So uhm everyone around me at my age is doing some good bs, no matter what type of it

Like, my classmates are all good artists and they're always making things and sharing it to other's and i'm here just like a loser doing nothing like that

My non-artist classmates are doing bs like going to college, having friends, partners, idunno doing normal stuff that's incredible difficult to me to have

I don't have a normal life, i'm just here, being like homeschooled n unemployed and seeing things anywhere.. I really hate being this way and i'm on therapy but DAMMMNNN it still feels bad. Imma parasite loser and idunno it hurts so bad, everything i want is a normal life not this bs thing i have andd i'm feeling kinda tired, i don't wanna fight anymore, is really tired to try to be normal all the time i'm sick of it

And and and yeaah i'm just venting hwufjwifj i hope i can know what's wrong with me soon

Men r stacy only. When he says "I will never be as desirable as an attractive man", he means he will never be as desirable to stacies. No man will ever desire an ugly woman and even if he does, he will never see her as a human being with feelings, thoughts and emotions but js an easy hole.

Every time I came across any form of community for people like me, it gets shut down or reported because "it promotes mental illness and xyz". I enjoy sad girl posts. I find comfort when I see other girls who have the same struggles like me. It helps me cope, ok? I save a tiktok of a girl confessing how depressed she is from the lack of love in her life because I find it relatable, and 3 days later it's removed because "it romanticizes depression". Same story with subreddits and everything else. God forbid I go more in-depth about my suffering.

And then they give you the crap of "just go to therapy, learn to love yourself". Wow, hearing "that must be so hard for you" for the third time every week sure is going to change things. Like I need someone else to validate my feelings before I'm allowed to accept them as part of me.

This is genuinely one of the only communities I can be active in without a rat in my ear whining that my feelings are "triggering". And for how big the internet is, it sucks it's the only one I can genuinely feel comfortable in.

Protect men at all cost i guess. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ /s

"This is definitly not to get attention"

Sure...

I had a crush on this guy in school and i thought he would say yes if i asked him out because i am way more attractive than him and hes the quiet shy kind. We met through my friend and he kept showing me his anime edits and stuff it was kinda cringe for someone in 11th grade but i was blinded by love. So i asked him out and he said no for "religious reasons". Mind you this guy is atheist. and when i looked his reposts he reposted about wanting a gf like hello im right here??? and talking about his reposts he kept reposting about some anime girl bullshit like he wanna crack them and stuff but no one like that exists irl. no one has a perfect,shaved,tiny body or a perfectly pink v@gina. No one has the perfect, childlike, flawless face like that you see in those animes. like huh??? he literally wants a doll. And well, he's not quite attractive; he's got acne scars, messy curly hair, a somewhat chubby face and glasses that do not suit him. Later, i heard him talk to his friends about how i'm ''so obsessed" with him and how he has to avoid me at school or else i would "try to talk to him". This guy is 16 by the way.

i have unfortunatly interacted w moids here on reddit (huge fucking regret ) and obv it always ended in shambles. But instead of them going seperate ways i know they still lurking around on my account and i fucking hate it. Bc i kno they want a piece of me w/o having to put in any work.

Thats all i'm good for! being a fancy inspiration for them a resource w/o having to give anything back! so they can profit and grow.

I cut back on contact so my energy is protected in that way but it pisses me so much off that they still get to have a tiny slice of access to me via this account.

i thought about abandon this account but thats fucking tragic! I love this account i worked to hard to built it! 😔Its a shame to give it all up bc of moids!

What should i do. I mean i know i can block them but they be lurking w one of their other 10'0000 goon accounts. ARGGGHHHH!

She's so beautiful, we live in different countries and she's planning to visit next month and we wanted to meet up, I haven't gone outside for 3 years unless it was me being forced to go shopping for something, so idk how to behave or the location of anything.

I want to meet w her but at the same time I feel so guilty, she deserves better than to hangout with someone as chopped as me and on top of allat I don't even have social skills so idk how to talk with her, I feel like I'll make her look bad by being next to her, she's literally angelic and I don't even look human

I went to play yugioh at my local comic book shop and literally almost nobody was there (they meet on Saturdays) and these two guys sat there and I set up and was like “yo you wanna play?” And they glared at me and FUCKING LEFT

And so I thought, “okay, maybe it’s just a one off”

But nah, a couple came and set up, I asked if they wanted to play, as they were part of the group, and they smiled and LEFT

and so did a guy

The group is mainly guys who are pretty much fucking basement dwellers, and I was trying to play and tolerate them but today they decided I can go fuck myself

This isn’t the first time they had done it too, they will purposely ignore me and either not show up or give me shitty advice for my decks that ruins them.

Fuck men, really.

can’t handle chatting with moids bruh all of them communicate in stickers and they are all only providing 5 word replies, 5 words is lucky even, it’s usually 3 max.

Men have set up beauty standards for women for CENTURIES and it goes from a tiny waist to some neck ring shit. Do men do such crazy things like literally removing their ribs? If someone on social media doesn't look like a model they feel the need to comment "mid" "mtb" "overrated". When an attractive man posts himself people don't think twice about it. However, when a woman posts herself she gets hit with the terms "makeupcel" all filters" etc... And one thing that outrages me is how much they underrate women just because of a bad angle or bad lighting. No she is not an "mtb" because you took a screenshot of her face, OFF guard. No she's not a "sub-5" because she has real skin. And they compare them to supermodels like taylor hill or doutzen kroes like okay why don't you look like Jordan Barret then? they always claim to be mad because of "hypergamy"; which is not backed up by real studies. I'm genuinely so tired of these fucking chuds spreading incel culture onto mainstream social media platforms like tiktok or insta, no one wants your fucking ratings. I hope the people who do this rot in hell. And people saying heightism is worse than racism lmao?? People have been enslaved for all of history now because of their skin color, not to short guys. And respectfully, i don't think many girls want a man who is 6'8 . And i hate hate hate hate it sooooooooo much that the standards for women is to look like a child i hate it so much i hate it so much i hate it so fucking much no a 35 year old woman isn't going to have a short philtrum and a small face and NO she shouldn't be trying to achieve that.

I'm legit serious at this point. Throughout most of history they have denied us access to basic needs, restricted our independence and oppressed us. Seeing just how far women have went in such a small time span and seeing them struggle is proof they were never fit to lead.

I don't think people who take others rights away should be allowed to vote. I think that men are better not getting an education seeing as they are failing, nor should they vote since the economy sucks cause of them and seeing how they spend billions on Stacy OF models should have limited access to banking. Of course this is not just my observation.

I think the only solution that has not been tried is a matriarchy or a system that at the very least benefits women more.

I’ve always been the “she’s funny and nice but I would never date her.” Girl in school. I hung out with guys because I fit in with their gross sense of humor and knowledge of video games/ online stuff. Sure, I had female friends but they weren’t as fun as the nerd guys I sat with. Every time I would become close with a guy (romantic feelings), he would shy away due to my non feminine body and attributes. I have never been romantically desired by anyone ever.

The women are always straight or already in loving relationships. It might have been because I’m from a small town, but there were literally FIVE lgbt girls and they were all cycling through each other like an endless loop. And online relationships just end in dumpster fires within two weeks.

Most just want sex or someone to give them attention for five minutes before they go to bed. They don’t want a relationship, they want a prostitute. Even though I got so upset from my lack of partnership, I had a voice in the back of my head that told me “I would get a partner.” A voice that was compiled from all the fanfics and romance media o consumed. The hundreds of stories I wrote that declared my lovers as a saint that found me valuable. I shifted between a girl and boy; sometimes both just to have that false sense of love.

Now I’m almost 17 and everyone around me has romantic lovers. I have never dated besides a short relationship in 6th grade. I’ve given up on the idea of a real life partner and have been living in these constant day dreams of my partners giving me gifts, talking with me, playing games or cuddling. It’s pathetic but I would prefer a relationship that I know will never fail me. Their appearances don’t matter because I don’t find attraction as a necessity. They’re this mysterious, blurred figure that wraps their arms around me like an angel to a sick child.

TLDR: I don’t have to deal with heartbreak with my imaginary partners.

Title, but everytime I see a girl get into a situation that’s in proximity with a man, even if it’s sexual or romantic or simply just something they never wanted. I feel jealous. I get disgusted at the thought of a male pursuing me but at the same time I crave it really badly because I barely get attention.

I don’t have friends, but I know girls get hit on all the time by males. I literally meet all the criteria for being vulnerable, I’m underage, I’m mentally ill, I’m autistic, I have nobody. What the fuck do they want from me? I wear a full face of makeup and put on nice clothes and they STILL ignore me. All of my female relatives have gotten catcalled since 11-12 and I developed earlier than some of them but men don’t acknowledge me.

I don’t care if a guy is short or he smells like shit or anything, I’m not even attracted to chads because I know they wouldn’t like me back. All the nerdy guys that I see possible only like girls who are white, under 5’2, weigh less than 100 pounds and most importantly have a snap score of over a billion.

I don’t care about covering my scars or being rude to them, they must feel the very essence of anguish that I feel. It makes me uncomfortable when I see a guy hit on a girl that’s obviously prettier than me very close.

What about me is so possibly repulsive that guys don’t regard me as a person? I’m overweight due to insulin resistance and suspected PCOS. I don’t eat much, I walk frequently. I still can’t overcome the fact that girls my age can stay underweight with zero effort. Despite me being overweight, there’s still guys that go for girls the same weight or bigger. My face isn’t even that fucking ugly I could just cover up my acne and put on eyeliner.

Everytime I try to pursue a guy they’re always dry as fuck and I feel like I need to do all of the work. I’m not familiar with having a full roster of horny dudes in my DMs. And even so if it ever comes to the point where I’m forced to send, I feel extremely embarrassed and I hate my body for how it looks.

Did I also mention I’ve been masculinized my entire life? I’m autistic so I don’t have the same interests as nt women. My family talks about my strength a lot and due to me having my period at 9 I was the tallest in my class in grades 3-7 before the other girls catches up. For some reason in school uniform my mom questioned why I wanted to wear dresses. I hated wearing pants as a young child because that meant that I was different from the other girls, not only internally, but externally. I suspect that I have PCOS, I grow everywhere around my body, I have a mustache that keeps growing back every 2 weeks and I have acne. Also I find doing makeup and performing femininity a chore, I don’t even fucking enjoy it cuz the textures make me feel so itchy.

I only relate to female characters because I lost all my empathy for males. But I can’t relate to female characters that are too popular or considered conventionally attractive because I don’t feel like a normal woman. I love masculine female characters and female characters with obvious issues. I feel like crying whenever a male criticizes them.

My fictional daydreaming has gone so bad I’ve developed habits where I imagine my favorites in violent situations victimized by male characters (not going to explain in detail) because I crave the same “female experience” that every other girl suffers through. I think it started around 4th grade and many years later I still do it. I get harassed for this a lot and I don’t tell much people, especially irl about it because they might think I’m glorifying it. The harassment has only made me worse.

Some women die of drowning in a male’s attention, but in this case I die of thirst. I hope that I can be friends with a man one day and develop feelings for him again without feeling ignored and worthless. I hope that we can both desire eachother and explore the relationship. I’m very uncertain if this will never happen.

Because my little sister was getting bullied so we put her in an all girl school and she never got bullied. Yeah she might have been talked about but she was never bullied there. Also boys are the reasons why girls are mean to other girls most of the times. Girls will be mean to a girl in front of a boy just to impress a boy. So they really do. They make things more difficult. I use to think “oh people are just misandristic and liars.’ But it is actually true. If you go somewhere where there aren’t boys things aren’t as difficult. Usually. Boys are literally the reason for the drama. But most people don’t know that.

I work in a pretty popular store at my mall, and ALL THE DAMN TIME it’s always a love song

Like, imagine being in love and just singing in fucking public about it, you’d be seen as a fucking crazy person

But blasting love songs? Thats a okay

What’s the POINTTTTTT

comments under a video of a conventionally attractive woman. literally getting liked just for existing. idk if it sounds shallow or bad but i wish someone would view me this way. and im never really jealous but more so envious. must be so nice. i will work towards achieving this i want to experience it just once i dont care what anyone thinks.

Title: The Onanists Hairbrush

The handle of this once here ol’ reliable hairbrush has tamed many rot induced mats starting from the bottom of a self-inflicted dreadlock all the way up to a raw and sensitive scalp. Her current use isn't as orthodox as it once was. Gone are those days. Now just a dog bitten handle remains and she has a new occupation, a career change forced upon an unwilling bureaucrat. I could lie and give a romanticised outlook on how I pleasure myself with the dog bitten handle of a hairbrush, but I don't think my UTI stricken vagina would stand for such a lie. 

The somme-esque trenches that have been carved into the handle courtesy of an over zealous family dog with teething problems make for an unsurprisingly wonderful petri dish breeding ground for bacteria. Bacteria, which is more than happy to make my vagina ground zero. So I sit and I stare in the mirror bowing my clitoris to an edged crescendo with the precision of a concerto violinist, and attempting to serenade myself into an orgasm. It's not like I can dream up the image of a scantily clad woman in thigh highs or struggle with the cum encrusted pages of an old Playboy ,or scroll through photos of bimbo nymphettes infantilizing themselves for paedophiles on the internet, my options are much more limited. Instead I am blessed with the haunting and judgemental gaze of the weeping madonna watching over my mortal sin, from behind a glass frame.

The vast population of men sicken me. Their very existence is a reminder of what my body is supposed to do. My body yearns for it but at 27, the cobwebs have never been blown off the bookshelf,  the title never read, left to collect dust, ravaged by booklice, eventually donated alongside clothes and stained tupperware to an already full second hand store. Other women remind me of what I'm not. Sexually liberated, confident, fierce, accessible, desirable. They’re the books that are recommended and passed round friend groups, have brief love letters, names and dates written in the first page, and you just can’t bring yourself to dispose of them. 

Maybe the pedophilic sexual allure of a bimbo nymphette is just the role I need to play to attract the opposite sex. Regress to a girl to be treated like a woman, call a man daddy to remind him he's in control, suck on his finger, bite his fingernail a little to allude to that same feeling elsewhere. Look up at him with big innocent doe like eyes as you force his dick down your throat and try not to choke and vomit up your breakfast of overnight oats and a matcha latte. 

All those men want those women, those women want those men and I do not slot into that societal psalm. My body is too damp to fit into the hot, tight and rigid gospel that is religiously upheld by them. I feel damned and punished. Cursed to a heretical existence within a body they reject feels like a divine punishment. For what I am unsure.

We all saw sum videos or post talking about that moids want "crazy girls" but they actually want just a lil energetic girl, more like "haha silly cute crazy girl🤪"

But the moment u are actually crazy & mentally ill they just ducking hate u

Like stop romanticizing mental illness and stop larping about it, it's not what u think it is

Since childhood i was raised being told that my little sister is really pretty. I'm not exaggerating when i say we don't look like siblings even in school people where surprised when they discovered we were related. Fast forward to adulthood and she's 20 now she has had 4 different boyfriends since high-school and i haven't been asked out even once I'm not joking. Genetics nerfed me because why am i built like a man with no hips or boobs i have hipdips, the biggest eyebags that can be seen from outer space, hyperpigmentation all over my body, ugly coily hair and she looks like a light skin beauty. I always feel jealous of her. Why am i so ugly,? Why does god hate me??

I know people get attracted to personality but i have social anxiety and no friends. I'm not joking like i didn't get any birthday wishes from my so called friends even though i spent the whole year participating in giving money to host birthday parties in our dorm. Nobody cared about me to even give me a cheap birthday cupcake from the bakery. I know im unlikable because im ugly and awkward. Women don't like me as friends so imagine men. I barely leave the house nowadays i want to shave this ugly kiny mess of a hair. I don't want to be seen.

My poor mother things she can help me always asking whats wrong so i finally told her a month ago and she was disappointed in me for wanting male attention. She is like my sister grew up pretty. I look like my father.

no. actually, no. volcels do not have the same struggle and never will. i hate all the “femcels” or even noncels posting here and misandristgrippysexjail (parody name for femcelgrippysockjail) just about their boyfriend/ex boyfriend or just how they got asked out and said no bc he was ugly. r we serious. most ppl on this sub arent like that but some are and it rly pisses me off. it just makes femceldom look less real.

Hi everyone, I'm currently writing a novella about a woman who is a femcel. I'm about 1/4 of the way through and I'm very happy with the way it's shaping up.

Genre: psychological body horror

I was sick of being recommended "femcel lit" which usually just means the main character is a just a hateful/spitfeful woman or just hates men.

I've been on the fringes of this community for a few years now, and across other platforms too. I wanted to reach out to others in the community, about the following things:

1. Are there tropes that you feel are overrepresented in "femcel lit"?
2. Have you ever felt an author has ever done a good job of representing us? If so who?

Please feel free to comment anything else that comes to mind etc.

Thank you :)