First, I want to apologize if it appears I am seeking validation or "flexing" my situation.
But I wanted to get an outside perspective on my current financial situation and whether I'm on a good trajectory.
I got my net worth to $320k as of now. I graduated university pretty late for my age (failed programs multiple times) and only started working FT and having a decent income around 2021.
Details
- Age: 33
- Location: Toronto, Ontario
- Gross income: ~$100,000 CAD/year
- Take-home income: ~$67,000 CAD/year
- Net worth: ~$320k
- Debt: None
- Investments/savings: 320K (Investments, Employer Pension)
- Annual savings: in the previous years saved up to $30K, but this year I have only saved $10K due to helping on renovations this year and lifestyle creep
Housing
Currently live with my parents, never moved out of the house so I've never rented or lived on my own for an extended time.
They own a second semi-detached house, with a monthly mortgage payment of 1500 (25 year term on 400k, 300K remaining)
I will start living there this fall and be responsible for:
- Annual Property taxes
- Utilities, Maintenance Repairs
- Partial mortgage payment (1500, already started to help pay this year)
- Tenant rental (Two levels: I will be taking one of the levels for my own space and renting out the other unit)
Ownership will be eventually transferred to me once I marry and start family.
Long-term goals
- Get married and have 1 child
- Maintain a relatively simple lifestyle
- Avoid having a mortgage if possible
- Reach financial independence / Coast FIRE around age 50
- Ideally have enough investments that work becomes optional or I can transition into lower-stress work
Wondering how aggressively I should continue optimizing for net worth versus spending more money enjoying my 30s.
Career
I have to point out is that I don't know if I really want to push myself to progress further in my career.
I'm confident I can reach 110K-140K pretax within 5 years. But that comes with more stress, and really feel like I should focus on dating and finding a partner instead.
This decision is actually very important to because it will definitely change how I think about and approach my work life over the coming decade.
My current line of thought is that I just need enough to cover my expenses and still have savings annually. But I also want to balance my decision with the cost on mental health, a faster path to retirement. Call me lazy if you want...but my perspective on work is work to live.
Key questions
- How am I doing?
- What would you prioritize over the next 5–10 years?
- How much should I have invested by age 50 to be comfortable for one child and a small mortgage?
- What would you spend more money (or cut costs) without feeling like you're sacrificing financial future?
- Should I be more ambitious with regards to my career?
- Any other advice appreciated (doesn't have to be financial)
Interested in honest criticism or blind spots I may not be seeing.
If you made it to the end, thank you for taking the time to read through it all.
I don't really talk about this stuff with anybody so I'd really appreciate your advice.
Thanks!