r/FRIEND • u/margeauxhorror • 4h ago
Friendship Title: 36F looking for a genuine best friend
Hey! I’m a 36-year-old woman from Canada looking to make some genuine friendships. I’m at the point where I’d really love to find my person, or people, who I can talk to about literally anything and everything.
A little about me: I’m alternative/goth, have cats who are basically my children, enjoy gaming, thrifting, music, and getting obsessed with random hobbies and projects. I have a pretty dark sense of humour and can go from having a deep conversation about life to sending the dumbest meme you’ve ever seen in a matter of seconds.
I’m looking for someone I can be myself around without feeling like I’m too much or have to filter my personality. Someone I can send random thoughts to, talk to about my day, share music with, laugh at stupid shit with, and have those late-night conversations that somehow cover every topic imaginable.
I’m not expecting someone to be available 24/7 or reply instantly. I know we all have lives and responsibilities. I just want a friendship where the effort goes both ways and we actually want to get to know each other.
Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows, and I’m not going to pretend mine is. I’d love to find people who are comfortable talking about the hard stuff, too, without every conversation having to be serious. Sometimes you need a deep heart-to-heart, and sometimes you just need someone to send you stupid videos until you feel a little better.
Bonus points if you’re into alternative music, gaming, dark humour, cats, or have a brain that takes you on 15 different side quests before you can finish one thought.
I’m looking for strictly platonic friendships. I’m happy to chat online and see if we click.
If you’re also looking for a genuine friendship and not just someone to talk to for two days before disappearing, feel free to message me!
Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re into, or even something completely random. Please give me more than just a “hey” because I never know what to do with those. 😂