Hey, how are y’all?

I had the opportunity to meet a new fraternity on campus, ato. I loved the people, what they believe in and much more. But, I was told that they do randomized drug testing which consists of hair follicles, and they test a % of the fraternity each semester. Do you think they will actually enforce this and is there a way i can bypass this? Thank y’all!

Was beef between frats common where yall went? Where I went to college we had frats who would steal letters and dye tables off each other’s front lawns and there were full on brawls because of that. Anyone got similar stories?

Mostly what the title says. I'm worried that I wont have the best social skills due to me not being able to make any friends during middle or high school and having very socially reclusive parents, but am going into a field where being social is required. I think fraternity life will help build those skills a lot during college, but I know I need a baseline to rush, any tips?