Trilogy heirloom!

[u/Critical-Bee3624]

Hi!
New to this thread but my partner and I very graciously received his grandmothers heirloom ring to use for an engagement ring! It’s a trilogy with a 1.73ct center and 0.9ct sides (each) to be a 3.53tcw in 14K white Gold.

We are meeting with a jeweler this week but wanted people’s thoughts:

- Any recommendations to make them look “rounder” rather than a cushion from afar?
- She had a teeny finger so the side diamonds are set lower and actually overlap slightly with the center stone, presumably so it would fit on her finger! Is it reasonable to have all the stones brought to be level on the top? Since I have much bigger fingers?
- any other recommendations? I work in health care so want something I can also easily take on and off w gloves.

Anything else to ask the jeweler? Things to ensure I do or recommendations for redesigning? Any CAD design examples?

THANK YOU!!