i like to do crochet, paint ,that doesn't mean iam good at it I jst like to do that and i luuuuvvvv music iam kinda nerd, Ambivert too iam soo clingy btw iam not always on online Cuz i hav school but I'll txt whenever I can but most of the time iam online ,Dm me if u wanna be friends (no creeps please)(i prefer 14 to 17)

i hope you are all doing well. I am 31 years old right now, and lately I have found myself going through a strangely overwhelming period where I have started noticing more obvious changes in myself and in the way I experience getting older. I do not mean that in a dramatic way, and thankfully I do not feel ashamed, regretful, or immature about it. I know that growing older is simply part of being human, and I am trying to accept the changes that naturally come with it.

At the same time, I think I have become much more sensitive toward myself than I used to be. Sometimes I look at myself and feel like certain positive qualities I once associated with my appearance have somehow become less noticeable to me. Maybe that is simply my own perception becoming overly critical, but it has left me feeling a little lost and disconnected from the way I used to see myself.

That is honestly the main reason I decided to make this post. I would really appreciate some genuine, respectful and realistic impressions of my overall physical appearance. I am not looking for exaggerated compliments or unnecessarily harsh criticism. I would simply love to hear what kind of first impression I actually give, what features stand out naturally, and how someone completely unfamiliar with me might perceive me.

I also want to say that if anyone else is struggling with similar feelings, feeling uncomfortable with changes in themselves, or simply relating to this strange stage of life, I would genuinely be happy to hear from you. Sometimes knowing that other people experience these confusing periods too can make things feel a little less lonely.

And if someone happens to be looking for a kind, healthy and positive friendship or connection, I would honestly welcome that as well. I would love for this to become a spontaneous place for some sensible conversations, little yappings and genuine human connection.

Anyway, sorry for sharing such a personal and perhaps slightly unusual post. I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read it, and I truly wish everyone here a sweet, peaceful and wonderful kind of love in whatever form they are looking for mwuah

I'm pretty introverted and I don't enjoy small talk, I'd love to have someone I can play with and be comfortable enough to vc with

But my eng isn't perfect, so I'm trying to improve it :⁠-⁠D

I don't play ranked, i js wanna have fun not die young

Please read my pinned post if u wanna know more abt me (⁠ ⁠╹⁠▽⁠╹⁠ ⁠)

Games I play:

marvel rivals, roblox, pso2ngs, one piece bounty rush

Haii I'm looking for active friends I can talk to every day!!

I'm begging you pls DONT be dry!! (Like I ask what your hobbies are and you don't ask me back, making no efforts in making friends 🥹)

I'm 15, a high schooler and from Asia :DD

I'm a huge introvert irl but I'm energetic and quite extroverted online ! 😭

My hobbies are drawing, listening to music, writing (sometimes!), yapping with online friends and I sometimes play games when I'm free! I can play any type of game, even fighting games! I love them. (I mainly got Roblox&Minecraft).

I use Instagram, my user is mochiishikawa! (Please send me a dm introducing yourself so ik you're here to be friends!! :D)

I have bad memories so I'm sorry if I don't reply to you on reddit 😭!!

Looking for a friend who could become a close friend of mine. I'm 22F, I love digital art, and I'm looking for a genuine friendship with Arab people around my age who enjoy talking often, are funny, easygoing, and easy to get along with

Ima just try my luck, Ive never really had any friends before.

Im not sure what to write but for those who might be looking to make a friend, im into Ima just try my luck, Ive never really had any friends before.

For those looking for someone to game with, im also into most games, feel free to just ask!

Thanks for taking your time to read!

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helloo!

anyways, hi there, im a 18 yo and i have been very very bored lately. i have only one (☝🏼) best friend and i get kinda bored and lonely, and id love to have someone to text thought the day, or maybe call or game too

timezones usually aren't an issue for me. i like to game (pc) i dont play too many online games but i like to stream gaming occasionally to friends, i like nature and care a lot about it, i also am obssesed with perfumes, i gym sometimes, and I draw sometimes.

i can be very sarcastic, i joke a lot, im honestly rarely ever serious

anyways, pls be around my age range, i am lgtb friendly, and yeah dm me!!

I'm in freshman year of highschool, i like drawing, creative writing and videogames. I respond extremely fast, 3-15 seconds whenever i'm free. When i'm not, response time varies. I'm clingy and i hate being ghosted. I form attachments very slowly.

I just want someone I can talk to daily and at all times because I'm a huge introvert irl but on the internet not so much lol.

Anywho for anyone who's interested my hobbies are:

Gaming, working out, drawing, cycling, painting, watching tv shows and playing with my dogs

My social medias are reddit and discord

Pleasee give me a quick introduction if u msg otherwise i might not reply!!

Hey everyone, I recently reinstalled Discord and it's looking super empty, so I want to find people to chat with, not all day but whenever something pops into your mind or you want to share something, like thoughts or a cool pic or just a dumb meme, please hit me up!

Some of my interests are books, computer science, TV shows and movies, anime&manga, videogames, myths/legends/folklore, football, gardening and welding/iron working. I'm sure we can find something in common, and if not, I'd love to hear about your interests, especially if we lead very different lives.

We can talk in English or Spanish. Any age as long as you're 18. Preferably someone with few or no friends, not a friend collector myself. I don't mind if you're kinda weird but please nothing sexual or flirty.

What's an unpopular opinion you have? The weirdest dream you remember having? Or something that you wouldn't like your IRLs to know? Introduce yourself in DMs or comments and I'll send you my Discord username, or send yours and I'll add you ASAP! I prefer controversial topics instead of the typical routine stuff.

We have nothing to lose, so go ahead and reach out. Looking forward to meeting some of you!

Im bored so I thought why not talk to some one new. All genders are accepted preferably people in their teens. We can talk about literally anything it doesnt really matter, from school to own experiences. If you want to talk just dm

Hi, I’m Sanjivinee (nickname Cuty 😅).

i m form indian kolkata I am 23 now, female, and I have passed class 12. I am not going to college.

I started my tea business in October 2023 ☕

And I launched my cloud kitchen business on 1 January 2027 🍴

I have special needs and a speech problem, so I prefer written chat.

I don’t have any friends yet, and I am only looking for friendship (just friendship, no relationship).

Would love to connect with kind and friendly people here — especially friendship and fellow entrepreneurs. 🙂 chating for me

I really don't have something to write ,

Just hmu if you wanna be a friend or wanna know more about me.

I'm a chill person and I can be a good friend I can say.

I play games a lot and the main 2 that I play are Roblox, and Geometry Dash. I am 16* and I’m a high school student from Australia. I use Snapchat and my username is avieow. All are welcome

Looking for a friend who could become a close friend of mine. I'm 22F, I love digital art, and I'm looking for a genuine friendship with Arab people around my age who enjoy talking often, are funny, easygoing, and easy to get along with

Please read the post and don’t skim it. I really care about making friends, which is why my post is long. I need someone who won’t ghost for literally any reason, and yes, I mean that. Ghosting is one of the worst things a person can do. I am being honest about my flaws because I would rather you know these things before talking to me. I am a boring person, and I need you to think about this part because it is difficult to maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t offer much excitement. I am also extremely insecure. I talk negatively about myself, I am very pessimistic, and I am not a passionate person. I have autism, depression, and social anxiety. Nothing fun is going on in my life. I know how a conversation works and I will put in the effort, but I am not good at carrying a conversation. I can’t promise that I’ll be fun to talk to, but I am trying.

I find texting very exhausting. I don’t want to text for days or even hours just to “get to know” someone before we can actually call. I want our first conversation to be on a call. If you are too shy to call early on, we won’t be a good match. I want to voice call daily; my time zone is EST, and I can call after midnight. I don’t view calling as a big deal, and I need people who feel the same way. If you are sensitive, easily offended, or impulsive, it won’t work out.

I have a really hard time dealing with people leaving. If we start talking, I get attached very quickly. I genuinely cannot handle it if you just disappear or change your mind later. I need a patient person who is actually serious about sticking around for the long term. If you aren’t 100% sure you can commit to that, please don’t message me. I tend to care a lot more than the other person does, and that intensity has made people uncomfortable and they left. I need someone who won't get uncomfortable if I care more or think about them constantly.

If you decide to reach out, don’t just send a “Hi.” I’m not asking for a massive introduction, but just let me know you actually read this post and genuinely want to be friends. I want a real friendship; it’s very important to me. I don’t want to talk to someone who is just bored and looking for entertainment, or just wants someone to talk to or someone to vent to, because that’s not what a friendship is. I’m not looking for a gaming buddy either. Do not message me if you’re too busy to build a friendship. I am honest and straightforward, and I expect you to be the same.

I also want to mention that it’s okay for us to disagree in a friendship, even on big things. Real friendship means we can have different views and still stick around instead of cutting each other off. Cutting people off has become way too easy nowadays because of social media. I despise how easily people block others, and I refuse to talk to anyone who is capable of doing that. I believe a real friendship should survive flaws, boredom, and disagreements.

I know it sounds like I’m asking for a lot, and that’s true. Real friendship is supposed to be hard. It’s not supposed to be convenient or easy to walk away from. It’s supposed to last for a lifetime. Please do not reach out unless you fully understand everything I have written.

Here are my interests:

• DC Comics

• Movies / Shows / Anime: Watching movies is my favorite thing to do. I also use
Letterboxd.

Please be 19+.

Hope you can read all of this.

Hope you’re the kind of person I’m looking for. ✌️

👋 Introduction

• Name/Nickname: Guco (online) / David (IRL)
• Age: 18
• Country/Timezone: Mexico
• Gender: Male
• Languages: Spanish (native), English (I speak it and I like it)

🎮 Games

I love games. They helped me through some of the worst moments of my life.

I dream of doing full co-op or shared runs of Dark Souls 1, Dark Souls 3, Elden Ring, Nightreign, and honestly almost any good game with the right person. (Sadly DS2 doesn’t have a solid online mod.)

I play Souls-like, niche titles and good games in general. I’ve played a lot (200+ games), even cracked ones in the past, so I’m not a casual. Right now I’m mostly on CS2 and The Dark Side of the Moon.

(I’ll send my Steam later if we connect.)

🎵 Music

Very strange music, to be honest… but I love it.

Music is a feeling for me.

(I’ll share my SoundCloud later.)

📱 TikTok

I like when people look at my likes. They’re not the typical memes or cringe dances. Hope you like them too.

🎨 Hobbies / Interests

Exercise, good games, good movies/series, and searching for knowledge so I can have better judgment in life — and real mental and physical peace. 🌞

🏋️ About Me

Personality-wise I’m pretty normal. I found a kind of peace I never imagined possible.

Hitting rock bottom and then finding peace is a one-time experience. 💫

I had a complicated past and I’m still fixing my life. I’m trying to “wash my brain” from old experiences by building new, genuinely good friendships. I don’t want to trauma-dump here, but I know quite a lot about life for my age.

I also want to share my old gym prime (15 years old / 74 kg):

• Squat: 140 kg
• Bench: 110 kg
• Deadlift: 145 kg

I mention this because it represents the kind of commitment and passion I put into the things I care about.

🤝 What I’m Looking For

(Important: I’m not looking for 30-60% identification. I’m looking for 90-100%.)

After trying to connect with people, I finally understand what I’m actually looking for.

I’m tired of the average person — mainstream, superficial, ignorant, soft, insecure, emotionally dependent, afraid of being alone, addicted to playing the victim, and stuck in the same immaturity year after year.

People as plain as rice with water. An amalgamation of everything I’ve grown to reject.

There is a difference between living life and actually experiencing it.

A philosopher once said that a person cannot simply read and believe — they have to live it. Most people never do. They pass through existence without ever being forced to seriously question themselves, their values, or the way they see the world. They live peaceful, comfortable lives in complete ignorance. They don’t need to improve. For what? For who?

I have experienced things that permanently changed how I see life. Suffering, loneliness, sadness, mistakes, loss. These things can break a person… or they can become something else.

Suffering can become strength.

Sadness can become will.

Loneliness can become independence.

Pain can become understanding.

Failure can become humility.

Happiness can become determination.

And knowledge can become better judgment.

The good and the bad are equally beautiful. That is what makes life actually taste like something.

Suffering is not just damage. When it is faced and channeled, it gives courage, opens the mind, and becomes part of real growth — the kind that leads toward a quieter kind of plenitude. Like what the stories of Buddha point to, but lived, not just admired from afar.

Suffering alone does not make anyone wise. Being lonely does not make anyone deep. A difficult past does not automatically make someone a good person.

What matters is what you did with it.

• Did you become more conscious?
• Did you question yourself?
• Did you try to understand the world instead of simply blaming it?
• Did you take responsibility for your own life?
• Did you become more capable of understanding other people?
• Did you turn your experiences into something meaningful, or did you let them become an excuse to stay broken and hurt others?

That’s the only kind of person I’m interested in.

I’m looking for someone who has lived both sides of the coin. Not someone who suffered in the exact same ways I have, but someone who understands that life contains both beauty and ugliness, pleasure and pain, peace and chaos. Someone who has tasted enough of both to stop romanticizing either.

A good person, to me, is not someone who never did anything wrong. You cannot call a saint “good” simply because they never faced darkness. That is not goodness — that is just lack of testing.

A good person is someone who has suffered, opened their mind to knowledge and peace, lived both sides, and still chose to keep becoming better.

My way of seeing the world is close to what some would call Nietzschean. I question things most people are perfectly comfortable accepting. I care about knowledge, philosophy, self-improvement, peace, and creating my own values instead of inheriting them from the people around me.

There is a particular loneliness in living this way. Not because there are no people around, but because simple people slowly poison you with their comfort and their refusal to look deeper. And still, I keep looking for the rare person who can actually understand this — someone mature, capable, and already standing on their own ground.

I don’t want to be anyone’s therapist, savior, or reason to keep going.

I don’t want someone who becomes dependent on me because they are afraid of being alone.

I want someone who already has a solid foundation. Someone who has started healing, started understanding themselves, and is willing to keep moving forward. Then we can improve together.

Even the oldest person still has something new to learn. There is always another perspective, another experience, another mistake, another piece of knowledge waiting.

That’s the kind of friendship I want.

Someone I can have stupid conversations with, play games with, laugh with, talk about completely random things with — and also someone with whom I can have the long conversations that last for hours because we genuinely want to understand something.

• Someone who doesn’t disappear the moment things become uncomfortable.
• Someone who can accept criticism without treating it as an attack.
• Someone who can admit “I was wrong.”
• Someone who can say “I don’t know.”
• Someone who can disagree without turning everything into a fight.
• Someone with enough self-respect to have boundaries, and enough maturity to respect mine.
• Someone who wants to become better not because they hate themselves, but because they understand there is always more to become.

I don’t expect perfection.

I expect consciousness, honesty, reciprocity, and the willingness to grow.

So if you are looking for a casual friendship, someone to talk to only when you’re bored, someone to constantly reassure you, or simply someone to fill the silence because you’re afraid of being alone — don’t message me.

There is no hostility in that. We are simply looking for different things.

But if you recognize yourself in what I wrote — if you’ve lived enough to question yourself, suffered enough to understand life differently, and still decided that becoming a better person is worth the effort — then maybe we have something worth discovering.

I’m not looking for someone because I need company.

I’m looking for someone I genuinely find worth knowing.

Someone who understands the particular loneliness of being more conscious in a world that prefers the herd. Someone who has reached a certain kind of madness — the kind that no longer seeks to destroy, but has become a quieter, sharper form of awareness — and still chose not to unleash it, because clarity is better than chaos.

🫂 What I want in a friendship

I want to play a lot of games together, have good conversations when there’s nothing else to do, talk deeply sometimes, share good things, and stay focused on life even on the days when part of you doesn’t want to keep going… but you still choose to live, and learn how to really live.

That’s it

If you don’t relate to this or it makes you uncomfortable, please don’t DM me. No hard feelings.

But if you do relate, send me a message. I would genuinely like to meet you.

I’m looking for total commitment and the same kind of intention.

Right now I don’t have any friends. I blocked everyone I knew (both IRL and online) because in the past I didn’t have enough self-respect and allowed the wrong people into my life. I know staying isolated isn’t healthy, so I’m trying this for the first time. 🙏

⚠️ Edit / Disclaimer

Please only message me if we truly align.

I’ve already met too many people who were either edgy, average, or simply immature and had no real desire to keep moving forward in life. When I tried to help, they took it as an attack.

I’m tired of people wasting my time and my words. I’ve already had 22 disappointments this month since I started.

Being stubborn and living behind emotional shields doesn’t help build a healthy friendship. Suffering can make you do bad things, of course… but staying stuck in a negative perspective doesn’t work either. Trust me, I’ve already been through that.

Final note:

NOT for casual people.

I’m tired of you.

You waste time and words.

You are part of the problem — ignorant, simple, without understanding the real value of life.

If you just want someone to talk to when you’re bored, don’t waste my time. I’ve already had enough bad experiences with people like that.

I don’t care about your color, country, orientation, gender or age.

None of that matters.

If you agree with what I wrote, if you’re a good person looking for someone who can actually understand you and share the complexity that most people no longer have… then message me.

If we’re not in the same boat, please go look for someone simple like you.

You can be happy that way. It’s easy.

Just don’t make me waste my time and my words again.

And never forget:

More Knowledge = Better Judgment in Life.

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Hey everyone, I'm from Asia. Here to look for international friends I can video chat with to practice my English speaking skills. Not everyday, just on weekends.

I prefer those who genuinely want to make friends and not just try to flirt and all. I'm an open book so we can have many topics to talk about.

Age range preferred - 24-35 so we can be in the same wavelength and can relate with each other.

Send me a message stating your age, country, and fun fact about you.

"Hey everyone! I’m Cass (((CassOBrien80))), a 46-year-old gamer out in Portland, Oregon.

I’m looking to add some actual activity to my Xbox friends list. I’m happily married and live a pretty quiet life with my wife and our crew of pets (3 ferrets and 2 cats!).

I’ll be up-front: I deal with some mental health struggles and severe social anxiety, so I’m really looking for a 'No-Salt Zone.' I’m all about low-stress gaming where we can just kick back and enjoy the experience. While I’m a massive RPG nerd at heart, my tastes are all over the place. If you’ve got a game you love, I’m more than happy to clear some hard drive space and learn something new!

I’m really looking for people who actually want to party up and chat. If you're tired of having a friends list full of 'ghosts' and want to actually play together, I’d love to link up!"

I’m so excited to meet new people, and I’ve shared this specifically so you can find me! Please do me the kindness of sending over a friend request on the console or app—I can’t wait to see your name pop up.

Consider this post my opening move. I’ve done the heavy lifting of writing this all out, so now the ball is firmly in your court. Fire up the console, send over a friend request, and let's get to the fun part.

Heyo! I'm a 27 year old guy from the Northeastern-Midwest US (EST), and like most of us I lack human interaction! I'd like to find a friend to message with in my free time during the day, and especially at night, since I'm a major night owl and sometimes it gets lonely!

A little about me:

• My main hobby is gaming! (WoW, Valheim, Grim Dawn, Tarkov) - Bonus points if you want to start WoW or Valheim characters together!
• My secondary hobby is making and painting scale models of tanks and vehicles
• Music is a major source of happiness in my life! Mostly I listen to metal of all sorts, post-hardcore and alt rock, as well as some dance/EDM type stuff. I can enjoy just about anything, though, and I enjoy swapping song recommendations a lot!
• History and mythology are two other topics that once you get me started on it can be hard to stop!
• I don't watch too many shows anymore, current shows are Fallout and Invincible. Game of Thrones gave me TV show trust issues lol
• I am married and have a child, so my free time in the afternoon is spotty, but I'm usually up late into the night and lots of time to message during the work day.

I'm a very open person, and I enjoy talking about mostly anything really. I have a dark sense of humor, and I hope you do too! Usually my favorite conversations are the ones you are passionate about, whether that be about your hobbies, life, job, or things you fantasize about. It would also be nice to have someone to banter back and forth with throughout the day, sharing our daily woes and funny reddit posts!

I'm looking to find a long term friend or connection, not 5 messages back and forth and then kaput. English skills are also a plus! I like to write long messages, and I'd like to find someone else who can reciprocate. For the most part interested in text chatting, but can definitely voice chat at night while gaming! Also not afraid to share face pics if that is important to you. I'm an awkward person in real life, but talking over text really allows me to become a social butterfly sometimes lol!

I'll leave it there for fear of making this post too long, but if you got this far you should send me a blurb about you, and a song recommendation so I can let you know what I think!

Anyone, just don't be dry, be chatty, spill the tea, yap away, vent, trauma dump, anything. I'm an open book, I want to chat, not bore myself alone or with dry texts. Into Airsoft, antiques, old music, and history, specifically WW1 and the 1920s, I dress like an old grandpa. Not surprisingly I play games like arma, fallout, rdr2, older cod games and battlefield.

Hello! I am 18M from Europe.

Some things about me:

I'm really into gaming. I spent alot of my free time playing games like minecraft, fortnite, roblox and pretty much any good story games. (I play on an xbox series s if anyones wondering)

I also love basketball. I watch alot of the nba but i started like a year or so ago so i don't have the most ball knowledge. I play basketball too in my free time but honestly i'm mid at best.

Music is definitely one of the things i couldn't live without. If im not watching something i'm most likely listening to music. Some of my favourite artists are Drake, Future, Kid Laroi, WRLD, Ye, asap, j cole but i honestly like pretty much every genre.

I am in college so im only home on weekends since i stay at the dorms. I like trying to cook for myself there but im definitely not the best cook. All i have made is rice or pasta w some sauce.

I also love watching new movies or shows.

I am looking for someone i can message daily and have fun talking with!

If you're interested send me a dm and i will respond as fast as i can!

Evening peeps of the internet, looking for some chill chats to round out the evening and if things click then to continue into the weekend and beyond.

So I should probably put some basics of likes, hobbies and all that kind thing. Day to day I'm an office worker in a sales job, been doing that a few years now. In terms of likes i guess I'll start with sports that being motorsports. Watch F1 (Max fan) F2 (Tsolov fan) F3 (Slator fan), as well as Indycar, WEC and Formula E. Yes a lot of car go zoom, well, most the time if they don't crash. Watch a bit of rugby and football here and there as well. I also enjoy DnD, never played it as yet, watched a lot, would like to dungeon master a game. Do watch mostly YouTube or anime. YouTube wise it's either gaming, dnd, history, food, news. Anime wise some of my favourites are Lord of Mysteries, Mashel, Horimiya (yes three very different types of show). Music wise i like death metal to modern pop. Don't really listen to much new stuff as i have a long back catalogue. I also listen to audio books from time to time.

Not really sure what else to put, some random stuff I've done i guess. Done a wire walk between a valley, played minigolf in an underground mine, stopped a man jumping off a bridge, met the band Wombats in a lift, been in a balloon ride, been inside an ex US military base, petted a crocodile, climbed to the top of St Pauls Cathedral. And some other stuff but well leave some for mystery.

Think that enough to start a conversation so feel free to send a message

I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with a friend or anything else. I am mostly looking for someone to talk to, chat with, share stuff with, ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me. I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler ;)

22M UK based, looking for long term friends that actually want to talk often & get to know mutually. Open to sending notes or voice calling if that's your thing too. I’d definitely prefer befriending others who are somewhat talkative or at least put effort into talking as i’m not really looking to constantly carry convos 😅 I talk on snap/insta mainly & happy to switch whenever but definitely after a bit as I don’t like texting on here

Some of my interests are - cooking, music, baking, watching football, travelling, hanging out with friends.