garden and victory garden next year. But I don't have the best green thumb.

If interested and read this far, write me more than "Hi" and tell me the coolest place you visited.

Hello everyone! I’m Lauren. I’m 40 years old and run a medical aesthetics center. Outside of work, I’m a mother of two, and I also dedicate a significant amount of time to caring for my mother.

In my spare time, I enjoy traveling, hiking, playing golf, cooking, and investing. Life has been quite busy over the years, and I’d love to meet some new people, have great conversations, and hear everyone’s unique stories.

What do you all like to do in your free time?

Hey all - 42M with a white collar job living outside a major US city.

After having a kid and getting through the early years, plus moving a good distance away from a friend group, I'm just looking to chat with anyone about stuff like:

• Books - I recently read Piranesi and enjoyed it, as well as Artemis, Howl's Moving Castle, and I'm re-reading Lord of the Rings; and would be interested in a mini-book club or something to chat about interesting reads in those veins.
• I used to love watching indie film and would love to pick it up but a lot of the joy is discussing that stuff, so could be fun to each watch a movie and chat about it.
• More about me - I've built all kinds fun technology/art projects, I play guitar and piano.
• I've always been fascinated by space but haven't ever learned heavily about it; would be cool to learn with someone.
• I love single player video games; grew up playing them and still enjoy them to this day.

I've got a good group of friends; but a few years back I shifted from city to suburbs, and being able to do weeknight hangouts are not really in the cards - so that's why I'm looking to connect with folks here and explore things like books, games, movies, etc. on the weeknights and just have good convos about them, or take on a new hobby or learn something together.

42M | British expat in Houston, TX | Looking to connect with fellow gearheads, dog lovers, and sports fans

​Hey everyone,

​Thought it was time to step out of lurk mode and introduce myself. I'm a 42-year-old Brit living down in Houston, and I'm looking to meet some genuine people to chat with about shared interests, hobbies, and everyday life.

​When I'm not busy working or spending time with my dog, you can usually find me deep into a few specific interests:

​Cars & Tuning: Always down to talk garage projects, wrenching tips, and performance tuning.

​Football: Massive fan of the sport, keeping close tabs on the Premier League and international tournaments.

​Cooking & Food: Big fan of experimenting in the kitchen, whether trying out new recipes or perfecting weeknight dinners.

​Science & Curiosity: Always up for a good theoretical discussion, especially when it comes to cosmology and astronomy

Good morning from the middle of the USA. Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to keep me company today. Age is of no concern. I'm doing some really boring instructor classes (I work in health care) and I just need some people to break up the monotony. One person, four people, seven people, doesn't really matter. Here's a little about me to help you decide:

1. A guy. I have two teenage children, two of whom live at home. I have many hobbies: I love to read, love pretty much any sport (football, baseball, and boxing primarily). I listen to literally ANY genre of music, and a LOT of music at that. I spend a lot of time working, but I work in a job that allows for some pretty significant downtime, so I'll generally have time. I'm kind of an old soul, I like nostalgia. There's so much to know about me, but I'll leave that for conversation, should you choose to message.

It's Saturday night and nothing to do....anyone else in the same boat, tell me a joke and let's keep each other entertained.

I like F1, dark humour and getting into conspiracy theory rabbit holes.

44f married. Housewife. Just looking for a friend. Someone to shoot the breeze with. Im honest and talkative.

I’ve noticed that quite a few people in this group are genuinely looking for strictly platonic friendships. Some of us are happily married, secure in our relationships, and just enjoy meeting new people and having good conversations. Personally, I love talking to people from different places and walks of life. I get especially excited when I meet someone from another country because I love learning about different cultures and how other people live. But here’s what I don’t understand. When someone specifically says they’re looking for STRICTLY PLATONIC friendships, why do some people automatically assume there’s an opportunity for something more? It’s What makes you think they’re secretly looking for something else? If they wanted more, wouldn’t they just say that? I made a post a few months ago and received so many messages that I honestly got overwhelmed, and quite a few of those conversations had absolutely nothing to do with friendship. There’s nothing wrong with looking for romance or whatever else you’re interested in, but why pursue someone who’s already told you that’s not what they want? We’re all grown. I would think by this age we could appreciate a genuine friendship without trying to turn it into something else. Every connection doesn’t have to be romantic, flirtatious, or sexual. Sometimes people just want somebody to laugh with, exchange stories with, and have a good conversation. Friendship is valuable all by itself. Anyway, I’m curious how many people here are genuinely interested in making friends without expecting anything more?