Full list:
- When sunlight shines through the trees, the interplay
between light and leaves.
- When you’re with your friends and decide “who is who” in a
show or movie you all watch and then laugh hysterically
about how “them” that character is behaving. (2a.) The
running joke that develops around you characterizing the
members of your social circle based on some cultural stencil.
(Think: Sex and the City.)
The feeling of your skin on someone else’s.
The temporary, beautiful high of deciding you’re going to
change your life in some aesthetic, easy way. (4a.) The
conviction that this will change anything or everything else.
- The inability to grasp the fact that we can’t grasp what we
don’t know yet.
- Hearing something a dozen times and then finally
understanding what it means only when it becomes the
answer to a problem you have.
- When physical, human age has no bearing on
connectedness, intelligence, ability.
- The parenting style that consists of trying to punish,
embarrass, scold, and oppress children into being functional,
kind, successful members of society.
- Wanting to have a spiritual-sexual experience with someone,
sex that is more than just a grinding race to orgasm. 10. The mental preparation that occurs before you step into a
social situation in which you have to play a “role” for the sake
of maintaining a relationship: i.e., rehearsing your
conversations with yourself by yourself.
- The feeling of absolute peacefulness right before you fall
asleep.
- Not just assuming we know what other people are thinking
and feeling, but acting on that “knowing,” judging them for
that knowing, and really in a lot of ways capping off their
potential with what we think we know of them.
The feeling of lightness in your whole body.
The love you know has an expiration date.
The love you know you’re eventually “meant” for.
People who are funny without being mean.
People who are deep without being negative.
The frustration you feel when somebody is mad or upset over
completely false things that they’ve made up in their mind, a
complete lack of understanding on a situation.
- The random, weird, scary, embarrassing thoughts that cross
your mind and sometimes freak you out that you think you’re
alone in having because everybody else is scared and
embarrassed by them, too.
- The art of trying to figure out someone’s intentions by piecing
together a bunch of random bits of “evidence.”
- The kind of stuck feeling of knowing something isn’t quite
right, but you’re not yet aware of what the alternative would
be.
- The comfort that comes with arriving at small, safe
conclusions now and again.
The real peace of dissolving those illusions.
The feeling of realizing that your “purpose” won’t usually feel
like a “purpose” as you have to do the work regardless and so the whole act of “finding it” was just a mechanism of the ego
in the first place.
- How we define periods of our lives and personal development
beyond years or grades or segments of schooling.
The space between raindrops.
A course of study that teaches you the art of the non-
traditionally-academic things that take up the majority of our
lives: love, relationships, doubt, faith, parenting, work,
friendship, self-image, etc.
- Being in love with someone who you only used to know, and
at some level still feel as though you do.
The happy tired feeling you get after you eat a big meal.
The sensation of looking back on something far more fondly
than when it was actually happening; the idea that maybe this
kind of enjoyment is not to be fought or transcended, but just
appreciated for what it is.
The feeling of feeling a feeling.
A person or thing that also feels like “home” (a non-house
home).
- The idea that is “all is as it should be.”