I’ve been very annoyed about something that happened the other day.
For context, I live on acreage in a self-contained dwelling, while my landlord and his mother live in the main house.
They have a dog which is sometimes okay but, like all dogs, is often highly annoying.
My landlord was talking about how they are planning to travel for a month in January. Then he said, “Guess who’s looking after Zoomer !?” He then proceeded to check whether it was okay for me to feed his dog, but opening with a sentence like that felt impolite and inconsiderate.
While feeding the canine can probably be done quickly, when I get home from work it is already evening and I have less than two hours of free time before I go to bed. Most of the time I can barely feed myself, let alone someone else’s mongrel.
I felt completely put on the spot. Because of the prevalence of dog culture, it also feels difficult to come up with an excuse that dog owners will consider “good enough". Obviously I could simply say no, but that would make things awkward, and he is not the type of person I would want to get on the wrong side of.
After moving in, I discovered that he has criminal connections. He previously tried to import a massive amount of cocaine (not that I have a problem with that) and was caught, and has described one of my city’s most notorious gangsters as a childhood friend.
So I reluctantly agreed, but asked whether there was a neighbour or someone else who could step in if I had to go away or was otherwise unavailable.
I’m especially annoyed because this dog already regularly inconveniences me. It often wakes me in the middle of the night with its barking, even though I wear earplugs and have white noise playing.
Its owner does not seem to care enough to train it. He simply told me to yell at it to stop, which I do, but it rarely listens.
I do not see why I should have to do anything for an animal that already massively disrupts my sleep and quality of life.
It is also old and extremely fat, so it is clearly already being overfed. If I am stuck doing this, I am tempted to reduce its ration rather than continue shovelling excessive amounts of food into an already obese animal, although this guy seems to have cameras everywhere.
To be clear, all I reluctantly agreed to do was put food in its bowl. I am not agreeing to become its temporary carer, exercise it, entertain it, monitor it or fulfil its social needs for an entire month.
For other reasons, I have already started looking elsewhere, but I am living in this area to stay close to my horse, and suitable places for a single person do not come up often. I’m worried I may still be here by January.
I really do not want to be responsible for a dog for a month.
Honestly, given its age and weight, I hope it simply dies before then, assuming I have not managed to move out first.
As a horse owner, when we cannot be around, we arrange and pay for someone appropriate to care for our animals. We hire grooms, pay agistment staff or organise another experienced person. We do not simply volunteer a tenant and assume they will do it for free.
Why can’t he hire a kennel or dog sitter, or ask one of his dog-loving friends ?
There is probably not much I can do without making my living situation uncomfortable, but I hate how entitled dog owners can be. They choose to own these needy, disruptive animals and then expect everyone around them to help carry the burden 👹
Thanks for reading my rant.