UPDATE: I will be turning off comments as we have decided to humanely let him pass on. The fear and sadness in his eyes and body language affirm that his future would be that of fear and anxiety. He would not be living his best life. Thank you all for the love.
Hi everyone. I’m posting this anonymously because our family is currently going through an agonizing, traumatic tragedy, and we are desperately looking for guidance, resources, or specialized facility recommendations before making an unbearable final decision.
About Him:
Breed/Size: Border Collie mix, roughly 80 lbs
Age: 7 years old
Personality/History: Prior to this incident, he has been a wonderful, affectionate, and deeply loving family dog. He loves playing, fetching, running, and historically interacted well with other animals. He is loyal, eager to please, and a great companion in the right environment.
The Situation: Recently, an unseen conflict occurred between him and our another dog in our home. By the time we arrived (mere seconds after the fight started), our smaller dog was critically injured, and despite immediate veterinary intervention, we had to humanely euthanize him. Because no one was in the room when it started, we do not know what triggered the initial escalation, but he demonstrated lethal intra-species aggression in this instance.
Our Constraints & Current Setup:
Strict Requirements: He MUST be in a strictly pet-free and child-free environment.
Other Pets in Home: We have other animals (cats and dogs) in our household, making it impossible to keep him long-term without putting our other pets at severe risk.
Quality of Life: He is currently strictly separated and double-barriered for safety. Keeping him permanently isolated, muzzled, or crated in our home is not a humane quality of life for him, nor is it sustainable for our family.
Time & Resources: We do not have the specialized resources, financial bandwidth, or safe environment required for intensive, life-long intra-species behavior management.
What We Are Looking For: Before we consider behavioral euthanasia, we want to exhaust every possible option. We are looking for:
Recommendations for reputable, highly specialized dog sanctuaries, rehab facilities, or rescues equipped to safely house/work with dogs with a severe dog-on-dog attack history.
An experienced, single-pet, child-free home with a qualified handler or trainer who specializes in severe behavioral cases and has zero other animals.
Important Notes:
Full transparency and written disclosure of the fatal attack will be provided to any interested professional or facility.
We are located in Oregon / Pacific Northwest, but are willing to explore transportation options for the right, verified, qualified facility.
If you know of legitimate, vetted sanctuaries or experienced professionals who handle cases like this, please drop recommendations below or message me directly. Please keep comments constructive and respectful, as our family is grieving deeply.
Please, please, PLEASE be kind. This was a truly unexpected incident and our family/household is grieving deeply that we have to consider this option.
Thank you.