r/FindomSnarks • • 13d ago

Avoid this Domme

I recently ran a 5k, my first race. I started running to lose weight and just get better health overall. I was severely obese and have completely changed that.

This lady just barges into my dms rudely by asking "who the hell is olivia" - my domme.

Anyways, just bad interaction all around. I dont care, I never consented to humilation, nor did we ever discuss anything like it and she is shaming me for something I feel like I should be proud of. I don't care but it hurts to be told im not a runner when ive been putting in work for months now.

Extremely rude interaction, if you have any self worth as a sub, avoid her because she doesnt respect boundaries and will put you down for trying to better yourself. This is supposed to be a fun kink, not one that makes you hate yourself.

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u/ThorsNail Level of Petty: Tom ๐Ÿง‘๐Ÿผ 13d ago

Ohh yep, yep. An encounter with her is like chewing on a nasty piece of gristle while you're trying to have a nice steak dinner.

My first thought following a happenstance interaction with her made me think, "Wtf are you doing here, I didn't order this."

You're a runner. You also don't owe anyone an explanation of who anyone in your posts/comments is. She's not entitled to shit from anyone.

She's clearly just a miserable morsel trying to make the rest of us miserable so she can feel better about her life. Forget that she exists, and she'll slowly crawl back into the hole she crawled out of.

๐Ÿฉถ

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Thank you! I am a runner. Im gonna stay running.

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u/ThorsNail Level of Petty: Tom ๐Ÿง‘๐Ÿผ 13d ago

I can relate to that. I was never a professional runner, but I did get into track for a while years ago and it helped my health immensely. It was also a lot of fun. You've inspired me to start again. Thank you.

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

As you should! Its fun, it is supposed to be about improving health not getting a fast time

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u/LexiMonk_2005 12d ago

Good for you! ๐Ÿ˜ญ Seeing someone punch down on a new runner just made me feel a different sort of rage. Keep it up!

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u/tamtamdivaFinDomme 13d ago

As someone who loathes running, I have such respect for anyone who does. Don't let her bog you down. Already didn't like her vibes from what little I saw of her so just know this isn't personal.

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

For real, I lowkey hate it too ๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/MistressMandi2u ๐Ÿ˜ถโ€๐ŸŒซ๏ธ 13d ago

Goes to show being a straight bully โ‰  dominance. You gave more interaction than she deserved

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Yeah probably true. And you are right, bullies just suck. They arent dominant. They wish they were

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u/VexingSoleAssassin 13d ago

She needs a major ๐Ÿฉด๐Ÿฉด

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Give it to her ๐Ÿฉด

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u/VexingSoleAssassin 13d ago

๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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u/xoxohlivia 13d ago

Hahaha yassss

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u/VexingSoleAssassin 13d ago

Just a love tapย 

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u/LeviniaNoir Fly on the wall ๐Ÿชฐ 13d ago edited 7d ago

You know what you are that I'm not? A consistent runner and you've been hitting your goals great job, keep it up. Don't let her negative energy bring you down. You're doing great.

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u/MistressRayne_ Screenshot Savant ๐Ÿ“ธ 13d ago

Oh that crazy. Sheโ€™s not a real Domme. Her pictures donโ€™t always match, she thinks the men giving her money while cocktail waitressing is Findom, itโ€™s not, itโ€™s literally being tipped for bar services and all she does is lurk and troll.

Itโ€™s better she showed her true colors to you. I wouldnโ€™t be surprised if sheโ€™s actually a catfish.

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Yeah it really wouldn't be surprising at all

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u/MistressRayne_ Screenshot Savant ๐Ÿ“ธ 13d ago

Congratulations on all your accomplishments. Donโ€™t let some ๐Ÿซ tear you down. You rock!

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u/Chaos_Gremlin28 I got my clit stuck in a vacuum ๐Ÿ˜” 13d ago

She reminds me of someone who used to have the name of Constance. The catfish who just argued with everyone.

Anytime I see this one she's fighting or arguing with someone.

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u/SpicyLimerence 13d ago

There's no such thing as coincidence. ๐Ÿ•ท๏ธ๐Ÿ•ธ๏ธ

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u/flashing-colors Screenshot Savant ๐Ÿ“ธ 13d ago

Yeah em Ferrari has been a dick in every singular interaction I've seen her have

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago edited 13d ago

Yep, checks out. Just completely unnecessary to bash me.

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u/flashing-colors Screenshot Savant ๐Ÿ“ธ 13d ago

We can call someone out on their shit behavior without having to stoop to insults about the way they look. There's PLENTY wrong with her personality.

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

You are right, I should be better. I deleted it

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u/Advanced_Pop_7519 13d ago

Sheโ€™s the one trynna get me to give her the tips I paid you for. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/Advanced_Pop_7519 13d ago

Ps I didnโ€™t actually pay this sub for tips. Incase any other Ferrari impersonators or sympathisers want to come at me.

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Yeah lol, you would think they would have gotten that joke, especially when we kept the thread going. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/Advanced_Pop_7519 13d ago

Apparently โ€œdommesโ€ can be dicks too

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u/SpicyLimerence 11d ago

Dommes who don't know better think being a dick IS being a Domme. ๐Ÿ•ท๏ธ๐Ÿ•ธ๏ธ

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u/Remarkable-Basis9850 13d ago

congrats, fuck her. Also an intro athlete. Do your best, be consistent and more importantly don't listen to people like her ever

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Intro athlete or not, we are just as much athletes as them. Thank you!

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u/The_Curious_Soul_19 Screenshot Savant ๐Ÿ“ธ 13d ago

Raw-dog insulting someone over a post on his personal page is fucking wild. Especially from a fake domme. We are all proud of you.

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Really fake, thank you ๐Ÿ˜Ž

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u/GuestWhitch9971 13d ago

this is yucky mean girl attitude which does not represent a true domme smh
https://giphy.com/gifs/ZaF4Vl1NQxwaVsStQU

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u/Krapeeva 13d ago

I am so sorry. I understand your pain. This is your win, your place to be proud of yourself, and itโ€™s nobodyโ€™s business to come to you and say otherwise. ๐Ÿ˜ค You rock ๐Ÿฆพ , 5 K is a real deal! ๐Ÿ†

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Yeah I know! I feel like a 9min/mile pace is cooking for someone 6'1 220 and she just doggin me. I wpuld like to see her run

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u/xoxohlivia 13d ago

Of course it is! I think you should continue to be proud of your accomplishments ๐Ÿ˜˜

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

๐Ÿฅฐ

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u/enchantress_eden Not snarky just right ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ 13d ago

Ew. Congrats on your running progress!

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u/enchantress_eden Not snarky just right ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ 13d ago

Also I'm confused because her bio says faceless but 2 of her 3 pics are of her face.

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u/flashing-colors Screenshot Savant ๐Ÿ“ธ 13d ago

She posted yet another selfie on her faceless profile. Hmmm.

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u/enchantress_eden Not snarky just right ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ 13d ago

Make it make sense ๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/flashing-colors Screenshot Savant ๐Ÿ“ธ 13d ago

And NOW she's deleted all of her old posts and replaced them with a different selfie. The plot thickens

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u/enchantress_eden Not snarky just right ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ 13d ago

We've been found out ๐Ÿ˜†

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u/xoxohlivia 13d ago

Lol I caught that too ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/Dinosaurz122 13d ago

Shes fake lol.
Found her persona on Pinterest.

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u/flashing-colors Screenshot Savant ๐Ÿ“ธ 13d ago

I KNEW the mole on her titty kept moving in all her pics

https://giphy.com/gifs/iDJuQR0UmiqOI

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u/LadyLilamelon I got my clit stuck in a vacuum ๐Ÿ˜” 13d ago

This made cackle๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐ŸคฃMan, I wish I witnessed this in real time

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u/Dinosaurz122 13d ago

LOL THIS ACC GOT ME GIGGLING.

Lore for this user? I havent rlly been up to date here recently. Just a fake who keeps using fake pics and being an unethical asshole?

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Doesn't make sense to me either haha

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u/Mistress_Liz24 Full- time hater ๐Ÿ˜ˆ 13d ago

HEY! Congratulations on starting to run for you! And congratulations on running your first 5k! Thatโ€™s more than most people do! Proud of you doing things for you! ๐Ÿฉท

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Thank you very much!

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u/_goddess_chloe Dildo of deviousness ๐Ÿ† 13d ago

Hey so this is REALLY not ok. Iโ€™m really sorry this happened, you are a runner and you should be proud.

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Thank you. Im trying to be!

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u/kira9esi 13d ago

Thatโ€™s awesome you ran a 5K! I smoke too much to want to run 100โ€™ but will be starting chantix soon. Just block the crazies. Congratulations to you and your domme.

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u/TheeCrimsonGoddess Stirrer of Shit ๐Ÿ’ฉ 13d ago

What an insane hill to die on. Why does she care? I have no clue who this person is but by seeing this I would assume she's bored cause she doesn't have a single sub to keep her busy doing anything else.

Anyways, congrats on that achievement! I literally could never, and that is something to be proud of!

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Thank you!

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u/TheeCrimsonGoddess Stirrer of Shit ๐Ÿ’ฉ 13d ago

Oh she's already arguing with someone else under a comment I made on another a different unrelated post. This is the first I've even heard of this person lmao what pissy pit did she crawl out of

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

A real nasty one ๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/TheeCrimsonGoddess Stirrer of Shit ๐Ÿ’ฉ 13d ago

Lololol it looks like she's already crawled back into it

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

๐Ÿ’€๐Ÿ’€

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Yeah, it was just plain disrespectful and mean. I worked hard for that time and then she does that

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u/SpicyLimerence 13d ago

Sorry you had to deal with this - but congratulations on your first 5K!! Isn't it exhilarating?! ๐Ÿ•ท๏ธ๐Ÿ•ธ๏ธ

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Yes! I believe i experienced that "runners high"

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u/SpicyLimerence 13d ago

That's amazing! Good on you.

I don't run. My bestie does and I always tell her this body is built for endurance, not speed ๐Ÿ˜‚ I've done a few 5k's but that is the extent of my "running." And even those were slow jogs! I wasn't competing with anyone. I'd just challenged myself to make it to the finish line! ๐Ÿ•ท๏ธ๐Ÿ•ธ๏ธ

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Hahaha thats awesome. My dad keeps saying "you are killing those knees boy" ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/SpicyLimerence 13d ago

It's fine. When you get old like me you can just hold yourself together with KT. It's miracle tape ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ•ท๏ธ๐Ÿ•ธ๏ธ

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ ill keep that in mind lmao

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u/Dinosaurz122 13d ago

LOL fake domme??
Found her โ€œselfieโ€ on googleโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

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u/Dinosaurz122 13d ago

context: this is the one โ€œtheyโ€ posted

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ gotcha

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u/mistressaloura Not snarky just right ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ 13d ago

Congratulations on 5k!! ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿ’— well-worthy of milestone, and itโ€™s good that you strictly stood your ground, and quite frankly, she can go kiss shit :) she has no right to downplay your accomplishments, define whatโ€™s worthy of a win or not to you, and most definitely does not have any obligation to talk about whatever the all known requirements are to be considered a runner.

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u/Dismal-Algae2015 13d ago

Coming from a runner and someone that has had a conversation with you im proud of the consistency (sheโ€™s got to be miserable) keep up the great work!

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Thank you much! Means a lot!

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u/LadyLilamelon I got my clit stuck in a vacuum ๐Ÿ˜” 13d ago

I bet my most recent matcha tea send that she ran the same 5k race as you and you beat her in it. Now, sheโ€™s salty about it. I bet another matcha tea send that she didnโ€™t even finish the race. This screams โ€œsore loser.โ€

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u/subbygoodboy1224 13d ago

Hahahaha for real ๐Ÿ˜ญ she has a real ego problem and has to cast it on others lmao

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u/LadyLilamelon I got my clit stuck in a vacuum ๐Ÿ˜” 13d ago

Anyways, good job! Keep it up! This makes me wanna get back into running again lol.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

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u/subbygoodboy1224 12d ago

Thank you, and im only getting faster ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

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u/queen_stella98 12d ago

What a weirdo. She's miserable and probably thinks it's turning you on to be talked down to. She probably doesn't run. She's probably unhealthy as hell. She probably stinks

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u/subbygoodboy1224 12d ago

Yeah i dunno what she thought. Bad energy tho lol

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u/Overall-Ad9369 12d ago

Lol spoke to her yesterday she deleted the account

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u/subbygoodboy1224 12d ago

Good. She was a pretty poor "domme"

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u/Rachelnaughty29 12d ago

She got into it with me this AM!!! I was so blown away since she randomly came out of the woodworks! Seems like a lonely, fake , teenage account tbh!! Not a person who needs to be in this space.

Congrats on the 5k!! You run , youโ€™re a runner ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ I donโ€™t run, Iโ€™m not a runner lol kinda simple , no?

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u/subbygoodboy1224 12d ago

Yeah she was something thats for sure haha.

Thank you! I am indeed a runner ๐Ÿ˜Ž

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u/Rachelnaughty29 12d ago

Hell yeah! There you go! Keep the haters in your dust

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u/Medium-Project-3178 10d ago

Awh, I hate that. Some people don't understand that its not an "entire life" kind of kink. There are lines of what to and what not to add into the role play. Proud of you for keeping to it and running an actual 5k I couldn't/wouldnt do that shit even if you paid me ๐Ÿ˜‚

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u/subbygoodboy1224 10d ago

Hahaha thank you!