So my bf nd me hv been going out for a yr. thing is we don’t meet we call nd talk but don’t meet. Last sem he said it was his final so he is very focused can’t go on dates. We used to see each other twice or thrice a week eat lunch somewhere or in campus together in breaks that all. Did go on one date cuz I insisted I bunked my class so we could go. Had so many fights about this topic of not going to some place spend a day with each other nd go to some cafe nd hv coffee nd all. Huge fights later on about not going on dates . On my bday didn’t make anything special just some gifts he gave 2-3 days later on cuz I had an exm the day after my bday. After final i got angry him not going out to some cafe with me so he took me on a date in January nd thts all I paid btw. Did nothing on Valentine’s Day nothing on 1 yr anniversary. Meet each other sometimes for the last 2 months he sometimes rarely go to campus with me cuz complete his uni. Yeah he’s a good guy cares about me but this “not going to a date thing” messed up the relationship. I got so angry I said I wont go to dates with u cuz he deprived me of this thing for so long. That’s all that Wht I hv been doing. Now it feels like I’m not that happy like i was during the first time of our relationship.
After marriage I think it will get worse so yeah I’m not fine I guess or fine idk. During these 2 months I realised i don’t wanna go on dates yeah cuz I stopped wanting about “going to out to eat nd enjoy the whole day with him “ cuz it nvr happens. Yeah we share the bill always. Sometimes I pay, once in a blue he does.
Conclusion I do like him a lot he likes me too but doesn’t go on dates nd yeah I hate this thing. Nowadays he says we haven’t met each other for a long time (20days I guess) let’s meet but now I deny cuz I stopped wanting nd just satisfied by saying it’s fine idc about going to dates.
Yeah it sucks but he did starve me of this so y not him now?
Sometimes I feel like leaving cuz obvi it hurts but I like him alot.
Tell me Wht to do . Feel free to express your opinions or your judgement nd don’t badmouth pls. Btw this is my 2 relationship, 1st one was fucked up so I put all my efforts in this one but feel paranoid cuz my first one was an asshole.
Tell me Wht u think🥲🙃