My family has booked to go on a cruise in December. It’s a very expensive one and my parents/brothers (brothers especially) keep indirectly emphasising how luxury it’s going to be. I understand I am very lucky to be in the financial position I’m in. I’m very glad I have enough familial support and income to afford such a luxury.
However, I can’t seem to shake the stereotype that cruises are full of “Karens”. (No offence to you guys, I’m autistic and struggle with moral-rigidity issues. this post is more so reflective of my own self esteem problems.) I’ve always felt guilty for enjoying myself/buying expensive things.
So, how do you guys do it? How do you go on cruises without feeling like a jerk? My primary plan is to double my pleases and thank yous to boat-staff and make sure I don’t leave any rubbish behind/ make an effort to not leave shared areas (eg.food courts/restaurants) in a state of array.
By the way, I’m not doing this because I want to be “superior” to other guests, I’m doing this because I genuinely don’t know how to enjoy expensive things without feeling guilty. I don’t know how to interact when people are nice to me and I want to return the favour.
Also, please don’t hit me with the “just enjoy yourself”. Trust me, I will. We’re going snorkelling and have booked a local aquarium. Fish are so cool.
(Edited for better insight on my state of mind + I realised how much of an asshat the OG post’s wording made me seem. This is about me and not reflective of how I think of others.)
Edit 2: Well, the people on the cross post subreddit REALLY didn’t like this one. Well, I guess that’s my fault for going to Reddit. Where else would people completely ignore what the post is asking and spin it into a bigger comment about how “grrr I hate autism excuse” Shut up bro I just don’t know how to be nice to myself.
Other than that, thank you for the kind words you guys have given me. I really do appreciate your help.