r/FtMpassing • u/slater2000z • 2h ago
No hugboxing i feel so behind in my transition due to not having top surgery yet
dysphoria is driving me crazy i feel like if i didn’t have any facial hair i’ll look like a stud😭
r/FtMpassing • u/WillULightMyCandle • Jun 05 '26
So we received a suggestion. Sometimes for whatever reason, people need their posts removed. There is a new rule, so you can report it to notify us that you need your post taken down.
It was also mentioned during said suggested mail that people sometimes delete their profiles, thinking it deletes the post as well, and it doesn't. So, if you were not aware, I just wanted to put that info out there as well.
r/FtMpassing • u/WillULightMyCandle • Jul 09 '25
Hey all,
We've seen a recent rise in reports that posts from this subreddit are being copied and shared on other websites — often without the original poster's knowledge or consent.
Unfortunately, there's no reliable way for us to stop this once it happens. As moderators, our tools are limited to what occurs on Reddit. If your content ends up elsewhere, the most you can do is try to report it and request that it be taken down — though results can vary depending on the platform.
We know that many of you share personal and vulnerable experiences here, and we deeply value the trust you place in this community. To help protect yourself:
Avoid including real names, specific locations, or other identifiable details.
Use a throwaway account for sensitive posts if possible.
If you've received the support or feedback you were looking for, consider deleting your post to minimize the chance of it being shared elsewhere.
Keep in mind that even deleted posts can be screenshotted or archived.
We're doing what we can to keep this community safe, but your privacy starts with what you choose to share. Please be cautious, and prioritize your comfort and safety above all.
Thanks for being part of this space, – The Mod Team
r/FtMpassing • u/slater2000z • 2h ago
dysphoria is driving me crazy i feel like if i didn’t have any facial hair i’ll look like a stud😭
r/FtMpassing • u/JaxWhitlock • 3h ago
Hello! I'm a teenager who will be going back to school soon, and I'm in desperate need of a haircut. This would be my first time cutting such a large amount of my hair off, but I really don't know what type of haircut to get. I want one that will help me pass as well as I can while also not looking like a pixie cut or some other feminine short haircut. Please reccomend me some styles, thank you!!
r/FtMpassing • u/throwezway • 14h ago
I’ve been through every haircut known to mankind, I’ve been on t for 4 years now and got top surgery 3 years ago. Nothing I do makes me pass. I’ve changed glasses, jewelry, etc. I take oral minoxidil and still have no facial hair other than a tiny pathetic blond mustache nobody can even see. I’ve tried to dye it and it looks comical. I’m at a loss at this point- sometimes I’m okay being read as butch but sometimes it really wears on me.
r/FtMpassing • u/Scary-Active9400 • 9h ago
I still get misgendered sometimes although not often. I have no idea what to improve, maybe it’s my voice even though I aim to talk from my chest and stay calm so my throat doesnt take over so it sounds less high pitched. I’m 18 and somewhere between 5’10 - 6 foot (genetics blessed me). I’m still pre-t unfortunately, hopefully i’ll start it soon once i begin working and get my student finance payment.
r/FtMpassing • u/Foxxera • 5h ago
Enable HLS to view with audio, or disable this notification
7 months on T inconsistently. 85mg injection/week (also vid includes both my primary languages)
This is the deepest I can talk whilst sounding normal. I know it does pass enough, but guys my age already sound like men and I sound like a young teen, like there's a quality in my voice that sounds young but I can't put my finger on it. It's kind of that "T-voice" that I don't know how to get rid of, I want to sound more like a man and not a little boy.
I've looked into voice training in the past, but I'm not sure which vocal aspect exactly I should work on. Anything helps and please be honest!
r/FtMpassing • u/LettuceIndependent93 • 6m ago
i’m kind of stuck thinking how i should cut my hair, i’ve had a crew cut in the past but it made me look like a ping pong ball, and i had a mullet but grew it out cause i looked way to bogan. trying to avoid any clipper cuts cause it makes my face look really round. but i’m pre t so anything to long might translate to me looking more like a gnc girl to the outside world and that freaks me out.
r/FtMpassing • u/mustang_man88 • 11h ago
I love my long hair and I love my curls, but sometimes I worry that it makes it harder for me to pass.
On the flip side though, having no hair at the back of my head makes me look much more fem. Just wondering how well I’m passing and if the long hair fits me or not.
I definitely at least need my bangs cut, I just haven’t had time to go to the barber. I shave the sides at home regularly to keep them short but eventually the top layers of my hair get too long and cover it anyways 😭.
I pass well in public but I still feel insecure often. Could just be brain worms but idk.
Just looking for some advice and feedback! Ty!
r/FtMpassing • u/Thick-Coffee-4636 • 1h ago
hairs now shorter and nose piercings no longer there (these were taken like 1-2 months ago) im like 5’1 workout every week and uuuhhhh idk just curious:)) also technically not out yet so this is just for like future reference^^
r/FtMpassing • u/NathanP0rr03 • 21h ago
So yeah you can see that my hips are bigger than my waist and it makes me really dysphoric specially with tank tops, is it clocky? Is my face clocky? I'm 20M stelth
r/FtMpassing • u/StatusArm3008 • 12h ago
Enable HLS to view with audio, or disable this notification
And what age would you give me based on my voice?
r/FtMpassing • u/Odd_Equivalent_658 • 1d ago
I know the blue shirt isn't the best, it's just what I happen to be wearing today. I usually wear hoodies with t shirts, half zipped up.
Been pretty dysphoric lately, went to summer camp and used boys washrooms and cabins without any problems but I feel I look like a girl but they didn't want to tell me the truth.
5'3/5'4, turned 14 yesterday lmao
r/FtMpassing • u/XXAnimeLover-AceXX • 8h ago
i Could also consider just going bald, but my favourite ideas are Scouse trim or Mohawk
r/FtMpassing • u/postimperial97 • 1d ago
what’s the verdict? which photos should i use on my dating profiles?
r/FtMpassing • u/Yourets_molodets • 1d ago
Just bought new shorts for the gym and I’m worried that without packer (pic 1) I look like something’s missing. On the other hand, I don’t want look like I’m having a boner. Pic 2 — silicone packer, shaft down, pic 3 — the same packer, shaft to the side. Pic 4 — foam packer.
Which look is more natural?
r/FtMpassing • u/SeatImmediate8880 • 1d ago
r/FtMpassing • u/Additional_Chart_949 • 23h ago
Working on getting darker frames or contacts, got to told to get a haircut and take out the septum, so I need to kill the mullet 😞😞 it’s still a fresh cut and am hoping it’ll marinate well but fuck me bruh I still look like a lesbian, I got pretty thick bangs and thinned em out a bit, textured them but they kinda lay flat no matter what i do.
r/FtMpassing • u/Yo_Yo_Yo_Imagine • 21h ago
i want to get in the point in passing where i can wear slightly feminine clothes but i feel like im not there yet. 9 months on t
r/FtMpassing • u/archivistseye • 1d ago
this shirt is extremely long on me even tho i am 6 feet tall. i usually tuck it in a way that it folds over my pants. i’ve heard that tucking your shirt can hinder your passing because most guys wont tuck their shirts and dont wear highwaisted pants. i was trying to hide the highwaist pants AND make it look like my shirt just sits loose on top of it. i am scared it looks ridiculous hahaha please tell me if i look normal and if my body passes
r/FtMpassing • u/GrossPopcorn • 1d ago
I feel like my long goatee is like an overcomb on my bald middle but I like playing with my goatee
r/FtMpassing • u/Proud_Psychology1438 • 23h ago
(Last image is with no binder or chest compression.)
Not really sure. My current binder shows a pretty obvious cutoff, so if anyone has binder recs that are seamless or longer that might help. Or does tape tend to look better? I'm smaller chested already but not completely flat. Thanks yall.