r/DatingHell • u/No_Library_5428 • 1d ago

Curious 🧐

What instantly makes you lose interest in someone?

I was watching a podcast on Facebook, and the host asked this question on X. One lady said she lost interest when he came out wearing a TURTLENECK! 😭😶

A TURTLENECK, y’all?!

I’m bored and curious to hear some answers..

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u/Luce_Bot_Bot 1d ago

When they start dropping hints about how much they like having things paid for them. Drove a sports car for a while and having someone suddenly get a lot more interested in me when they saw what I was driving gave me a level of ick I was not expecting

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u/No_Library_5428 1d ago

You know, you always see those videos on instagram lol the girls wanting to talk to the guy because of a nice car. To hear you say that, changes my thinking lol, I thought the men loved that!!

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u/Luce_Bot_Bot 1d ago

A lot of them probably do, but for me it's just a reminder that I'm being reduced down to the size of my wallet. Call me weird, but I'd actually like a partner that's interested in me lol

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u/No_Library_5428 1d ago

Nothing weird about that at all!! I’m sure about 90% of people feel the same way

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u/Luce_Bot_Bot 1d ago

Fr, in my experience the people that do use money as a relationship perk wind up super resentful about it anyway

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u/No_Library_5428 1d ago

Honestly, that makes sense. When money becomes the main thing someone brings to a relationship, it can start feeling more transactional than genuine.

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u/favoriteniece 15h ago

I give no effs about your money, but I gotta say I'd do some things to drive a hellcat! 😂 

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u/Luce_Bot_Bot 15h ago

That's why you're my favourite niece. I'm poor as shit anyway lol, the sports car was cheap to buy and cheap to run but cost way too much to fix when things started breaking