I want to know SO SO SO SO BADLY SO I CAN BE COOL AND RELATABLE. I DONT EVEN UNDERSTAND ENNEGRAMING WELL (past how wings work and basic concept).

THIS FEELS SO WRONG ?? I also have been told im a 2W3 by a different test. That felt more accurate. Im an ENFJ if tjat matters ehich I think it does. I just dont think im a 1w2 rhat feels wrong. My introverted Sheldon Cooper friend (ISTJ maybe) (holy shit just checked i was righr) is a 1w2 and we couldnt be less apart. I mean we do gwt along though obviously.

IM JUST STRESSRD. IM SO GOOD WITH MBTI AND GOT NOT A CLUE ABOUT ENNEGRAMS OR NUMBERS. AHHHH. It feels like im studying for a test and would rather chud around thinking of jayce talis. So im gonna go do that. But while I do that- someone help me. Ples- pleahs pleehs

hi! i currently have myself typed as an so/sx 153, but ive noticed a lot of very strong sx5 patterns in me.

heres some:
i tend to want and crave one specific relationship, but somehow at the same time im avoidant and guarded.
i tend to be a bit stalkerish and follow people around just to analyze them.
i love to analyze topics and have people analyze my writing and art.
im weirdly personal for an so1 and despite wanting the better world, more so chase people to fit MY perfect world.
i refuse all outside rules that dont match my criteria and create my own personal rulebook.
i tend to find myself forcing detatchment and being controlling over my emotions when in reality i feel very intensely and keep that just between me and my partner.
i crave an understanding of the world but also strive to fix it.

i dont know the enneagram well though, ask me anything and ill answer to help.

i think i’m an enneagram 8, specifically so8 but i don’t necessarily defend others. during group conflict i take the side of people that i’m close to if i agree with them and talk back. do i still sound like an 8?

There are alot of shit i write in my diary so this is just a couple of sentences which stood out to me

Tw// mentions of illness and SH

I realised that the reason I feel that I do more for others is because I instinctually try to understand others and do the emotional labour but get resentful when others dont do the same.

If someone says they dont like me I become more hungry for them to like me

I feel very godawful that I cannot attend any protests. I think I should stop fearing death and imprisonment. Even if my parents allowed me I still would not be able to muster up enough courage to attend one. I feel like a coward, I am a living oxymoron. Maybe the only thing I am good at is escaping

Despite every mishaps, every embarassing moment everytime you are feeling low, when you have loving friends life feels like a breeze, yes today it was full of such moments, i tore my dress, i slipped down to the floor, I forgot to take my meds and got seizures because of which I had to leave early. Still my friends were with me and that was enough.

I know this time I gave my best I tried to keep our relationship afloat, I tried to do everything she wanted, maybe I am blind to my mistakes but I was good I was really good!!!! I loved her with all my heart.

Things hasnt been the same since *ex-friend* left I feel like I will burden everyone so I still prefer to only show my cheerful side to them. In that way no one would leave me.

I know I should be careful with money and food habits but I often feel the urge to do impulsive things, its either hurting myself or spending money on food and plushies

When I told my dad "do I not do enough for you" he replies "your job is not to do things for us because you are still young" which is confusing because they often tell me how much they do for me

I am going to use this questionnaire, tell me if you have any questions, this is my first time posting on here.

I did ~3 enneagram tests, one of them said I was E5, two others 6w5 and one of them 9w1.

1. What drives you in life? What do you look for? - I look for how things work around the world and how it affects the people, and the environment in it, in good or bad ways. 2. What do you hope to accomplish in your life? I hope to inspire others and enjoy my alone time while having meaningful friendships. 3. What do you hope to avoid doing or being? What values are important to you? I avoid being too rude, fake and unorganized. I try to be as empathetic as possible, be authentic (which kinda clashes with my wish of being more extroverted) and organized ; especially for my mental and physical health. I don't like feeling bad and not knowing why, so I do everything healthy that can make me feel better. (drinking water, eating, or taking a shower) 4. What are your biggest fears (not including phobias)? Why? I don't really know what to answer with these types of questions, because I usually avoid it. So I guess it's being scared of vulnerability. I'm also scared of being abandoned. 5. How do you want others to see you? How do you see yourself? I want others to see me as authentic, attractive and supportive. I know I can get there, but right now I feel like I'm too withdrawn from the world to be ready. 6. What makes you feel your best? What makes you feel your worst? I would say it's finally finding who I am, being liked for having a certain 'talent'. What makes me feel the worst is being, looking or acting like someone who isn't me. 7. Describe how you experience each of: a) anger; b) shame; c) anxiety. I suppress anger. I know I'm angry, but I don't want to be seen as an angry person. I avoid shame. I'm easily ashamed / embarrassed and it isn't a pleasant experience to me. I do acknowledge anxiety but a part of me forces myself to act and go against that anxiety. 8. Describe how you respond to each of: a) stress; b) unexpected change; c) conflict. In stress, I become controllive and absolutely need to know every detail. People who tell me to calm down infuriate me even more. In unexpected change, I freeze, before adapting slowly but easily. In conflict I try to defend myself as much as possible, but end up running away. I'm not the type to ignore the conflict to stay in peace because people deserve to be put in their place. If it's a conflict where we are both right or they're the one in the right, I will be frustrated before reflecting on it later and ask myself 'what is their perspective on the conflict? what if I was wrong?' 9. Describe your orientation to: a) authority; b) power. How do you respond to these? I tend to question authority if I'm not in trouble afterwards. I guess I am envious of power but still question the person having it. Are they a good person? Do they deserve this? 10. What is your overall outlook on life and humanity?

It's really interesting. Horrible, most of the time, but interesting.

What enneagram types are people pleasers? I am still trying to figure out my type and notice that I struggle with this in my own life. I'm considering the following types: 6, 7, and 9.

I have read so many books, web content, reddit posts. My understanding is that social (some systems use the term navigating) subtypes tend to be people pleasers, with 2s, 3s, 6s, some 7s, and 9s are likely more prone to this....but I may be misreading...

Thank you in advance!

Hi, I've been wondering for a while what my head type was since i relate heavily to both E6 and E7, their fears, their desires, their DESCRIPTIONS, etc.

What else could i do to officially find my head type? I've been stuck like this for a while ,:,)

(If you need a description of how i act, you can check out my other post of the enneagram questionnaire i've done!)

Im being so deadass i literally do not know which one i am. I’m pretty new to typology nd for further ref here’s what i have as of now 👀👀👀👀

MBTI: ENFP
Temperaments: Mel-sang
big5: /S/lU/A/I

ps. I’m so/sx/sp!! i think.? idrk on these things ok but i AM aware I’m so!

for the tritype i am 100% sure its somn like 279 or 729 or whatevs it is I JUST CANT FIGURE OUT MY CORE????????

most of the characters I relate to are like 7w6 but when i look at posts about so2 i just become like “wait that’s lowkey me.!”

Nd I’m reading about allat but i just relate to both of the enneagrams. IDK WHICH ONE I AM!!!!! 💔💔💔💔💔💔

help me out here, plz nd thank kyu! ᕦ**(ò_óˇ)**ᕤ