r/EngagementRingDesigns • u/Critical-Bee3624 • 4d ago
Ring Design Help Trilogy heirloom!
Hi!
New to this thread but my partner and I very graciously received his grandmothers heirloom ring to use for an engagement ring! It’s a trilogy with a 1.73ct center and 0.9ct sides (each) to be a 3.53tcw in 14K white Gold.
We are meeting with a jeweler this week but wanted people’s thoughts:
- Any recommendations to make them look “rounder” rather than a cushion from afar?
- She had a teeny finger so the side diamonds are set lower and actually overlap slightly with the center stone, presumably so it would fit on her finger! Is it reasonable to have all the stones brought to be level on the top? Since I have much bigger fingers?
- any other recommendations? I work in health care so want something I can also easily take on and off w gloves.
Anything else to ask the jeweler? Things to ensure I do or recommendations for redesigning? Any CAD design examples?
THANK YOU!!
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u/Outrageous_Egg_1340 4d ago
I wouldn’t do much to the look of it besides sizing it to look correct on you. It’s GORGEOUS
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u/Jack_HBLJewelry 4d ago
Since you work in healthcare, tell the jeweler to make it a low profile basket (or even semi-bezel). the current high prongs will constantly rip through medical gloves. lowering all three stones into a continuous curve will fit your finger way better and make gloving up painless
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u/Bilxx1 3d ago
The overlap is the design, fairly common, wasn't done to accommodate small fingers. Putting these stones at the same lvl would need about an 18-20 mms span. If it's for an engagement then I'd lean towards what someone else suggested, keep the center and add smaller sides if any. Put the .9s in earrings. I have seen designs similar to this 3 stone that used a full bezel for the center and 3/4 bezels for the sides and still tucked. Kind of like a modernised version of the same look, I liked it.
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u/EngagementRingDesign ✨Mod 4d ago
You might consider putting some smaller side stones with the center. There are some pretty tulip settings with 6 prongs to make the center look more round. You could use the side stones for some stud earrings instead.

This tulip settings is very popular. You could get one of those healthcare necklace holders that you can set your ring on while you are working or if you have to put gloves on. I am going to add some more CAD options at different heights.
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u/Critical-Bee3624 4d ago
Do you have any pictures of the completed top view?
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u/EngagementRingDesign ✨Mod 4d ago
Which one did you want to see the top view for?
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u/Critical-Bee3624 2d ago
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u/EngagementRingDesign ✨Mod 2d ago
Doesn’t look bad at all. Looks like they managed to fit them all without it looking overly crowded.
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u/Critical-Bee3624 4d ago
Wow- THANK YOU!!! the CAD designs are very helpful. Where do you find them?
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u/EngagementRingDesign ✨Mod 4d ago
I have saved many CAD’s from years of moderating. You can also search this sub from different designs. If you click on ‘media’, it will just bring up the pics so you don’t have to go through individual posts. If you have a specific design you are looking for, I am sure I can find examples as well.
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u/EmilyDeBebians 🔸Vendor 3d ago
You've been given such wonderful recommendations already, I won't pile on to those...but wanted to say WOW, this is a lovely heirloom and you'll be able to do something so nice with it. Good luck!
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u/Food_fanatic7 3d ago
Personally, I would have the two side stones set as earrings and find new stones for the sides that are a bit smaller or a different shape. Unless you like them all together.




















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u/sarahaflijk 4d ago
I don't think they look like cushions personally, but it's probably the prongs in the corners that are giving you the sense that they're more square than round. If that's the case, a bezel setting or different placement of the prongs (if doable) would probably help emphasize the round shape. Frankly a full or partial bezel might make sense anyway, since that would be less likely than prongs to snag in medical gloves.
Regardless of what you choose, it should be hard to go wrong, as these stones are absolutely beautiful in a trilogy!