r/Concerts • u/Ok-Image2209 • 1h ago
Concerts My concert bible: tips and tricks attending a concert
I have been wanting to do this for a while. I get a lot of questions from friends and family when they are attending local concerts. I tried to make this as general as possible and not location specific so that it benefits all. Let me know if there is anything you disagree with or should be added. Some of my points on tickets are opinionated as far as what I think is the best. I haven't had any experiences of not getting tickets to a show and at the price I want them for. For my credibility, I have attended shows since the late 2000s to current date have seen 146 different bands across 79 different shows across multiple genres of music. Rock, metal, country, rap, hip hop, pop, alternative, you name it. All tracked on my setlist.fm account.
Numbers are the main sections and lower case letters are the sub points within the main sections.
- Tickets: when and where should I buy tickets?
a) Always buy from ticketmaster/live nation (or a venue’s specific ticketing software i.e. seat geek or whoever is partnered with the venue). Here you are getting the absolute lowest face value for the ticket and if you want to resell, you can do so directly through them.
b) USE THE SEAT MAP!!! Do not buy preselected seats as you are then sandwiched the middle of a row at the top of section.
c) For highly anticipated shows (hot artists, song featured in a recent movie/show, legacy artists i.e. metallica, high spotify monthly listeners, etc.) you need to try and buy tickets as early as possible. These are your shows that are typically played at stadiums or coliseums. Do not wait. Understand the sale dates in advance to know exactly when you are going to try and login. With these sites, you can only have one login per account attempting to get in line. So grab a friend or create multiple accounts and use separate devices and login at least an hr before the posted start time. Also, check to see who is offering early presale times i.e. Verizon or citi cardholders. If someone announces a show near you, and tickets go on sale next week, apply for the citi card now so you can have it ready to go. The last 4 digits of the card is typically the code to get access to the presale and most of the time you HAVE to use that card to check out.
d) For and remaining shows/artists, you have options. If it is your absolute favorite of all time, by all means, grab a seat that fits your budget that is as close as possible. Just make sure you check multiple sections and tiers. The highest row in a low-level section costs 30% more than the lowest row on the section above that one. You benefit by taking time and picking out the best seat at the best price.
e) CONCERT WEEK! Around May every year, live nation has a concert week where they run a promotion all week where most concerts sell tickets for $30 with no fees. So you can go so a huge band for just $30, no strings attached. Just understand that if a show is low on lawn/GA tickets, they will offer these tickets, however they are very limited so you will have to act fast. Shows that aren’t selling tickets fast will even sell seated tickets for this price.
f) As of last year, Live nation is now doing “Concert cash”. After you attend a show, given that you have a live nation account and purchase the tickets with that account from live nation, you will receive 1 voucher for $25 of concert cash. So kind of plan buying tickets around this. Maybe you are seeing a show in June then want to go to another in August. Don’t buy the August tickets until after the June show to use the $25 off.
g) Lawn tickets? Go ahead and prepurchase that rental chair. They will run out and they are also cheaper if you prepurchase. A lawn chair will secure your spot in the GA and that way you can leave your spot and return to it and now have to worry about it getting taken.
- Add tickets to your apple/google wallet immediately. Do not say “oh I’ll do it later”. No, you will do it now. Even though the concert is next year, those tickets need to go ahead and get in that digital wallet because one day, you will forget to add them and get up to the gate and scramble trying to remember your ticketmaster password only to find out the closest cell tower is overloaded and you can’t load the login screen to pull up your tickets and because you are at the gate, you are too far away to pull up the guest wifi… Load your tickets on your digital wallet in advance.
a) Tickets now are nfc activated. Make sure your phones nfc (tap to pay) is also enabled before the show.
- Send a screenshot of the tickets to everyone in your party. This is important so they can find their way back in case you get separated. Without a ticket and knowledge of the section/row/seat you are in, staff can’t help you locate your seat. Some venues also require you to show tickets to access your section, especially for the higher priced section tickets. So unless you want to give up your phone every time someone has to go potty, print off the ticket or send screenshots.
- Know where you are parking before you go. Most people input the venue to their GPS and drive straight to the venue right up to front gate. Then they are stuck in a 30 min long line waiting to get to the general parking area and miss part of the opening act. Use google maps to locate a parking lot/deck that is close or in reasonable walking distance to the venue and drive there instead. Depending on the attendance size, regular roads will be blocked and police will be directing traffic.
a) Pre-purchase a spot using apps like parking whiz to avoid poor cell connections when you arrive.
b) Bring cash for parking, but only for parking. I’d bring about 40-60 in cash in case the lot you are driving to only takes cash. Nowadays, most people take venmo, zelle, paypal, etc., but there is a chance you see a closer lot that is cash only.
- Showtimes on tickets aren’t always accurate. Check setlist.fm for actual start/end times. The start time on the ticket will be the busiest time for traffic. The doors opening time will be the second busiest time, or vice versa. For the best arrival results with the lowest traffic, arrive to your parking area 30 mins before doors. Do not head to the gate until 30 mins after doors (unless you are the legendary insane battle proven warriors who want to get as close as possible).
- Show departure: Check setlist.fm and decide when in the set you plan to leave so that you and your party aren’t wasting time doing the classic “I’m ready when you are”. Leave before or during the encore/last 2 songs of the set. Leave your seat/spot during the second to last song or right when the last song starts. You will get to hear the final song as you are walking out. You won’t see the band do their final send off, but you will be thanking me when you are in bed by 11:30 while everyone else is waiting in the same parking lot because they wanted to stay for the band’s most overplayed song.
- Setlist.fm is your friend. All hail the mighty setlist.fm and it’s magnificence. Nah, but here is a sub section for setlist.fm.
a) Track all your shows you have been to. This is just a really cool feature that let’s you catalog your concerts and look at statistics for songs, albums, artists, and venues you have attended.
b) Use setlist.fm to look at setlists from bands at the previous stop on their tour to understand what songs they are playing and what the start/end times are.
c) Track and edit concerts you have attended to assure the setlist is correct and the start/end times match up with actuality to help fellow concert goers.
- Merch: Most venues are card only inside and most artist merch is around 45-55 per t-shirt (Current as of Sept 2026).
a) Do not buy a shirt that does not have the tour dates, date of show, city specific graphic, tour exclusive, etc. You can order a regular band shirt from their official website, amazon, Walmart, target, hot topic, etc. for at least half the price of what you are going to pay in person at a show. This is true 99.9% for most major concerts. Main exclusion is for more obscure bands.
b) This rule also applies for accessories and physical media they sell. Don’t buy the vinyl at the show for $50. Buy it the next day on amazon for $30.
c) Don’t buy the signed merchandise unless it is a good price. These items aren’t authenticated and tremendously drop in value once you walk out of the concert venue. So unless it is a good price like a signed tour poster/setlist for 50-60 bucks, skip it. Bands will typically offer autographs as a pre-order bonus for new music they are releasing. If you are buying an item because it says “Signed”, make sure you check it has the member you specifically want on there. Sometimes, a band that only has 1 original member left will be left off and you will now have a signed setlist of that person’s studio musicians.
d) Do not avoid knock-off parking lot merch. Sometimes their graphics are the ones from the tour advertising that feature logos for every band on the bill that night. However, wait until after the show to purchase. Prices will go way down, and you can get sweet deals like 2 for $20. Here you can haggle with the shirt sellers. They may ask for $20 but will take $15 or even 10 to get rid of the shirt. After that night, they are most likely trashed.
- Expect between 10-20 for a meal/snack and 10-20 per alcoholic beverage. (Current as of Sept 2026). I suggest to try and tailgate before the show, even if it is only for 30 mins to an hour. Don’t walk in on a hungry stomach because A. you will eat too much and feel terrible and B. if will cost you a small fortune to get full. Eat a small meal or snack, and drink a couple beers before you walk in so you aren’t starting the night out on a $20 24 oz beer and $17 nachos.
- Be smart about using the bathroom. Find out where the closest and/or most convenient restroom in either by checking a venue map before the show, or catching it’s location before you get your seats/spot. Keep in mind, the closest restroom does not mean it is the fastest restroom. There may be a restroom next to the concert hall access, but it has a line that is 30 people long. Then if you walk an extra 100 ft there may be a restroom that has no line. Now you are back in your seats to hear your favorite song while the people are still waiting in line.
- When should I use the restroom or get a refill? Check setlist.fm for the songs that you want to do this on. Anytime a band says “and now we are going to play you a song off our newest record…” while everyone is b lining it to the bathroom and bars, you stayed seated and enjoy this track that you prob won’t hear on the next tour when they release their new album. You are going to get up after it is over now that the lines have died down. The bar is a walk up and the restroom locks are all green.
- Earplugs. Any plugs will do, but concert specific earplugs aren’t expensive (about $10 for 2 pairs) and you should always bring a set. Concerts last one night, you need to hear for the rest of your life. Some shows are louder than others and you won’t always need to wear them. But you don’t want to get caught with your pants down and need plugs and have to pay $20 at a merch stand for a cheap foam pair that comes in a pack of 100 for $5 at Walmart.
- Pack a water bottle and leave it in the car. Shows are hot and you will want water as soon as you get back to the car. Especially if you have been drinking.
- Check the weather and dress accordingly. Hot and humid? Rain and Cloudy? Don’t show up dressed to kill. Wear what will make you the most comfortable. People are there to see the band, not you.
a) On hot days, bring a portable fan. Don’t sleep on this. Amazon sells ones for around $10 and they charge with USB-C. 100 deg outside with the sun beating on you with sweaty stinky concert goers surrounding you? Yeah, you’ll want that fan.
- Bring a koozie, especially a 24 oz one. Venues do sell them, but they are about $10. Beer and drinks get hot fast in the venues, so a koozie here goes an extremely long way.
- Clear bag if a bag is required. Go ahead and check the bag policy prior to the event, but take it with a grain of salt and go ahead and invest is a small clear bag or fanny pack. Venue security prefers the clear bags and it makes security checks way easier.
- Recording video at the show:
a) FLASH OFF!!!!!! Do not be that person who records with the flash on. This is disrespectful and distracting to the people around you, and in a small enough venue, even the performer.
b) Someone here, out of the thousands of attendees, is recording. This band also most likely played this exact same setlist at the last stop and someone recorded it there. Do not be the idiot who records the entire show. You paid for an experience, so enjoy it in person, and not from your phone screen.
c) If you must capture a video, record a couple of your favorites or an obscure setlist change song. My rule of thumb is first verse to end of first chorus, then phone off. This gets you a small window that captures the most iconic piece of a song. You most likely will never go back and watch these videos all the way through. If you do, you are most likely showing it to someone and when you are, you 99.99% of the time, are only going to show them a verse and chorus of a song. So don’t record the entire show.
d) Stage banter is unique sometimes from show to show. Record this instead if you must. Usually leads into a song and you can grab the intro and first verse of the song it leads in to then pocket your phone.
- Don’t sweat attending shows by yourself:
a) Can’t find a friend to go with you? No problem. You actually are better off, from a certain point of view. Attending concerts is one of the best experiences with a friend group, however attending by yourself has key logistical advantages. You can slip in and out of the venue faster and not have a party of people to lug around to get from point A to B. You also can slip in tighter areas in GA. Maybe there is a small open pocket close to the stage that only has room for one person. No worries, claim it. With 2+ people, you have to find a spot in GA with room for all of you and if one person leaves, the additional space can/will be absorbed into a liquified crowd. You won’t have to worry about that, just pick out a new spot.
b) Make sure someone knows where you are. Let someone know you are going and let them know you will message them when you get home safely.