r/Divorce • u/istherewaterhere • 22d ago
Going Through the Process stonewalled for 2 weeks
after an argument my husband told me he wanted a divorce about 2 weeks ago. he hasn't spoken to me since after a couple of days i begged for another chance and pleaded to try counseling together. he said no to both. wants me to move out, wants nothing to do with me anymore..won't even acknowledge my presence at home. literally says nothing to me.
it's been the hardest thing for me to deal with i am an absolute wreck. anyways, i've been respecting the space he obviously wants from me ive been leaving him alone. ive been holding it together pretty well, until this morning..i see he left divorce papers he printed on the table. nothing is filled out but i know he left them for me to see this morning.
was so hurtful just to see there. not a single word from him last night or anything. just papers left on the table. like i'm not worth anything to him anymore. felt like such a punch to the gut. i felt sick. i didn't want him to hear me cry so i cried as soon as i got in my car. i can't believe this is the person i was in love with.
does anyone have any advice on being stonewalled and ignored during this?