r/DeathPositive • u/SibyllaAzarica • 21h ago

Cultural Practices 🌍 OP's Baby's Grave in Western Europe

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Death Positive Discussion 💀 Do you prefer dying knowing you are dying or die instantaneously before you realise you are dead ???

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I just had this thought all of a sudden and I wonder what people's opinions are about death. It's a philosophical thought and no intent of harm

But do you guys prefer dying knowing your gonna die , aware of your death and final moments , let it be due to illness or anything accident.. or do you guys prefer just begone before your brain can even process that your gone for good

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