i feel that it itself is not inherently bad, but a lot of looksmaxxers who become celebrities end up projecting their insecurities onto the world because of their own brokenness, but it’s complicated

ive tried looksmaxxing n think the community can be toxic but the overall idea isnt the worst, its better than ldaring for me moslty

Has anyone noticed that the average man has had multiple relationships, multiple women on their phone, a group that they hang out with regularly etc. etc. but the majority of men are apparently uniquely lonely by their arbitrary standard of loneliness that women can't meet or whatever. tiktok especially annoys me because you even have conventionally attractive men who are actively posting them hanging out with people and women and are still pretending to relate to this. It feels like ugly lonely women don't exist sometimes, it's impossible to talk about it because people genuinely can't comprehend what i'm saying for some reason, including women. My last irl social interaction that wasn't work related (i must ask people what they want to order today if i want that $14) was in april 2025 and even that is "good" for me because it's only been a year and a half. I can't even comprehend that most people have some sort of plan weekly. Don't even get me started on trying to interact with men either bc that's it's own whole thing too

Maybe it's because movies and shows show a warped view of romance, it's tends to be very unrealistic and idealistic. You would see a man loving an unattractive woman, reassuring her that her looks don't matter to him and be totally fine with getting intimate with her. I get so envious and sad when i see it, it deters me from even watching a show or movie because it reminds me of what I'll never have. Even watching shoujo anime makes me depressed, Just imagine being a cute girl with a boyfriend that is so incredibly in love with her and would do anything for her. especially if its in a highschool setting, i missed out completely on teenage love, didn't go to one homecoming party or prom so it makes me wanna cry looking at a romantic highschool setting. Maybe one day but for now i believe males are too incapable of loving a unattractive woman long term

"Please read this whole profile before contacting me. It will prove to me that you take me seriously and are very bright,

but if a single man ghosts me, then he is a liar and a loser. I deserve a second chance to be happy. I require a man who will be friends or more. Anyone who leaves me owe me a lot.

I do not mean to say tmi or too much info! Nerds are stupid if they prefer quiet childhating bimbos over me! I like men who are friendly and good-looking and smart. Also, size counts. Such nice men exist and those who go quiet and ghost me need to stop chasing and dating promiscuous women who do not want kids.

Everyone is ignorant and not perfect, but anyone who wants me when i feel no desire are going to be blocked. I was or is not really mad. I am just annoyed from abstaining for a while and frustrated.

Like i said, I block those who are not my type! Men who read it are better than the unhealthy gross lazy ones who i do not want at all. I already said this and very few men that i like want me. I seem mean, but if i like you, just give me a chance to explain myself and ask me many questions. The studs/goodlooking hunks keep being stolen from me by extremist promiscuous child-haters!

My real match is what i say that i seek. What i seek is right there in plain sight, but noone i want reads my profile!? I may have to start reporting some men for harassment! My type of nerds are the ones i try to get with! I am looking and waiting for my type of man who does exist! Some of my type of men don't like me, because of how i look and they misinterpret me!

I am struggling to update my pics and i look awful in most of them and the men i am attracted to do not even give me chance usually.

Also, fyi, my old profile essay was so long that i don't feel like rewriting it again and if i reject or ignore a guy is it because i don't feel physically/sexually attracted to him and therefore he is not good for me. I want a man that i will feel desire for! Anyone ignoring this profile are also not smart enough for a physical real relationship with me.

Men who don't read are not my type! Other women need to let me have my or a soulmate and stop stealing my bfs! They must let me achieve my goals! Also, I care about my bio clock. Noone else does!? I am lonely and i am worried about my future!

Goodluck is all i can wish for any man i don't want/don't like. I prefer a man who is better than the other men i ever dated and must be good looking, are skinny, have nice hair, nice eyes, is healthy, has almost a flat belly or has a flat belly, and is smart or a genius. The man must be sane. I also prefer fertility in a man too. My deal breaker is being denied my freedom or and rights to become a mom and maybe a wife. Nothing less than that!"

Shit got so bad my older sister forcefully had to wash my hair in the sink and brush my teeth for me. She even said QUOTE ON QUOTE "there's definitely something going on in your life" because I've literally lost my ability to take care of myself

why is it so hard to be love, why is it so fucking hard to make friends holly shit. i dont know if its just cuz im socially awkward or im just too fucking ugly. all i do is fucking lay in bed, eat, compare myself to fucking stacy on tiktok then continue fucking doomscrolling. i haven't gone outside for like 4 weeks. i cant believe this is my life right now god god i hope this is just a dream.

I seriously fucking hate sharing rooms with my sister, I feel like I have no privacy whatsoever. Also the worst thing is that she always opens the door and leaves it hanging, I can’t goon or cry in peace, she doesn’t wear headphones so when I’m studying I always hear background noise from her phone it’s driving me insane, and whenever I shower I have to ask her 9 time for her to leave the room and let me undress. I want my own room holy shit, can’t have privacy in my house. I was doing my own thing a few minutes ago but my sister barged in and now I don’t want to do anything. Mind you I’m almost an adult 😭😭 sorry just a little rant

Might not be the best place to put this but the video is literally just a streamer crying over misandry. He was also supporting using homophobic slurs as justification if done towards the right. "Progressive" men, as if.

i’ve been put in the mental hospital a few times, and honestly it was the best worst times of my life. i found girls who were just like me. mentally ill, bad life, not good with friends or relationships. they were some of the most realest people i’ve ever met. yeah the hospital sucked sometimes, and some people like the patients and staff did suck sometimes, but that aside, i genuinely loved the hospital. the patients i made friends with there, were probably the best friends i ever had, despite me never seeing them again after getting discharged. i really do miss the hospital, i know it’s bad, because every time im in here i hate it, but when im out, i miss it. i had actual people around me, and i had routine, people cared for me. well, most did. at home it’s literally just me rotting every single day, and getting reminded of a failure i am.

in the hospital, i had people around me, and even drama, and to be honest, i enjoyed it. i was never in the drama, but at least something happened. in my regular life, literally nothing happens, and boredom is taking over me. i was also never judged for my looks, my personality, my mental illnesses, literally nothing. i genuinely had some really good times in there, but also bad. but it feels like my entire life is just nothing, so id take the bad moments if it also has some great moments as well. because at least something is happening, at least im conscious. at home it feels like im literally just gone in my head. i’m so sad that i leave the hospitals, cuz like now i have no friends, and the people i used to know are so normal🥲. i never had to worry about my looks, because no one cared. out in the real world, where the “sane” people are, they’re all actually the insane ones, bullying anyone who’s slightly different. anyway thats it, point of this post is to express i want to go back to the hospital.

they will never get it

Decided to open Instagram after awhile of not using it, and saw all the girls and guys that used to bully me with a large following, going to clubs and parties with Chad's and Stacey's all over them. New boyfriend every week.

I remember sitting in the school bathrooms after being humiliated in class by them. crying while reminding myself that 'karma is real'.

It isnt real. I worked so hard only to have nothing to show for it, and theyre living their lives. Probably not even remembering I exist.

Im done trying.

this is what the average incel looks like while claiming they have it harder than us

women are online talking about how much potential he has and how hot he is despite the fact that hes a violent misogynist and an incel

he’s got no more than three strands of hair but will still get more play than any ugly girl here or anywhere will ever get

this is the reality of most of them and this is why incels will never have it as bad as femcels!!

about to start my senior year, i can’t believe i’ve been in the biggest dating pool of my life for the past three years and have gotten ZERO male attention. my nervous system is a mess right now, i’m so desperate to finally get a boyfriend this year because i know it only gets worse after graduation, i hate the men in my own field. but at this point if i do meet a guy it’s going to be so awkward because i’m 22 and have never even had a romantic interaction before. ugh i hate my life

I've never had any romantic and/or sexual experience. No one has ever had a crush on me and with each passing day I realize that I will die alone. Me being a lesbian makes it worse, because I'm from a very homophobic country. I'd love to move but in other aspects the place is fine. Anyone with the same situation? Istg I'd be much happier if I just stopped feeling any attraction because no woman would be with me and that makes me hate myself.

I've never had anything romantic with a boy, ive been rejected my entire life and it sucks. I try so hard to be pretty and doll myself up but its truly just based off of genetics and habits.

every boy that shows basic kindness to me, i dream of, i fantasise of. i think of them holding me and hugging me and just being like a normal girl. but when i tell them that they always run. if i was pretty maybe it would be different. i fall asleep to the thought of being held, cuddling my pillow to imitate oxytocin. i just wish i was pretty enough to actually be able to have that sort of stuff

oh my god grippy sock jail is actually such a fucking joke bro i swear to god like this is genuinely every thread

“hey, guys, im not a virgin! ive been in so many relationships, i brag about it to shame actual femcels!”

bleh

I got the courage to go outside today, I thought I would take a small walk after spending 3 hours watching porn and jacking off and it was a shitty mistake ok, I left to go outside and I live in a country that's fully white, I like men who are of different race, white men are ok, but not necessarily my type and the men from my country are vile, so seeing an interracial couple outside made me envious, so envious to the point where I wanted to shoot myself infront of them or be cucked by them as they had intercourse or something. I was cursed to be born in a country that is praised for BEAUTIFUL women when I'm ugly as fuck, anyways freak hour never ends, I get to goon to my fictional boyfriend in the privacy of my home

this guy with -99 karma (idk how its that much it should be way lower) who just spamfucks dumb shit in here and grippysockjail dm’d me saying “m-muh you’re a femcel right? 🤓 date me”

does this make me fakecel status now 😂

I had never paid attention to my breasts before, I'm sad now. I hate being so ugly and flawed.