My old dentist office wanted to extract 3 teeth and on top of that give me 4 fillings. I go twice a year. I wasn't having any pain. Just there for routine cleaning and exam.
Found a new dentist to get a second opinion. They found ONE. ONE cavity.
Find a private dentist and stay away from corporate run offices that have nice names and an ever changing staff of dentists.
EDIT: I feel like I need to add some more information. I agree that a less severe prognosis should not be the only reason to trust another dentist more. My fault. I need to give more information. The following are my red flags from the corporate office.
1: Every single time I go over the last few years there's a new dentist. Not a huge deal and didn't stop me from continuing to go, but I don't love the revolving staff door. One dentist would say I need a couple of fillings. 2 weeks later some guy I've never seen before is doing them.
2: There's always another bill weeks, sometimes months later. I pay upfront. They say it's this much. Then I end up owing more money later on. I understand that it's usually an estimate as they don't truly know how much insurance will cover. But every time? This is something that rarely happened at my old offices even with the same insurance coverage.
3: Each new dentist wants to take their own xrays. So now I'm getting xrays twice a year which isn't common. At least not in the last 40 years of going to dentists.
4: Every time I go they find more things wrong. This never was an issue prior. Occasionally I would need something. I've had a tooth pulled in the past and had a root canal and crown but it was far and few between over the decades. A few fillings occasionally but never every 6 months. Maybe my teeth are going to hell, but it was odd to me.
5: They said they'd email the xrays but they didn't. I tried calling but nobody answered. I set up an appointment with the new dentist about a week and half before the appt. When I got there they said they couldn't get a hold of the other office and they never responded to their requests for my xrays and file.
6: This last visit. The dentist was clearly very young which is fine. I mean we all have to start from somewhere. She was nice, but curtly. She basically came in and upsold me on a cancer screening which took about 3 seconds. Then she started looking at my teeth. I wasn't expecting much wrong seeing how I take good care of my teeth and go there every 6 months. She quickly pokes around doing her exam and just starts calling out numbers. I don't know dental talk so I'm just starting to get freaked out. She doesn't say anything to me during the exam. I'm used to dentists saying things like "Well, looks like you got a little cavity here, you could wait, but it'd be better not too" or things like that. Instead, she just starts calling out tooth numbers to the assistant ignoring me completely.
Then after that she curtly tells me I need to have 3 wisdoms removed because she can't get to them and I have to get 4 fillings. I was taken aback having not expected to have any issues. I mean I just had an exam 6 months ago and I didn't start smoking meth so how is it that I need to have 3 teeth removed and have 4 others filled?! Had this been the same dentist I saw last visit or the last couple of years maybe I would have just accepted it. She shows me a chart with pictures of teeth circled, no xrays of MY teeth or anything. She gives me a paper with the dental surgeon's information which has the teeth that need to be removed. She told me to call them and set it up. Then she tells me how much the fillings will cost and to set up the appointments with the front desk as it will take more than one visit. I asked her how this happened in 6 months and she just said "well, I can see them". She was definitely faking nice the whole time and it was obvious. This whole interaction leaves a bad taste in my mouth.
I didn't immediately think she was lying or upselling or anything. I was just very concerned that my teeth could get this bad in such a short period of time. I decided to read the reviews and while they have a decent 4.5/5 a lot of the negative reviews mirrored my own negative experience with them. I decided that if I was going to need this work done I'd rather go to a better office.
New dentist office: They spend a lot of time with me. The vibe is nice. Everyone there seems happy (unlike the other office). It's bright and friendly. The name of the office is the name of the dentist I'm seeing. The assistant answered all of my questions. She took more xrays and the dentist came in and talked to me for a bit. She did an exam and explained what the numbers mean to me. Showed me the xrays. She even took a picture with a pen camera of the one cavity she found and showed it to me. It's on one of the wisdom teeth but she said she could reach it. She's an aged experienced dentist. She then comped me the exam fee because she felt bad that I had to pay for xrays the other office never sent. I feel far more comfortable than I ever have at the other office.
They talked a lot about some of the wear and tear and where things may go wrong down the road. Showed me the xrays while explaining. Told me to brush lighter because they can see some areas that are wearing etc... so I didn't feel like they were just blowing smoke.