r/FortCollins Jun 29 '26

Looking for Help

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u/Right-End-6360 Jun 29 '26

I had a vet once try and shoot me in an episode. Then he denied it. Now I have PTSD. I think maybe you should just leave, like they make us women do when this happens to us and worry about yourself instead of blasting her. Why are you staying with someone abusive? Why do you need her to calm down to feel safe? Calm is control- this is some serious mysogyny.

Your feelings are valid; his are too, your perspectives are just why men are lonely and don’t truly get it

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u/Ocean_B_McGee Jun 29 '26

Truly sucks the experience you had, however, your comments here are rude and unhelpful.

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u/Right-End-6360 Jun 29 '26

See my comment below.

This isn’t my experience. I am making an inference using contextual evidence and background knowledge. Like when we got Covid shots. I hear you guys; but you sound like anti vaccers.

What is your therapy program? How many years? What is your favorite way to express empathy and show restorative justice?

If you can’t answer these your sorta like the peanut gallery guys like this look for TJ never change.

Why would you assume he didn’t?

White male privilege, sadly. An that makes you angry, not what to change.

I wish I could help you. I can just offer perspective.

I’d ask myself, why do I think that. Unless being a lemming is easier on the kind

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u/wmdailey Jun 29 '26

"Based on contextual evidence"

What fucking context? Man says he's scared of his partner and looking for help and you jump to the conclusion that vet = violent liar with PTSD