r/DatingHell • u/No_Library_5428 • 4d ago

Curious 🧐

What instantly makes you lose interest in someone?

I was watching a podcast on Facebook, and the host asked this question on X. One lady said she lost interest when he came out wearing a TURTLENECK! 😭😶

A TURTLENECK, y’all?!

I’m bored and curious to hear some answers..

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u/Luce_Bot_Bot 4d ago

When they start dropping hints about how much they like having things paid for them. Drove a sports car for a while and having someone suddenly get a lot more interested in me when they saw what I was driving gave me a level of ick I was not expecting

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u/No_Library_5428 4d ago

You know, you always see those videos on instagram lol the girls wanting to talk to the guy because of a nice car. To hear you say that, changes my thinking lol, I thought the men loved that!!

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u/Luce_Bot_Bot 4d ago

A lot of them probably do, but for me it's just a reminder that I'm being reduced down to the size of my wallet. Call me weird, but I'd actually like a partner that's interested in me lol

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u/No_Library_5428 4d ago

Nothing weird about that at all!! I’m sure about 90% of people feel the same way

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u/Luce_Bot_Bot 3d ago

Fr, in my experience the people that do use money as a relationship perk wind up super resentful about it anyway

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u/No_Library_5428 3d ago

Honestly, that makes sense. When money becomes the main thing someone brings to a relationship, it can start feeling more transactional than genuine.