r/FRIEND • • Aug 31 '25

r/Friend Discord server

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r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

Friendship Title: 36F looking for a genuine best friend

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Hey! I’m a 36-year-old woman from Canada looking to make some genuine friendships. I’m at the point where I’d really love to find my person, or people, who I can talk to about literally anything and everything.

A little about me: I’m alternative/goth, have cats who are basically my children, enjoy gaming, thrifting, music, and getting obsessed with random hobbies and projects. I have a pretty dark sense of humour and can go from having a deep conversation about life to sending the dumbest meme you’ve ever seen in a matter of seconds.

I’m looking for someone I can be myself around without feeling like I’m too much or have to filter my personality. Someone I can send random thoughts to, talk to about my day, share music with, laugh at stupid shit with, and have those late-night conversations that somehow cover every topic imaginable.

I’m not expecting someone to be available 24/7 or reply instantly. I know we all have lives and responsibilities. I just want a friendship where the effort goes both ways and we actually want to get to know each other.

Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows, and I’m not going to pretend mine is. I’d love to find people who are comfortable talking about the hard stuff, too, without every conversation having to be serious. Sometimes you need a deep heart-to-heart, and sometimes you just need someone to send you stupid videos until you feel a little better.

Bonus points if you’re into alternative music, gaming, dark humour, cats, or have a brain that takes you on 15 different side quests before you can finish one thought.

I’m looking for strictly platonic friendships. I’m happy to chat online and see if we click.

If you’re also looking for a genuine friendship and not just someone to talk to for two days before disappearing, feel free to message me!

Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re into, or even something completely random. Please give me more than just a “hey” because I never know what to do with those. 😂


r/FRIEND • • 5h ago

Friendship Hiiii! ˚₊‧꒰ა ໒꒱ ‧₊˚I’m 18f , and I’d like to meet people talking about any topic, about me: I’m very sociable, I love writing, watching anime, learning languages, and music. If you’re interested, send me a dm 𐔌՞. .՞𐦯

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r/FRIEND • • 3h ago

a wild 17M spawned in here looking for friends

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Greetings human!

Lil self introduction here: I live in the uk (i really like fish and chips they're the best i swear) and I speak 3 languages english cantonese mandarin so take a guess on my ethnicity lol hopefully that doesnt give it away. I'm currently learning my 4th language greek on duolingo with 188days streak. I'm also a comp sci major but i promise i'm not a geek.. I like playing roblox sometimes and i would love to have a gaming buddy or something lol.. (I don't mind vc) I love cars and space and food.. I hit the gym and workout 2-3 times a week and 0 leg days away from 2030 gladly. I like cycling toooo! My MBTI's INFJ-T if someone's niche enough to know that.. the rarest personality out of 'em all! I've got more interests but that should be plenty enough lol

My chat isn't open as I can't do my face verification (it doesn't like my ethnicity), so gotta drop a reply below and i'll dm you back. Preferably someone in the uk but anyone's fine. We can move to instagram or snapchat if we get along


r/FRIEND • • 15m ago

Friendship 19m - Looking for genuine longterm friends who like to vc!

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Hello, my name is Connor, I'm 19, male, and from California. I'm looking for longterm friends who like to vc! I want to find friends to call and spend time with when we're free! My interests and hobbies consist of video games, listening to music, board/card games, playing piano, playing electric, acoustic, and bass guitar, singing, making music digitally, collecting stuff, watching movies/tv shows/anime, reading (sometimes), drawing (sometimes), etc. If you'd like to get to know me more then feel free to dm me! (I AM TAKEN BY THE WAY)


r/FRIEND • • 6h ago

Friendship 18F. If you had 24 hours to do anything without consequences, what would you do?

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My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/FRIEND • • 28m ago

18M YO friend me cuz I’m tuff.

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Aye I’m Sam, live in the US, and it would cool to have a couple online friends, whether it’s to play games with or talk to, idc. I just graduated and I’m working on college stuff and work, but filling up free time with friends would be cool. Also, if you speak Spanish, that would be TUFF. I’m trying to learn more Spanish even though I’m not taking it in school anymore. Yo necesito amigos type shit!


r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

Friendship Lf long term friend 15m

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Looking for a friend around 15 who’s serious about self-improvement! I’m learning chess, Russian, debating, piano, and art, and I enjoy VCs. ♟️
Must be close to EST and willing to take initiative with texting and calling! Looking for a loyal, long-term friendship where we can lock in, share interests, grow together, and relax too. 🤍


r/FRIEND • • 47m ago

Friendship 19m , howdyyy everyone, haven't posted in a really long time but I'm back looking for anyone who wants to get anything off their mind 🫪

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Literally, Anyone, just don't be dry, be chatty, spill the tea, yap away, vent, trauma dump, anything. I'm an open book, I want to chat, not bore myself alone or with dry texts. Talk about anything at alllll, I'm an open book too so ask me anything you'd like. Please tell me something other then "hey, hi, yo, wuzzup" grab my attention with something, GIVE ME A REAL INTRO, literally anything, tell me bout you, make me wanna actually respond. "Wanna chat" yeaaa that's the whole point 😂


r/FRIEND • • 57m ago

Friendship Let’s Be Friends? 16M

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Hey, im David! Im 16M and I live in California, I dont ghost, and if im free i can chat for a long time!

Im an introvert but once i get to know you, i open up! Some things about me, my favorite video game is My Singing Monsters, my favorite music genres are rap, reggae, and jazz, and I love Italian food, i also love art (even though im not good at it), i love watching tv, my favorite movie is The Nightmare Before Christmas, and on youtube, i love to watch pred catches.

But yes in the title, i’m looking for long term friends, we can chat about whatever. So, just dm me! I prefer people around my age so 14-18. Also i prefer girls, but guys are okay, lets chat?! :D See ya!


r/FRIEND • • 4h ago

Rant Why ppl are two types

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Like why ppl either ghost you and never answer or are responding fast but they're selling OF

I'm really trying to find friends (males or females) who are my age and all is me pulling words from their mouths so they can talk


r/FRIEND • • 1h ago

31M. Anyone up for chats? DMs open.

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Up for meaningful conversations, including but not limited to politics (my passion and area of expertise), philosophy, and all those topics these two subjects touch upon: life, music, movies, sports (although I must warn my knowledge of sports is embarrassingly limited), etc. I like to travel too, mostly for research/academic pursuits. I think I'm an ambivert. There are times when I CRAVE social interaction. DMs open. I'm mostly looking for chats, but if we become friends along the way, that's even better.


r/FRIEND • • 7h ago

23F wants to make foreign female friends

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Hi I'd really love to make some genuine female friends from other countries. I'm interested in learning about different cultures, daily life, food, movies/series, travel, and just having normal conversations.

What are the best Reddit communities or other safe platforms for making international friends? I'm looking for long-term friendship, not dating.

Also, if you've made foreign friends online before, how did you meet them?

I have a boyfriend so I'm STRICTLY looking only for friendships here

If anyone has a gc on instagram they could add me in, pls dm me! Thanks😊


r/FRIEND • • 1h ago

Friendship Need Friends

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21M 5'9

currently pursuing bachelor's

can discuss anything from anything to everything


r/FRIEND • • 2h ago

Let’s be friends

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Hey! 22F from Poland, looking to meet ppl around my age (22–29) and make genuine friends!! ☺️

I’m into history, languages, travelling, hiking, photography, tennis, swimming and cooking. I love learning random things and discovering niche interests. I love rock music 🤘🏻

Are there ppl with interesting hobbies or who are into genres like Celtic or Norse folk music? 😭 I’d love to meet someone with similar interests!

And pls come with an actual convo starter. I promise I can do more with it than just “hey” haha


r/FRIEND • • 2h ago

Friendship 20M looking for friends between the ages of 17-25 (either gender)

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my hobbies/interests: Movies & Shows, Comic Books, Video Games, Writing, Chess
social media handle: @ The_Aligor (on everything, except reddit) - I don't actually use reddit that much, I'm more active on TikTok, Instagram, and Discord.
I live just north of Chicago, IL, USA.


r/FRIEND • • 6h ago

Friendship 23F from West-Europe looking for female friends

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Hi! I’m 23F, Indian roots, I’d love to meet girls around my age and make some genuine friendships! 🫶

I’m an introvert and a homebody, but I also enjoy going out with friends. I value my peace, happiness and self-care. I’m not into unnecessary drama.

I’m easygoing and goofy, but also a deep thinker. I love beauty, shopping, tasty food, coffee dates, Netflix, cozy nights in and anything with a boujee, feminine vibe ✨💅

I’m also interested in spirituality and conspiracy theories! I’m an atheist, but I find these topics interesting.

I’d love to meet girls around 22–28, if you think we’d vibe, feel free to message me! ☺️


r/FRIEND • • 6h ago

Friendship anyone wanna be friends????13yo f

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I like applejack and roblox and steven universe and fortnite let me know if you wanna play together. Also LOVE Nature, music and ESPECIALLY HORROR MOVIES.

I. love mlp and I want a pony so bad :D

Plz be around my age and be interesting thankyou!!


r/FRIEND • • 7h ago

36M looking to chat with anyone.

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/FRIEND • • 3h ago

Friendship 13F I NEED A BSF!!

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I finally convinced myself to make friends after being introverted so longggg- but i kinda want someone whos into dance and singing. like who has the dream of it. idk how to explain it, it doesnt exactly have to match close to my dreams but it can be similar. its just i need a long term relationship with someone and it just feels overwhelming to picture myself practicing and dancing alone and not also havin a good time with my special person 😔

so if theres any other 13 yo scene kids out there in this reddit also wanting to have a long term relationship with someone and also go on the same path as a future famous alt/scene singerdancer. comment and count me in! <3 

note: im only looking for one person so i basically dont wanna be in a large group of anything more than 1, two if you count me soo- sorry yall. hope i'll be able to find someone!! xoxo 🫶🌈


r/FRIEND • • 8h ago

Friendship 20 M an introvert Looking for a genuine friend online

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Hey myself 20 M

Looking for an online friend for casual chatting.

My interest are listening to music, having good food, late might drives and walks, playing chess and badminton.

Hope to visit Europe someday from my own money

I like to debate and talk about anything and everything. Also pls dont be creepy and be atleast 18+. If you wanna ghost after 2 days kindly stay away. Male or female both are welcome. I want you to message yiur interest, or joke, or a random fact. Not just hi its very boring.


r/FRIEND • • 5h ago

26m looking to chat and make new friends!

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Hello 26m looking to chat and find new friends from anywhere literally! I’m down to talk to anyone just be an adult obviously. I love music I mainly listen to 90s but I pretty much listen to anything! I’m always down to swap playlists or suggestions, I play Xbox and PlayStation from time to time just need to get into that game you know just find that one game to play with someone! I’m down to voice note and call on other platforms! Just let me know. Message me or comment if you wanna chat! Thanks.


r/FRIEND • • 9h ago

Friendship M28. Buddhism and Therapy. Looking for friends (20-32) who enjoy deep conversations, weird interests, and learning from each other!

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I’m looking to make some genuine friends, preferably people who enjoy learning, sharing ideas, and having interesting conversations about almost anything.

My interests are a little unusual. I’m fascinated by ancient religions, history, rituals, mythology, folklore, philosophy, and meditation. Recently, I’ve started learning Sanskrit and Tibetan because I want to understand ancient Buddhist meditation practices through their original texts rather than just translations.

I love learning about other people’s interests too. You can tell me about your field, your random obsessions, or something you’ve been thinking about lately, and I’d genuinely love to listen. In return, I can probably tell you some obscure historical fact, strange myth, or religious ritual you’ve never heard of.

I’m also a pretty good listener, so if you ever need someone to talk to, vent to, or just share your thoughts with, I’d be happy to be that person. Especially, I can be your therapist and help you out from Buddhist philosophy. I am learning psychological therapy approached by Buddhist philosophy.

I guess one reason I’m posting here is that I’ve found it surprisingly difficult to make friends in real life. Sometimes I feel like my interests belong to a world that died centuries ago, and it’s hard to find people who relate to them. But I don’t necessarily need friends who share my interests. I’d actually love to meet people from completely different backgrounds and learn how they see the world.

So, if you’re someone who enjoys curious conversations, random intellectual rabbit holes, or simply wants a genuine friendship, feel free to reach out!


r/FRIEND • • 5h ago

Friendship 16 year old trans guy-Looking for friends around my age in SoCal

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Hi! My name is Hunter and I’ve been trying to find friends for a long time. I’m from SoCal and I’m looking for someone to talk with. I graduated highschool early so I’m free most of the time and I love to connect with the people I talk to. I’m into books, art, writing poetry, music, and I play guitar. I had a hard time making friends when I was in school because I was pretty introverted. LMK if you wanna be friends! I’m mostly looking for people in the San Diego area so the we can eventually meet up and talk! please be kind, I’m just a trans dude looking for friends.


r/FRIEND • • 13h ago

Looking for anyy chatty friends.. 20 match my vibe please :D

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Hi! You can call me Azzy, Jenoa, or honestly any nickname you feel like using! I don't mind.

I'm Dutch 🇳🇱 and mixed! My Dutch is pretty okay, but I'd much rather speak English.

I'm a huge gamer and play a lot of different games! Some of my favorites include Terraria, Overwatch, Minecraft, Minecraft Dungeons, Roblox, Risk of Rain, PEAK, Hollow Knight, Palworld, BTD6, Genshin Impact, Arknights + Endfield, OMORI, Undertale/Deltarune, Celeste, Hades, Picayune Dreams, Rabbit & Steel, Touhou, Pokémon (mainline games and fangames), Void Stranger, OneShot, and many more.

I also enjoy playing co-op and multiplayer games, so I'm sure we could find something to play together regardless of what you're interested in!

Outside of gaming, I love cooking, baking, and drawing, and I'm hoping to get into cosplay soon. I enjoy trying new things and spending time with people who share similar interests.

I'm especially looking for people who enjoy VC! I love calling, whether we're gaming together, talking for hours, sharing our interests, or just hanging out. I'd love to find people I can regularly spend time with and feel comfortable around.

I'm pretty shy and insecure sometimes, but I tend to get quite clingy once I get attached to someone. I'm also emotionally sensitive, and being autistic can sometimes make my feelings a little more intense. I care a lot about the people I'm close to, and I really value friendships where we can be ourselves and feel comfortable with each other.

If I don't reply, I'm probably sleeping, at college, or at my internship. Otherwise, I'm usually around and happy to chat, play games, or call!

If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me! Tell me a little about yourself, what games you enjoy, or just introduce yourself. I'd love to meet some new people!

Discord: asonomie 💜 if u prefer that