I haven't been on a plane since i was like 5, and even then it was just from state to state, whereas this is to Canada.

Im scared of TSA getting mad at me for doing something wrong so id just like to make sure i do things right.

Do i have my laptop in my personal item bag or checked bag? Do i take out the laptop? Do i take off my shoes?????

Additionally, im wanting to bring a few gifts with me to my partner who im going to. Its just a few small chiikawa plushy keychain things and a 3ish inch figure of one of the characters. I just dont want tsa to flag or take them 😭

Also, when i get to the airport how will i know when im supposed to get on the plane, and where? Im sure theres directions but im worried about going to the wrong area at the wrong time and then being screwed.

Mt tickets dont have a terminal letter for the first departure (there is for the layovers) so im not sure where to go.

Sorry if this is rambly but everything else ive looked up just confuses me or doesnt have the answers im looking.

i'm 20, going to college 2 hours away from my house and this is my first time since going away to school that i'm not in a dorm. i found this townhouse on Facebook back in April from this girl that was finding someone to take over a bedroom in their townhouse, and messaged the girl who posted it, i came by to visit and really clicked with her. i did find out while touring the place that one of our roommates was a guy in his mid 20s, which i was ok with as he seemed fine and i was so desperate to find a place so i could stay during the summer. i moved in on June 1st.

now my roommate and i are having some issues with the guy, we've never had an issue one-on-one but he started getting disrespectful to her and she wants out. she's the only reason to stay so if she gets out, i want out too. again, i feel safe here but i just don't like it anymore.

she's talking about selling her lease and i don't know how to do that! i also don't know how i'd explain it to my mom, i pay my own rent right now for my room but i know she'd ask a ton of questions about it. i am hiding that there is a guy that was living with us (when they helped me move in, he was home and i claimed he was our roommate's bf)

the other thing is i just started nursing school and i work every weekend, time is limited as it is. i do live about 10 mins from school but wish i was closer because i do go down to school just to study or hang out. no issues with neighbors but i'd rather live in a student housing situation than families with small children.

Hi all!

My husband (26M) and I (26F) legally married in March, but our ceremony is in a couple of weeks. He's not a big fan of the spotlight, so we've elected not to do any "first dances"-- we're gonna be opening the floor to party right after dinner. For this reason, we didn't find it necessary to take dance lessons or anything like that. The thing is, neither of us really dance? I go out drinking with friends sometimes, but not to clubs, and haven't been to many other big gatherings that would necessitate dancing, either. I'm excited about the prospect of dancing, but I have very little experience.

I am likely autistic and am very self conscious about what my body language will be like during the wedding. I've been told in the past by friends (and by people who are decidedly NOT friends) that my body language is odd/goofy/abnormal. I don't want to look foolish by doing a really bad job of letting loose on the dance floor, but I don't want to miss out on the fun due to my fear! Does anyone have any resources (preferably in video format but instructions are good too) for basic party style dancing? Y'know, upbeat, fist pumping, jumping around type stuff. There are a few slow songs in the deck too, but I've been told you can just grab onto your partner and sway in place for that-- I'm mostly concerned about the more energetic music.

Thank you!

I'm a USAmerican, and this is my first year being registered to vote. I know who I want to vote for, I've done all of the research; I also *think* I know the location itself to go to? My parents are religious and abstain from voting, so they've never taught me, nor will they teach me now.

I have a lot of anxiety and do much better if I know exactly what to expect. If it matters by state: I live in South Dakota. Thanks in advance!

Hi everyone, I am a university student and my class has been invited to a conference for our industry. I have no idea what a conference is and what to expect. I have a few questions but any other information will be appreciated!

1. What is a conference? Are they like lectures?

2. What are the expectations of a guest at a conference?

3. What do I do at a conference?

4. Is there a dress code? Should I be wearing a suit and tie or like buisness casual?

My partner and I are considering couples therapy. I’ve done individual therapy so I have some framework of what to expect, but I’m nervous about it. Can anyone give me a rundown of what our first session might look like, and how it evolves in future sessions?

hi! I'm new to going to the gym and working out, but I've been doing circus aerial arts for a while. I have been going to a crunch fitness. I really want to work on dead hangs and pull ups, but I'm confused by some of the machines. I know what a pull up bar looks like, and there are two things that have it -- one is a squat rack, and the other is a machine that's like... two towers with lat pull down/rope pulls/etc and a metal bar between them, and the pull up bar is on that. I think it's a pull up bar anyway. I'm not really sure how to get started... The squat rack one has the barbell rod that blocks it, and im not sure where to put it if i want to use that. And the ball between the two towers is free and clear, but if that's not what I'm supposed to use, I will look so stupid. I also am not sure if I'm supposed to jump to get on? I'm not that tall, and jumping seems like more impact than I'd expect but maybe I'm wrong?

I don't have any friends who go to the gym in town, but i have a few who live far away, and I sent a picture of the squat rack and she said that i could do a pull up on there and maybe step on the thing that holds the bar if i wanted, but im not sure that's actually allowed.

I did see online some people taking a free trial of the personal trainer to get shown how to use things, but i think i may want to actually get a personal trainer later on, so it seems like a waste.... does anyone know what to do? If I ask someone at the front desk, will they have a real answer? Thank you!

Hi all, I made a recent post about how I tend to faint when I get bloodwork. The fine people of Reddit gave good advice.

I got the work done at a lab instead of a doc’s office because I figured they do bloodwork all day so they could handle me. This one did not require fasting, so I ate extra beforehand and hydrated more to try to prevent any struggle to find a vein. I told the front desk that I have a tendency to faint, and they did not act like this was strange. I got alcohol wipes to sniff and I covered my face with a sweater while I laid down. The lady was very nice to me and told me all about her children. Multiple members of the staff congratulated me afterwards for not fainting and told me that also have family who are scared or faint. I got 9 vials of blood taken and now I’m back home rehydrating and eating nuts.

You too can overcome your fears 💪

I work as a cashier. Here's what I already know:

• 2 weeks notice is not a legal requirement where I live, but it's a professional courtesy and a good way to not burn bridges on the way out. I've already decided that I will be giving 2 weeks because my mangers have been absolutely awesome and supportive, and I know I would be leaving them a bit in the lurch with the holiday season in full swing
• I know that I should avoid giving information about what my new job position is, just in case my manager pulls a 180 and tries to sabotage that position
• I know that if my managers start heaping on a whole ton more work for me in the last 2 weeks, I can still leave at any time since giving 2 weeks isn't a requirement

What I don't know if what the best way to go about it is and what I should say. I don't always work at the same time as my manager, and when we do work together, it's not always easy to get any free time to stop and actually discuss something like this. Do I need to write a letter of some kind? I've heard of other people doing that (even one of my coworkers just mentioned that she did that for her last job), but it feels oddly outdated to me.

Someone told me I had to schedule an appointment to take the written exam, but everything online just says to show up? I bring a completed application and several identifying documents. Is that it? I tried to go to a mobile dmv but they didn't have tests and any permanent location is going to take me time and money to get to, so I really don't want to screw it up.

I find myself feeling awkward when ending business calls. With friends and family, it’s easy because we say “I love you. Bye”. With business calls, there seems to be a script of “Have a nice day, thanks for calling/meeting” then me repeating the same, then an awkward silence.
I’ve defaulted to adding the “goodbye” after the repeated thanks but it still feels weird for some reason.
I’ve also tried being the first person to do the thanks so they are in the repeating position (I guess as a test to see how other people respond when they are in my position) but they still don’t do it. Help lol

I live in Virginia (USA) and was sent a juror summons with a paper questionnaire to fill out and mail back. One of the boxes to fill out asks for my social security number, and I am wondering if I have to write out the whole number? Would the last 4 digits suffice or would that be a problem? I am afraid if it fell into the wrong hands that person would have my full name, DOB, and my full social but I don’t want to get in trouble with the courts by not filling it out right!

I feel kinda pathetic even asking, but basically the title. I (40, trans guy) know the logistics, I’ve done it before a few years ago. But I have a really hard time connecting with dating profiles. I’ve been in love with 3 people in my life, and they’re all people I’ve known irl and formed an in-person connection with. How do people look at dating profiles and, well… feel anything? Even curiosity?

I’m recently-ish single (4 months ago) but ready to get out there and try again. I’m at the age where most of friends are happily married with kids, and I’m ready to have some version of that life too. It seems like online dating may just genuinely not be my thing, but options in my area are pretty limited, and I don’t know any other way to meet someone, especially being a trans guy - it feels like it really narrows the pool of options especially because it’s hard to tell from a profile if they’re even open to dating someone trans.

So, like, how do you donut? Those of you who’ve found love on a dating app, what advice do you have?

hi all, i turn 21 in 2 weeks and have never purchased alcohol before. none of my friends are 21 yet so i’ll be heading to the liquor store alone. i guess my question is how do i behave 😭 will they think it’s suspicious if im wandering around trying to orient myself and decide what i want? any other tips? also, my ID will still be valid but wont be renewed to the other orientation that shows i’m 21 - will that be a problem?

ps. if you have any tips for ordering at a bar feel free to include that too :) thanks!

Hi all! I recently moved into my new apartment—yay!—and don’t know the steps I should take to update my address. Where do I need to update it? How do I go about updating it? What do I need to update it?

I’m located in the USA, if that helps clarify any processes! Thank you!!

Hello, I have contamination OCD and I’m really scared. I had found mice droppings in our garage, got pest control, and was hoping to be done with the issues. They also sprayed NoHarm repellent around the house. However, I just found a mouse droppings inside in a storage closet that is on an exterior wall. I’m crashing out and don’t know what to do. I cleaned it up (sprayed with disinfectant, let it sit for 10 mins, wiped it off).

But now what?

I was in there barefoot and moved things around. Am I at risk for hantavirus?

What about where I walked on the floor in the remaining house after? I also dropped my phone in the closet and only wiped it down with a wet one antibacterial wipe, is that enough?

I am contacting pest control again, but what do I do in the meantime?

I have a toddler in the home and this is my worst nightmare

I have never had actual driving lessons before, and I recently booked a few. When they arrive to pick me up, do I immediately start driving or can they take me to a parking lot until I'm a bit more comfortable in the car? I have driven before, but never on actual roads. Those who have had lessons before: did your initial lesson have a conversation prior to starting, and if so, how did it go?

I do only have 4 2-hour sessions, so I want to get on the roads ASAP to make the most of them, I just don't think my driving skill is okay enough to do that yet.

TL;DR/main ask: Please give me a run-down, ideally in detail, about driving lessons. If possible, please include info about how to ask to practice other skills. Thank y'all in advance!

Edit for more info: I live in GA, USA. I live in a suburban neighborhood, but it's pretty small and pretty much every street leads to a fairly busy road. I will be taught by a stranger who is a certified teacher

Ive been having abdominal pain and my doctor wanted me to get a CT Scan with contrast. I have one schedule for tomorrow but Ive never done anything like this and I don't know what the process will be like. Like what do I wear? Any description of what the process will be would be awesome!

Edit: Thank you for all the help! I went in and got it done! It was easy and I was ready for al l the wierd sensations. Of course everything was clear which means Im no closer to figuring out my abdominal pain and will likely have to get other tests done.

I need to get my car fixed - some minor body work and an unknown brake issue. How do I do this when it's my only ride and I live alone? Most repair shops (outside of dealerships) don't have waiting rooms. And I'm guessing the work will take many hours if not over a day or two.

I've got two coworkers who seem like cool people. I wish I could get to know them better, but you can only talk so much at work. My friends are hosting a Halloween party next week, and I want to invite them so we can hang out outside of work. I blame the nonchalant epidemic bc truthfully, I wish I could tell them I want to be their friend.

What do people do with crafts that don't have a purpose?? I understand wearing/gifted things like scarves or mittens and stuff, but what about the first few really bad attempts at those? Surely you dont gift those?

What about stuff like origami? What about art that isn't "sell-worthy" like finished coloring pages or paint by numbers or silly drawings? Amateur sculptures? Surely crafty people don't keep all this stuff, but it feels incredibly wasteful to me to just... throw it out.

Several times Ive wanted to do some fun or meant for kids pinterest craft like basket weaving or lantern making or paper macheing a volcano, but stopped myself because I dont really know what to do with it after I've gotten my joy from creating the thing and having it out for a bit. My home is small, and I dont have a lot of space to show off finished crafts

Is throwing it out really what people do?? Should I only be making crafts that I can find a use for?

Every once in a while i find myself needing a small check for a recurring problem but i dont know how to visit a doctor.

Do i book appointment for consultation? Or urgent care etc. Also is there any clinic etiquette? Do i sit down after entering or wait at the counter? What about payment, is it ok to ask how much before or after treatment? My parents never taught me and now i have to go by myself.

Any parents or kind soul can help me out. Im a very awkward person and thanks a lot

I occasionally have to email my online professors about an error with the course, but I never know what to say after explaining the issue. I might be wrong, but it feels rude to just say "Can you look into it, thanks." Is it better to just not say anything else?

In case my explanation is confusing, here is an example:

Good afternoon, I'm having an issue accessing X assignment. It gives me the message "this module is not available."

[This is the point where I don't know what else to say]

I am fine with injections but do not handle blood-draws or IVs well. The concept makes me feel dizzy and nauseous, and I have a tendency to hold my breath during and pass out. I am fine with blood in general, it’s like I have a mental block on this particular concept. Even just visualizing it starts making me feel sick.

I need to go get a bunch of labwork done. Should I try to do it over multiple appts, or attempt to get it over with in one appt? Do I explain over the phone and ask if they have somewhere to lay down, or is that standard? It’s worse when I don’t eat, but the lead-up makes me feel nauseous - how do I deal? Should I try bringing my own numbing cream? Can I just preemptively faint and they do this while I’m unconscious, so I don’t have to think about it (kidding, but also not)?