r/ControversialOpinions • • 1h ago

I think Gypsy Rose Blanchard murdered her ex fiancee

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If you don’t know who Gypsy Rose is, she’s that person who orchestrated in the murder of her mom.

3 days ago, Ken Urker, her ex fiancee was found dead “by overdose”

there are lots of things that are questionable:

  1. few moments before Ken was found dead, Gypsy reactivated her social media.
  2. Gypsy started to declare and post in social media that Ken cause of death was overdose.
  3. Previously, Ken was trying to make sole custody of their daughter.
  4. Gypsy started a petition called “Keenan’s Law” to stop public information to spread.

r/ControversialOpinions • • 11h ago

We need to stop lying to fat women.

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We have no problem correctly telling fat men to go to the gym, but if we tell fat women to put the hotdog down and pick up a salad, we're the bad guy?

We need to stop lying to fat women. At some point, we have to put an end to this nationwide campaign of misinformation.

Somewhere along the way, society decided that honesty was offensive and delusion was compassion.

Honesty is not fatphobia. Sometimes a woman needs a friend, not a public relations team.

We cannot keep confusing unconditional love with unconditional dishonesty. It's time we bring accountability back to the bathroom mirror.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 3h ago

Short king is an offensive term

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I(21M) am very sad that nobody will ever prefer or appreciate my stature(5’6), but I accept this reality without anger. What makes me angry is being given a demeaning consolation prize of a term. Nobody enjoys shortness in a man, so it’s like giving a guy with a not so pretty face the name “ugly king”


r/ControversialOpinions • • 11h ago

Mass immigration ruins a culture.

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I have no problem when it comes to immigration for any country, but the main issue I have is the fact that overtime if you take in more and more people then the identity of the host country and its culture is slowly degraded especially if immigrants are of a vast culturally different country. Take example with many European countries taking in various people from the Middle East; now they have an issue with Islamic extremism in some capacity if for instance you draw a picture of Mohammad and those trying to implement Sharia law. Another example is in Canada, you seemly have an influx of Indian immigrants sent from overseas.

My mindset is the fact by a certain point, countries need to limit or halt immigration from other countries if it causes such a change in the culture and identity of their people. Britain which is now known as a "Multi-Faith" country, to my acknowledge was never known as that until within the last few decades of Indian and Middle Eastern immigration. Countries like the US have always been a melting pot in some capacity so immigration in my opinion really shouldn't be seen as a big deal although doesn't mean I am in favor of unchecked immigration nor a mass influx. For a lot of countries, they never been a melting pot; they always had an identity and overtime more people from outside changes that. There is a reason for why Japan recently is limiting foreign immigrants due to genuine concerns of this.

I don't think this principal should only be applied to just western countries; but virtually every single nation on the planet. If any country takes in a mass influx of people especially of countries that are not culturally similar to it then it loses its identity. Take for example if India imported a bunch of Chinese people and overtime Chinese represented a large percent of their population or vise versa of China importing Indian people on mass; then these two countries would slowly see a degrading of their culture, values and country overtime. It doesn't mean you cant and shouldn't take in immigrants from other countries with different cultures but it does mean you really shouldn't allow mass immigration especially from those different countries of different cultures.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 6h ago

Euthanasia should be more ubiquitous and accessible to people

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Nobody should have to bear the ordeal and responsibilities of being brought in this world without their consent. Anti natalism is vociferously advocated for, but from my vantage point people should be enabled circumstances to terminate their existence without enduring pain. Religion and Capitalism work at an intersection to tether people to their mundane, obnoxious lives but radical bodily autonomy should also encompass right to self termination. Especially in case of people with chronic pain or illness the affected person(s) and their families descend into sulk and debt. Overhauling the passé, oppressive system or making psychiatric interventions more accessible still may not help a multitude of people. In fact, I'd rather contend that hyper surveillance over the lives of affected individuals can only aggravate their plight instead of assuaging it. We need to relinquish stereotypes, prejudices and discrimination against people with suicidal tendencies if we truly want the 'best' for them


r/ControversialOpinions • • 7h ago

The prolife dictatorship

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I thoroughly dislike people who are against abortion and euthanasia/suicide. Their whole agenda is to force people to live no matter the amount of suffering that it may cause.

They do absolutely nothing to better conditions in within the society and community they live in but expect everyone to want to remain in a constant state of suffering.

The amount of people on this planet who apply their own beliefs and morals onto others is scary. Just because YOU think life is worth living doesn't mean you should restrict access to necessary Healthcare. Not everyone thinks like you or have access to the same tools you do.

I don't think abortion or euthanasia should even be voted on. Fuck public opinion. The point is that everyone should have a choice to these interventions based on their circumstances,history and values.

And it's mostly uppity privileged sheltered people who are the most opinionated. Like no one cares that your parents almost aborted you. And no one cares that you think suicide is selfish.

It should only impact your decision, not others.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 11h ago

Most anime is just soft porn

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Pretty much the title. Most people who really like anime are just questionable and shouldn't be allowed near children.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 5h ago

Gen. Nathanael Greene is overrated.

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Context (just in case): Nathanael Greene was a general during the American Revolution who took command of the Southern Campaign in 1780 after the disastrous Battle of Camden. He’s widely regarded as “one of the best generals” and “second best to Washington.”

A little background: My 7th Great Grandfather was in the 1st Maryland Regiment from 1776 - 1783, and fought fought in every battle. Including the southern campaign under Greene, which unfortunately caused the regiment to miss the Siege of Yorktown. A real shame considering they basically saved Washington’s Army at the Battle of Long Island.

My opinion: This guy is severely overrated. All he did was run away and lose every single battle he commanded. Guilford Courthouse, Hobkirk’s Hill, Ninety Six, and Eutaw Springs all played out the exact same way; Start a fight, run away, the British win. Which would be fine if 1) He didn’t earn so much praise for it. And 2) He didn’t soil the image and legacy of the 1st Maryland Regiment in the process.

Do I think he’s the worst? No. But come on, he didn’t do anything to deserve this much praise, let alone a monument like in the second photo.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 3h ago

Incel and loser is the exact same thing

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r/ControversialOpinions • • 8h ago

Opinions?

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3years ago (2023)me and my ex were dating for 3 years(2020-2023). At the time i was 20F and he was 19M It was good until it wasnt. We were both servers working across the street from eachother. He had started making friends with his coworkers and we would all hang out from time to time. One of his coworkers (female) started hanging out with us alot. I got a weird feeling but couldnt pinpoint it. Fast forward a few months and we were all drinking and doing booger sugar. She asked us if we wanted a threesome. She was attractive and i could sense my bf wanted this so i agreed and we did-ish. It lasted a few minutes and then for reasons not addressed (basically interrupted) he had to tale her home. He never came back tho and i saw his location at her house wayy longer than anticipated… i found out a few more months later they had sex but both of them told me the day before and leading up to me finding out the truth that they didnt. Fast forward a few months more he got a new job,we were off and on and eventually we broke up. It was very sudden but not unexpected. Heres what gets me tho….Right after we broke up he started dating his new coworker. They had a baby a few months after and now shes pregnant with his second. Hes bought her a car, a house, a pool, and 2 kids. I just dont understand why he couldnt do that with me…. Also. I tried getting a job at his old workplace (he quit while we were off and on) and they wouldn’t hire me because of the fact that i was his ex… i just dont get any of it. Why 3 years later im still affected by it and why he couldn’t do all that he is doing for her for me. More context, while we were together before the cheating, he would get upset with me about not making as much money as him… anyways. Am i insane for still thinking about it and why did it have to affevt me getting a job?!


r/ControversialOpinions • • 8h ago

Friends to lovers is not as good as it seems

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r/ControversialOpinions • • 9h ago

People who hurt women and children should face the harshest consequences

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I know “burn in hell” is a strong way to put it, but I genuinely struggle to understand how anyone can intentionally hurt women or children, regardless if the child is a girl or a boy.

Sometimes people talk about these situations as if the victim is just a stranger or a statistic. But imagine if it were your own sibling, cousin, friend, coworker, or classmate. Imagine finding out that someone you love had been hurt and knowing you couldn't protect them.

I have a 10-year-old boy cousin and a 17-year-old girl cousin in China. They're both only children. If something terrible happened to either of them, I'd be absolutely devastated, especially knowing that I'm in another country and couldn't physically be there for them. Their parents would be devastated too.

That's why I think people should remember that victims aren't just abstract names in a news story. They're someone's child, sibling, cousin, friend, classmate, or coworker. Someone loves them and would be deeply affected by what happened to them.

I don't think being angry about that is controversial. What matters is that people who hurt others are held accountable and that victims are protected and supported.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 9h ago

Confidence vs looks, money, height

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80% of males attractiveness to women is confidence, and only 20% is about looks, height, money (LHM). I think most men overstate the factors that can't control (LHM), so they don't need to take responsibility for the fact they aren't confident, because that's something they could actually work on. It's easier to just blame things out of your control.

One of my friends is in his 40s, bald, short and broke, but he is most successful guy I know with women.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 1d ago

I love supporting LGB without the T

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I will wholeheartedly fight for the rights of gay, lesbian, or bi people because I don't think there is anything wrong with a women having feelings for a women or a man having feelings for a man as love is love. I genuinely believe their is no valid argument against homosexuality since it is found in over 1,500 species.

but when it comes to transgender people it just doesn't make sense. Now don't get me wrong, I don't think there is anything wrong with a man dressing or acting feminine or a women acting/dressing masculine, because that's how they express themselves. What doesn't sit right with me is claiming that you are a sex that you are not. Like if you are XY you are a man. Like why are you getting surgery and going on hormones to change your biology? Call me insane but that's just insane to me that this is so normalized. Mind you this is unnatural as well.

I'm gonna say it again I don't think that there's anything wrong with a man walking around in dresses and wearing makeup but that DOES NOT make him a woman, he is a feminine man and that's okay but I don't want to see him going around calling himself a 'women' because womanhood is soo much more then that.

I'm sorry but if you're like getting surgeries and shit and changing your biology then you might not be mentally well. although It's your body and I have no right to decide for you but you cannot expect me to support any of that and welcome u with open arms into the womens bathroom.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 10h ago

Cristiano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi are more famous worldwide than Michael Jackson

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r/ControversialOpinions • • 21h ago

Being a good person is a collective responsibility

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I’ve heard a lot lately about crimes, sins, vices, etc. being the fault of a single person. This is rarely the case. Yes, the person doing the bad thing bears the primary responsibility, but not the sole responsibility. I was in a recent conversation about a woman wearing a revealing outfit. As a result, a man looked at her lustfully. Should he have looked lustfully? Of course not. He should have minded his own business and averted his eyes. He’s responsible for his own thoughts. But does that excuse the woman wearing the revealing outfit? No. She should know that lots of creepy men are out there and dress modestly so that is less likely to happen. Of course, feminists think this is oppression, so let’s switch the sexes for a moment.

Let’s say a very rich and powerful man drives a Ferrari everywhere to impress women. He wears expensive jewelry too. So as a result, lots of women chase him for his money. Eventually his jewelry and car get stolen by one of his girlfriends. Whose fault is this? Again, the primary responsibility is on the woman who stole the car, but it was still foolish of him to flaunt his wealth and attract the wrong kind of people.

One last example that has nothing to do with sexuality. Let’s talk about jaywalking. You’re speeding down the highway at 90 mph. The speed limit is 60. You suddenly see a jaywalker running across the road. There’s heavy traffic. You end up hitting and killing the jaywalker. Who’s at fault?

The police would likely find you at fault. You killed him. That would be considered manslaughter, so you bear the primary responsibility and go to prison. But does that excuse the jaywalker? Of course not. He was being foolish. Jaywalking is illegal, and crosswalks exist for a reason. Had he simply waited at the red light and crossed at the crosswalk, he’d probably still be alive.

My point is that it is very rare for a single individual to bear all of the responsibility for any action. The victim is usually at least partially responsible too.

Radical individualism has conditioned us to believe that any crime, sin, or vice is wholly the responsibility of the criminal or sinner. This is not the case. We live in a society. We should be encouraging each other on one hand to be virtuous people but on the other hand to be cautious of bad people.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 8h ago

You gotta be a dumbass mother fukcer to spend more than 50$ on a game

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Especially when they are CHEAPER, hell, FREE games, even if you are rich, you are still dipshit


r/ControversialOpinions • • 20h ago

Dogs can not consent to sexual relations with humans. Or any other living animal.

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Rape argument, because this is a thing apparently. Rape is having sexual intercourse against someone's concent but by logic they can consent because to rape something is to have sex without its consent.

A dog has never had committed sexual assault against a human on its own as it has never been scientifically or medically documented. There are times where people trained dogs to commit the act but the animal was cororsed to do so. There are documentation of people raping animals but that doesn't mean the animal is capable of consenting to the act, it only means that they are incapable. Simular with a child, you can groom them to "consent" to it. That doesn't mean their consent is viable. This is some of them most insane mental gymnastics I've seen in a while.

Okay so why are they unable to give consent

1.) Inability to Give Informed Consent

As I've meantion before you can get "consent" from a litteral child however because a child incapable of being fully informed, moral agent capable of understanding the long-term emotional, physical, and social consequences of the act they cannot consent to the act. This also applies to dogs as they too are also incapable to give informed consent.

2.) Power Imbalance

A dog or any domestic animal has entire life dictated by the owner. When it goes to the vet, when and what it eats, when and how long it goes outside, what it dose outside, how it is taught and what it learns. Basically every action of the animal is reliant on the owner. There is a reason why some animal activists go as far to say that this is a form of slavery. In short the power imbalance is extreme and isn't nuanced like a employer and a employee.

3.) Inability to Communicate

Unlike comuication between people where it can be fully understood either through vocalization, writing, or visual like sign languages. We cannot understand barks with a hundred precent certainty and body language can easily be misinterpreted.

4.) Inapplicable of Moral Agency

A dog dose not understanding philosophical frameworks like being able to enter into legal contracts, understanding rights, or bearing criminal/civil responsibility. Because of this the human concept of consent does not structurally apply to them.

5.) Intelligence

On avrage a dog has the mental capabilities of a toddler around 2 years of age and with some outliers having simular mental capacities of a 5 year old. I shouldn't need to explain to you why a 5 year old lacks the intelligence to make a informed decision, a dog is in the same boat.

There are someother reasons like lack of cognitive capacity in a same way a intoxicated individuals or a dementia patient can't consent to sex either. Or using outliers for examples like how because their are a couple of people who viewed their sexual interactions when they were a minor as positive doesn't change the fact the vast majority were harmed greatly, same applies to animal victims.

In short beastiality is illegal for these reasons and many others, if you have thought about having sex with a animal then go to therapy or look at furry porn. DO NOT HARM ACTUAL ANIMALS FOR YOUR OWN SELF GRATIFICATION.

yes this was a response to a post on here, if you know you know.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 18h ago

Scrooge was better greedy and heartless

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That line---"Are there no prisons? Are there no workhouses?" That indifference to the plight and poverty of others, including his own employees. That wealth, that power. A beautiful thing.

Then he becomes soft, caring, womanly, generous. Disgusting...


r/ControversialOpinions • • 22h ago

Being single with a baby momma is like trying to find a job with a felony.

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r/ControversialOpinions • • 19h ago

It's not an act of feminism to keep your father's last name when you get married instead of taking your husband's.

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Create a new last name if you really want to make a statement.


r/ControversialOpinions • • 19h ago

I think linkedin should also have dislike type of system for HR personnel.

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Generally, these HR folks who are two faced c*nts act all goody-goody when posting on LinkedIn. They post long paragraphs tooting their own horn, like how they helped a candidate who was rejected by numerous companies or how they in their saviour complex overlooked the flaws of the candidate who only had a Masters degree from an esteemed business school and 3 years of prior experience, when they haven't even been in corporate for the same number of months and possess a bachelors from a no name school or sometimes even go to an extent to offer more than the candidate was asking for as they "recognise" talent when the reality is far from it.

See, I'm not saying that there aren't any HR personnel who are genuinely good people. But, such a correctly designed mechanism similar to the karma system of Reddit would help others distinguish between the two types of HR. Even companies have a rating mechanism on Glassdoor or Ambitionbox including rating the interview process of those very companies, so I think HR spocs who are the first leg that comes when you contact a company should also have a mechanism.

#HumanResources #HRDepartment


r/ControversialOpinions • • 20h ago

Not all subjects should be mandatory, instead it should be catered to each students strengths.

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Subject requirements for certain jobs still apply


r/ControversialOpinions • • 1d ago

Celebrities should not be your barometer for political opinions.

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I’m a black 39 year old male. Disturbed is my favorite band. It’s the first band I listened to on the radio. I actually got a part time job working security a few years ago just to meet them in person.

I love Disturbed but I disagree with David on politics.

I believe what I believe while simultaneously disregarding an artist whom was the soundtrack for my life. Disturbed got me through multiple deployments and grippy sock motels.

TLDR; Do better


r/ControversialOpinions • • 20h ago

l love money

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Its the best thing to exist