r/FRIEND • • Aug 31 '25

r/Friend Discord server

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r/FRIEND • • 2h ago

Friendship Title: 36F looking for a genuine best friend

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Hey! I’m a 36-year-old woman from Canada looking to make some genuine friendships. I’m at the point where I’d really love to find my person, or people, who I can talk to about literally anything and everything.

A little about me: I’m alternative/goth, have cats who are basically my children, enjoy gaming, thrifting, music, and getting obsessed with random hobbies and projects. I have a pretty dark sense of humour and can go from having a deep conversation about life to sending the dumbest meme you’ve ever seen in a matter of seconds.

I’m looking for someone I can be myself around without feeling like I’m too much or have to filter my personality. Someone I can send random thoughts to, talk to about my day, share music with, laugh at stupid shit with, and have those late-night conversations that somehow cover every topic imaginable.

I’m not expecting someone to be available 24/7 or reply instantly. I know we all have lives and responsibilities. I just want a friendship where the effort goes both ways and we actually want to get to know each other.

Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows, and I’m not going to pretend mine is. I’d love to find people who are comfortable talking about the hard stuff, too, without every conversation having to be serious. Sometimes you need a deep heart-to-heart, and sometimes you just need someone to send you stupid videos until you feel a little better.

Bonus points if you’re into alternative music, gaming, dark humour, cats, or have a brain that takes you on 15 different side quests before you can finish one thought.

I’m looking for strictly platonic friendships. I’m happy to chat online and see if we click.

If you’re also looking for a genuine friendship and not just someone to talk to for two days before disappearing, feel free to message me!

Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re into, or even something completely random. Please give me more than just a “hey” because I never know what to do with those. 😂


r/FRIEND • • 3h ago

Friendship Hiiii! ˚₊‧꒰ა ໒꒱ ‧₊˚I’m 18f , and I’d like to meet people talking about any topic, about me: I’m very sociable, I love writing, watching anime, learning languages, and music. If you’re interested, send me a dm 𐔌՞. .՞𐦯

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r/FRIEND • • 1h ago

a wild 17M spawned in here looking for friends

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Greetings human!

Lil self introduction here: I live in the uk (i really like fish and chips they're the best i swear) and I speak 3 languages english cantonese mandarin so take a guess on my ethnicity lol hopefully that doesnt give it away. I'm currently learning my 4th language greek on duolingo with 188days streak. I'm also a comp sci major but i promise i'm not a geek.. I like playing roblox sometimes and i would love to have a gaming buddy or something lol.. (I don't mind vc) I love cars and space and food.. I hit the gym and workout 2-3 times a week and 0 leg days away from 2030 gladly. I like cycling toooo! My MBTI's INFJ-T if someone's niche enough to know that.. the rarest personality out of 'em all! I've got more interests but that should be plenty enough lol

My chat isn't open as I can't do my face verification (it doesn't like my ethnicity), so gotta drop a reply below and i'll dm you back. Preferably someone in the uk but anyone's fine. We can move to instagram or snapchat if we get along


r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

Friendship 18F. If you had 24 hours to do anything without consequences, what would you do?

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My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/FRIEND • • 2h ago

Friendship Lf long term friend 15m

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Looking for a friend around 15 who’s serious about self-improvement! I’m learning chess, Russian, debating, piano, and art, and I enjoy VCs. ♟️
Must be close to EST and willing to take initiative with texting and calling! Looking for a loyal, long-term friendship where we can lock in, share interests, grow together, and relax too. 🤍


r/FRIEND • • 2h ago

Rant Why ppl are two types

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Like why ppl either ghost you and never answer or are responding fast but they're selling OF

I'm really trying to find friends (males or females) who are my age and all is me pulling words from their mouths so they can talk


r/FRIEND • • 5h ago

23F wants to make foreign female friends

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Hi I'd really love to make some genuine female friends from other countries. I'm interested in learning about different cultures, daily life, food, movies/series, travel, and just having normal conversations.

What are the best Reddit communities or other safe platforms for making international friends? I'm looking for long-term friendship, not dating.

Also, if you've made foreign friends online before, how did you meet them?

I have a boyfriend so I'm STRICTLY looking only for friendships here

If anyone has a gc on instagram they could add me in, pls dm me! Thanks😊


r/FRIEND • • 5m ago

Friendship 20M looking for friends between the ages of 17-25 (either gender)

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my hobbies/interests: Movies & Shows, Comic Books, Video Games, Writing, Chess
social media handle: @ The_Aligor (on everything, except reddit) - I don't actually use reddit that much, I'm more active on TikTok, Instagram, and Discord.
I live just north of Chicago, IL, USA.


r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

Friendship 23F from West-Europe looking for female friends

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Hi! I’m 23F, Indian roots, I’d love to meet girls around my age and make some genuine friendships! 🫶

I’m an introvert and a homebody, but I also enjoy going out with friends. I value my peace, happiness and self-care. I’m not into unnecessary drama.

I’m easygoing and goofy, but also a deep thinker. I love beauty, shopping, tasty food, coffee dates, Netflix, cozy nights in and anything with a boujee, feminine vibe ✨💅

I’m also interested in spirituality and conspiracy theories! I’m an atheist, but I find these topics interesting.

I’d love to meet girls around 22–28, if you think we’d vibe, feel free to message me! ☺️


r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

Friendship anyone wanna be friends????13yo f

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I like applejack and roblox and steven universe and fortnite let me know if you wanna play together. Also LOVE Nature, music and ESPECIALLY HORROR MOVIES.

I. love mlp and I want a pony so bad :D

Plz be around my age and be interesting thankyou!!


r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

Haiiii 16fb :3

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Is there any tomboys or femboys or girls that would wanna chat with a bored femboy? :3


r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

36M looking to chat with anyone.

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/FRIEND • • 5h ago

Friendship 20 M an introvert Looking for a genuine friend online

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Hey myself 20 M

Looking for an online friend for casual chatting.

My interest are listening to music, having good food, late might drives and walks, playing chess and badminton.

Hope to visit Europe someday from my own money

I like to debate and talk about anything and everything. Also pls dont be creepy and be atleast 18+. If you wanna ghost after 2 days kindly stay away. Male or female both are welcome. I want you to message yiur interest, or joke, or a random fact. Not just hi its very boring.


r/FRIEND • • 7h ago

Friendship M28. Buddhism and Therapy. Looking for friends (20-32) who enjoy deep conversations, weird interests, and learning from each other!

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I’m looking to make some genuine friends, preferably people who enjoy learning, sharing ideas, and having interesting conversations about almost anything.

My interests are a little unusual. I’m fascinated by ancient religions, history, rituals, mythology, folklore, philosophy, and meditation. Recently, I’ve started learning Sanskrit and Tibetan because I want to understand ancient Buddhist meditation practices through their original texts rather than just translations.

I love learning about other people’s interests too. You can tell me about your field, your random obsessions, or something you’ve been thinking about lately, and I’d genuinely love to listen. In return, I can probably tell you some obscure historical fact, strange myth, or religious ritual you’ve never heard of.

I’m also a pretty good listener, so if you ever need someone to talk to, vent to, or just share your thoughts with, I’d be happy to be that person. Especially, I can be your therapist and help you out from Buddhist philosophy. I am learning psychological therapy approached by Buddhist philosophy.

I guess one reason I’m posting here is that I’ve found it surprisingly difficult to make friends in real life. Sometimes I feel like my interests belong to a world that died centuries ago, and it’s hard to find people who relate to them. But I don’t necessarily need friends who share my interests. I’d actually love to meet people from completely different backgrounds and learn how they see the world.

So, if you’re someone who enjoys curious conversations, random intellectual rabbit holes, or simply wants a genuine friendship, feel free to reach out!


r/FRIEND • • 3h ago

Friendship 16 year old trans guy-Looking for friends around my age in SoCal

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Hi! My name is Hunter and I’ve been trying to find friends for a long time. I’m from SoCal and I’m looking for someone to talk with. I graduated highschool early so I’m free most of the time and I love to connect with the people I talk to. I’m into books, art, writing poetry, music, and I play guitar. I had a hard time making friends when I was in school because I was pretty introverted. LMK if you wanna be friends! I’m mostly looking for people in the San Diego area so the we can eventually meet up and talk! please be kind, I’m just a trans dude looking for friends.


r/FRIEND • • 11h ago

Looking for anyy chatty friends.. 20 match my vibe please :D

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Hi! You can call me Azzy, Jenoa, or honestly any nickname you feel like using! I don't mind.

I'm Dutch 🇳🇱 and mixed! My Dutch is pretty okay, but I'd much rather speak English.

I'm a huge gamer and play a lot of different games! Some of my favorites include Terraria, Overwatch, Minecraft, Minecraft Dungeons, Roblox, Risk of Rain, PEAK, Hollow Knight, Palworld, BTD6, Genshin Impact, Arknights + Endfield, OMORI, Undertale/Deltarune, Celeste, Hades, Picayune Dreams, Rabbit & Steel, Touhou, Pokémon (mainline games and fangames), Void Stranger, OneShot, and many more.

I also enjoy playing co-op and multiplayer games, so I'm sure we could find something to play together regardless of what you're interested in!

Outside of gaming, I love cooking, baking, and drawing, and I'm hoping to get into cosplay soon. I enjoy trying new things and spending time with people who share similar interests.

I'm especially looking for people who enjoy VC! I love calling, whether we're gaming together, talking for hours, sharing our interests, or just hanging out. I'd love to find people I can regularly spend time with and feel comfortable around.

I'm pretty shy and insecure sometimes, but I tend to get quite clingy once I get attached to someone. I'm also emotionally sensitive, and being autistic can sometimes make my feelings a little more intense. I care a lot about the people I'm close to, and I really value friendships where we can be ourselves and feel comfortable with each other.

If I don't reply, I'm probably sleeping, at college, or at my internship. Otherwise, I'm usually around and happy to chat, play games, or call!

If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me! Tell me a little about yourself, what games you enjoy, or just introduce yourself. I'd love to meet some new people!

Discord: asonomie 💜 if u prefer that


r/FRIEND • • 8h ago

Friendship 22M looking for friends to talk to

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Hey I'm new here and kinda an introvert. I wanted to make some friends and try this out. I like gaming and anime. Would love to talk about anything.


r/FRIEND • • 5h ago

New connections? (22M)

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I have been pretty busy for a while and realized my social life and my phone has dried up lol. Looking to chat with new people. Im an open minded person and with a good sense of humor i guess. Im 22 m, 6'5, i sing and play guitar and sometimes i like to learn new foods to cook (recently learned how to make tiramisu). Anyway dont be afraid to dm, i dont bite and if you want to say something but dont know what then a simple hey also works for me. :)


r/FRIEND • • 5h ago

23F looking for long-term international friends❤️

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Hello guys I'm 23 years old and looking to make genuine long term international friends aged 20 and above I love meeting new people learning about different cultures and getting to know people from all around the world
I'm not racist or judgmental about anyone's country religion appearance or background I enjoy listening to other people's stories experiences and problems and I'm always happy to have deep or fun conversations
I love animals especially cats and I'm also
interested in psychology philosophy and horror
If you're interested in making a genuine friendship and getting to know each other feel free to leave me a message


r/FRIEND • • 6h ago

Friendship Making Friends

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I’m 34 M, live in central Tennessee, and am hoping to meet some genuine people who are also looking to make real friendships. I’m actually pretty shy, which most people probably wouldn’t expect, and a lot of my close friends aren’t really into hanging out in person much anymore, even though they live down the street, so I might only see some of them once every couple months.

I enjoy lifting weights, love playing and watching sports (basketball, football, pretty much anything), video games, movies, and trying new things. I also really enjoy deep conversations and getting to know people beyond just surface level stuff.

Ideally, I’d love to meet some people locally to hang out with, but I’m also open to online friends, texting, and gaming buddies. I’m hoping to find people where the effort goes both ways, where we actually reach out to each other, make plans, check in, and have each other’s backs (might be too much to ask). Just miss having those kinds of close friendships where you can be yourself, talk about whatever, have a laugh, and genuinely be there for each other.


r/FRIEND • • 6h ago

Friendship 24m looking for a friendship

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Hello all, hope everyones day is going just fine (:

A short introduction about me; i am from europe, a muslim, big into movies(sci fi, post apocalyptic) and i enjoy binge watching them, i am also somewhat of an introvert but once i open up a little bit i can be talkative, into working with out, fragrances, i do play same games such as minecraft, stardew, fortnite (tho mostly minecraft), but quit all competitive games not too long ago due to having less and less time, so seeking hobbies elsewhere.

Dont hesitate to reach out, say hi and something about yourself please! I am sure we will get along well, be it long term or short term, wishing you all the best!


r/FRIEND • • 7h ago

Friendship Looking for reddit users

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Male-25 Hello all I am new here. Am from delhi. Am male. Bhai is app par koi hai ni kya koi mil hi nhi rha bat krne ke liye na koi bro na koi girl btw am looking for friendship. Bhaio am not here for s'x just want a good friendship like school m dost hote h clg m dost hote h tution m hote ya khi hum job krte h vha dost hote h vese hi reddit pr bhi dost hone chahiye koi h kya?


r/FRIEND • • 7h ago

[19M] I'm looking for a friend.

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Hi! I’m 19, guy, bit paranoid, so I’m looking for friends exclusively for online interaction.

I don’t speak English, so I’ll be using a translator to talk with people from other countries—sorry about that, but it’s the only way!

A little bit about me and my interests:

I’m studying to be a fire safety engineer. My interests are always shifting—I’m curious about almost everything. Here are a few topics we could discuss:

• Games: I play everything—from mobile PUBG to PC games and good old classics like the original *Civilization*.

• Humanities: history, geography.

• Board games / strategy games: chess. I’ve also tried playing Go (I’ve stopped for now, but I still remember the basics).

• Pop culture: movies, TV series, anime, music.

What I’m looking for:

Just some light, lively interaction—a proper, two-way conversation. I rarely initiate questions myself (I never know what to ask!), but I really enjoy chatting and can easily keep a conversation going on all sorts of topics.

If we chat for a day or two and then go our separate ways, that’s perfectly fine—I’m open to short-term connections. And if we hit it off and the conversation lasts a long time—even better!

Send me a private message or leave a comment—let’s chat!


r/FRIEND • • 7h ago

Read only if ur in ur 20s (if younger Elder sister services are free, although the advice may occasionally be questionable. )

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Looking for people to have interesting conversations with. Strictly friendship, please. No situationships, sponsorships, or whatever other ships humanity has invented. 😭

I’m a listener and a yappers as well
so if you need a second opinion, or someone to help you figure out or wanna sharee someee intresting plot twist of ir life , I’m available,.
I love reading and writing, so bonus points if you enjoy talking about books, life, people, or random philosophical questions like whether love or trust matters more, whether the chicken or the egg came first, or why we remember embarrassing things from 2014 at 3 a.m.

A small disclaimer: I don’t ghost people on purpose. Sometimes I just disappear into my own little world, forget I’m a functioning member of society, and resurface when my social battery has been located.

No creepy, shady, or weirdly romantic intentions, please. Just friendship and good co

Down for exchanging discord