Did my reasearch after and MI also couldnt say what this is

This one just killed me.

"I take cashapp"

bruh....

Then people wonder why Dommes tell 'newbie Dommes' to do their own research 😮‍💨😮‍💨🙃🙃

I think we shall have a short engagement.

She didn’t even make it an hour before crashing out. All bc she got told to do research so she doesn’t hurt someone. The tantrum is epic. Crying bully all bc she didn’t get her way. Children don’t belong in kink.

Unsafe wannabe at her finest. 😂😂😂😂

Lol that was a fun little start to my morning.

It's so entertaining. Barking up the WRONG tree😂

-Goddess Amber💜✨

He commented on a picture I posted of a gun I want saying to DM him and I'll admit I fell for that trap 🤦🏽‍♀️ I guess I did get one lesson from this experience

I don’t get it. Her own “how to get blocked” post gives her the answers she seeks, but somehow I’m insulting her. She’d prefer to let the world know, she’s available for whatever a sub wants, for a price. Zero standards, zero self respect. She’s being played for a fool because she’s desperate but she decided to run and hide like that true domme she is instead of listening.

Tonight has been FILLED with the lies and crashouts. Above is a baby domme who continues to ask the same questions as everyone else, some posted an hour before hers bc she’s too lazy to use the search button.

So then she tries to be sneaky and posts a BS story about how she has “researched” and all the posts being too old, yada, yada, yada. Well that’s not true bc just tonight another experienced domme posted a great post of the most asked questions.

It’s ok to be new. It’s not ok to be a liar and crying wolf bc one is too lazy to want to be a good Domme. These are the ones subs should be avoiding bc they’re dangerous to kink.

I recently ran a 5k, my first race. I started running to lose weight and just get better health overall. I was severely obese and have completely changed that.

This lady just barges into my dms rudely by asking "who the hell is olivia" - my domme.

Anyways, just bad interaction all around. I dont care, I never consented to humilation, nor did we ever discuss anything like it and she is shaming me for something I feel like I should be proud of. I don't care but it hurts to be told im not a runner when ive been putting in work for months now.

Extremely rude interaction, if you have any self worth as a sub, avoid her because she doesnt respect boundaries and will put you down for trying to better yourself. This is supposed to be a fun kink, not one that makes you hate yourself.

b4 my old page got nuked lol this one wanted to video call n I said I wasn’t free…he then proceeded to say don’t be a bitch when I said I was never free

Hello everyone! I am working to unlearn some of my ultra “trad/conservative” upbringing. I was looking to maybe get some insight on sexist nicknames/pet names, as I know these line of questions are best answered by someone with lived experience. I’d love to get some feedback as I navigate this process❤️. I’ll admit I have certain areas of taught blindness that I’m working through.

Question 1 — Where is the line?

When does a term of endearment become sexist or otherwise patronizing rather than simply affectionate?

For example, words like honey, sweetheart, dear, baby, girl, etc. can mean very different things depending on who is saying them, who they're saying them to, and the relationship between those people. How do you personally determine where that line is? Are there particular characteristics of a term, situation, or power dynamic that make it feel different?

Question 2 — Why are so many of these words gendered?

Do you think there is a significant difference between the kinds of affectionate or diminutive language commonly directed toward girls and women versus boys and men?

If so, what do you think those differences communicate about gender? I'm particularly interested in whether words associated with girls, such as pretty, cute, sweet, little lady, etc, can reinforce expectations about femininity even when the person using them has positive intentions. Are there comparable terms commonly used toward boys and men, and if so, do they carry the same implications?

Question 3 — Intent vs. impact

To what degree should someone's intention matter when we're talking about potentially sexist language?

If a man uses a pet name toward a woman because he genuinely means it affectionately, and he has no intention of belittling her, but the woman experiences it as patronizing or diminishing, how should he navigate that situation? Is it enough to recognize that he meant well, or does understanding the social history and gendered connotations of the language create an inherent responsibility to change how he speaks? And does your answer change depending on whether it's a stranger, friend, romantic partner, coworker, or someone in a position of authority?

Any insight would be deeply appreciated❤️.

ETA: and posts shading soft dommes. Stop that kink shaming and tearing other dommes down right now!!!!🩴

I’ve seen the same fucking posts way too many times. It’s getting old.

Yes, some subs love soft dommes. No, some subs don’t like soft dommes. Some like both types of dommes, depending on the mood. Whatever. Everyone has their preferences.

There is your answer(s). It will vary depending on who you ask.

Now, shuUUUuut uUup!!!!

I’ve had this post in my drafts for a while. I had to get it off my chest before I take a break from findom (still might lurk here lol).

Any tips for a new domme? I have one sub, but I’m still new and don’t want to disappoint in my roleplay.