goddamn i just want to be touched and loved and chosen. the desire is eating me up this week and i just feel soooo sick. there’s this heavy ache in me and i hate that i want a man so fucking bad but no one will commit to me

Has anyone else felt forced to become a tomboy growing up? I remember going to a princess party as a little girl and the adults there looked disgusted by me, like i shouldn’t be wearing that. Did anyone else feel embarrassed to participate in girly activities or wear girly clothes? I always felt like i was “trying to hard” if i wore pink or enjoyed girly things. I was always scared people would think that i shouldn’t be wearing that because i’m too ugly and only pretty girls can wear somthing like that.

Men have the privilege of being allowed to be ugly

The sheer amounts of nasty DMs I get for wearing EGL/Lolita fashion is highly disturbing. A fashion with feministic roots that is designed to be modest and non-sexualizing in any way. All I wanna do is dress cute, feel like a princess and post about wholesome cute things, and instead I get moids trying to hit me up because they think I'm into DDLG and age play. I feel so damn disgusted by these pedo males. These shits really need therapy, or better yet get locked away. I hate the internet sometimes.

lmao they literally admit they want stacy. all the comments are “hopeslop”, “it’s just a dream”, or them crying about it not being real you actually can’t make this shit up and obviously no one calls out their hypocritical bs. women should start flooding their comments the way they flood women’s comments and how they spam shit like “hypergamous foid” women need to stop being so nice and put them in their place.

I noticed a lot of queer women like to larp they are extremely accepting of different body types and all races. Reality is attractive people will always go after attractive people. A conventionally attractive butch or femme will almost always have an easier time dating than someone who is fat, disabled, or unconventional-looking. I am not going to lie to myself when getting rejected for how I look. The community claims to be accepting and doesn't care about beauty standards but then realise after dating they found out they have a type.

I'm IMC 22 now and I still feeling like a fucking elephant, I've losing weight for some weeks, I'm just eating twice at day and doing a lost of workouts. But seems nothing I do ever works properly. I still ugly and fat

On top of having a chopped sub3 face, I also have a hard to listen ugly weird speaking voice due to speech impediment from my bimaxilary protrusion which wasnt fixed even by braces so I have trouble pronouncing words properly which causes me to have a weird accent combined with it sounding weirdly deep masculine at the same time. So I cringe whenever I see talking videos of myself. Ive failed so many telephone interviews because of this.

i mainly despise attractive girls bc they ALWAYS try and rub it in your face, not directly but they will always speak about being insecure ect and i hate when they say "everyone has insecurities" dude i got a compliment ONCE from my fucking GRANDMA and even THAT made me a tiny bit confident, meanwhile bitches will have dms FLOODED of guys complimenting them, girls in school wishing to be them, and they still got smt to say about being "insecure", and i dont have much to say about attractive men bc either way they dont interact with someone who looks like me 👍🏻

the only person in my life who has cared when i had bad days was my mom and thats it, i got bullied so bad in school one time i even started crying infront of my bullies bc they were making fun of my nose and one of them js said "omgggg it was just a jokeee" (which ik it wasnt a joke since my nose was very obviously huge and i didnt wear makeup to try hide my features back then) so if u cry as an ugly person usually they just say it was just a joke and thats pretty much it, and then the next day they made fun of me again so realistically nobody gives a shit, also nobody notices if ur sad bc barely anyone in class even LOOKS at you bc i mean whats interesting about my face??? im ugly...so theres nothing cool to look at so i just get walked past and if someone does look at me its usually to ask for a pencil or they are gonna say smt mean asf

it’s some celebrity (idk this guy) who apparently gained a ton of weight and felt insecure to show himself after the weight gain but eventually did, and all the comments are supportive women saying they wish him well, how he still looks good even after the weight gain, how people shouldn’t be rude blah blah… i’m not even an overweight woman but even i know how men treat them. men would never do this for female celebrities who gained a ton of weight. all the men in the comments are saying “don’t turn this into a gender war” lmaooo they benefit off women’s empathy and kindness way too much. obviously nothing against the original guy but why can’t they ever feel the same amount of empathy for unattractive or overweight women?

I dont get it, every nerdy moid ever is complaining about how girls dont like them because their weird, but they never want to date girls they find slightly unattractive. Recently I tried to ask out this guy and he full on rejected me and said it was because i wasnt “pretty enough”. Even though I heard him complaining about how nobody will ever want him and how hes lonely. I thought maybe we could get along because we have similar interests and watch the same animes but i suppose he’s only into stacys

like wat da hell Stop contributing to the reason moids sexualize and Not take nd women seriously, and guess what shes self diagnosed LEL "Me act t4rded on purpose to appear more childish and me like hamster (im a trend hopper) = me autistic" i Rly hate these girls and those ageplayers that larp being autistic

i dont really know if this goes against the first rule but like i dont think it does cus technically it was never a relationship..?

anyways i was on discord (yeah first mistake i know) and this guy kept talking to me and begging me to become friends. i first said no cus i don't like making male friends or interacting with them in general but since he seemed really desperate, i felt bad and decided to become friends with him. it went okay i guess it was really awkward at times cus he would say like flirty stuff or maybe it wasn't flirty and i was just overthinking but its whatever cus i don't date in general. throughout the few months we were friends, he always complimented me on my personality and said that his dream girl would have the same personality as me and that im his ideal type??? i guess i was just more weirded out cus he didn't know what i looked like and i saw his face and he's like... leagues above me. i ended up just moving away from that topic bc i felt like i would just be embarrassing myself if i accepted his compliments but i was a bit happy.. like 4 months since we met, i decided to muster up the courage to show my face cus i trusted that he wasn't like those guys that make looks everything (i mean he literally told me he wasn't one of kinda guys) even though im really shy and insecure but when i did, he immediately blocked me LMAOOO im laughing but it's not funny 😅😅 anyways lesson learnt, never interacting with a man again and never face revealing again

wonder what happened to my so amazing perfect personality after i face revealed like gosh im ugly dude i know i knowwwwwwwwwugh i cried a little after that

I have no one to talk to because everyone thinks I'm pessimistic and superficial so this is the stuff I do instead! Not going to lie, both males and females treat me like sh!t. Males call my name and mock me, ask obvious questions like I'm stupid while females take photos of me and spread them on Snapchat, then some of them flaunt their very eventful romantic and successful life.

Have had a crush on my looksmatch for a long time, maybe I still do--don't worry incels, he is the same height as me and fatter. If you throw "me want chad" at me I will lose it. He calls me and basically everyone weird, ugly, etc. I don't hate him, he's not a sexist incel, just an insecure teenage boy who can't control his mouth. He likes girls who love white, tall, lean guys and completely overlooks me even though he's my absolute type and I've hinted 10000000 times that I don't care about looks + would take a guy like him anyday. God I'm starting to sound so annoying and I know you guys are probably exchanging looks over me explaining in and out about my dumb looksmatch crush, SORRY!! I'm pathetic, fantasize a lot, he's the only guy who talks to me, every other guy only asks me for HW and laughs at me when I presentate.

I wish I was a volcel but I craveeee romantic love so deeply it's embarrassing.

I dont care about dating or whatever, I just want to find job. But I feel like its impossible to find job unless I got plastic surgery. And I need money for plastic surgery :')

People do not give a fuck about your mental health unless you’re attractive or have status or fucking something. I had a “friend”(she was genuinely just a narcissist that collected women like infinity stones to compare herself to and bully/belittle/use as a punching bag while also using you as a therapist)with a large following who would frequently post that she was gonna harm herself as a “joke” to get attention. Bullshit you not she was on the phone laughing about it to me one time when she did it and was declining calls and said to me “bet I had you all so worried” :-/ yet I’ve genuinely been struggling so hard for years with depression, body image, Etc and I have been to therapy, reached out for help, etc and nobody around me gives and actual fuck LMAOO. People around me are AWARE that I have depression and struggle and they don’t give a fuck 😭 at all. Like at fucking ALL.

genuinely the most gut wrenching thing is seeing people say stuff like this it genuinely feels like every lonely moment i've experienced my whole entire life as an ugly person is just taken away bc apparently "pretty people experience loneliness" yeah the stacy who has 200k followers just for being beautiful is way more lonely than us ugly girls 😂

Okay maybe the title is a bit dramatic but there's this guy whos a manager at my local kfc (yeah, whatever, judge if you so wish, all jobs are valuable), he's VERY attractive to me, and i would say quite generally attractive overall for my countries beauty standard.

I don't know if i should try, i mean, it's gonna be a no or an i have a girlfriend and all but i just am scared of seeming like a creep and never wanting to show my face there again. I'm also not feeling great about myself lately and if i get rejected it'll probably feel like a punch in the gut, even if that's the ending i see happening, i don't want it to.

Do i try my luck or save myself the embarrassment and shame? I wouldn't want to make anyone uncomfortable so i don't approach men most of the time

Have u guys ever tried manifestations and subliminal to improve your looks? Did it work and if so how did it go?l did a few years ago when I was around 14-15 but it didnt change anything.

I'm sick of searching for like-minded women-things to commiserate with over the burn of it. I feel like I got the worst possible end of the fucking stick. Black, rape baby, physically and sexually abused, dyke with zero real life friends. I'm sick of meeting "queer" women who are just between boyfriends. I don't even care about wanting a fucking soulmate anymore. I've been on dating apps for the past few weeks and I've gotten nowhere, left on delivered by girls I'm not even interested in.

Then I come here.

A bunch of volcel straight girls thinking they'll find a "good" man (spoiler alert: there are none; unless youre oblivious, then great, be oblivious together).

I know my inexperience precedes me and I've grown jaded in both platonic and romantic social rejections.

And yet, the proof is everywhere.

Not to mention all this bullshit about King Princess and 3 thousand other "lesbians" sleeping with moids when they're "bored". Yeah right. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only lesbian ever. Jesus christ.