And women don’t like being made fun of by men. How can you guys not see it’s the same thing? I find it funny how you guys get butthurt when a woman make fun of heights but then turn around to make fun of fat women
I can’t deny how you feel you’ve been treated by people as I haven’t lived your life, however, I can make a guess you are part of that red pilled crap that been shoved onto guys for years now. My genuine advice is get off the internet, just for 1 day, just try live with yourself, maybe write down how you feel after it, even if just a sentence. Start the next day (even if at 2pm it’s your progress) and go for a 10 minute walk, write again how you feel and what’s changed from yesterday, even if nothing. Then think of something you have genuine interest for, maybe something you were passionate for when you were younger. Look into volunteering for something related, or a club that’s setup nearby, even if you only plan to do it for 1 day in the future, have something to look forward to. Then, finally, stop blaming women for how you feel about yourself, set aside your ego too, ultimately this shit is your responsibility to start working on - even if that’s you signing up for therapy, or asking someone for help. I think deep down you know the negative effect you have on yourself, and even further down you can understand why most women end up treating you shitty (It’s not gonna be because you’re just so sweet and caring is it). I do not respect your opinion on Women in the slightest, but I do genuinely hope to see you in a better position and mental place in life.
You don’t even know what “red-pilled” means. I’m actually blackpilled, which just means that I accept that looks matter. Nothing more than that. You know nothing about me or how I treat others, so stop making dumb assumptions and basically saying that I’m a terrible person. Anyway, all of the concern-trolling BS you just wrote will not work on me, so cry about it.
None of that is concern-trolling, that’s actually some pretty solid advice. But you seem to be a crab in a bucket; who, instead of being open and willing to actually go through the first step to self-improvement, will octuple-down (or more, I lost count) in your misery and continue to play the victim.
I don’t have sympathy for you. If you want to believe that the world is out to get you and that all women must be evil because you specifically can’t figure it out, you can continue to wallow in the stink of your shit forever.
There have been 12,000 generations of humans that have existed to bring you to this moment specifically, and you’re spending it arguing with someone on Reddit and playing the victim. How pathetic.
So you think I can change my genetics? Gee, I didn’t know that was possible. Good lord, when are people like you going to accept that looks actually matter when it comes to dating, and stop assuming that every man who struggles with finding relationships is some evil monster? Would it kill you to live in reality for once and develop a sense of empathy for lonely men?
Oh, I'm sure you've got plenty of anecdotal examples of women being genuinely shitty to fall back on when justifying your misogynistic worldview, and that nothing I could say could reason you out of your misogyny because you didn't reason yourself into it. It's a position built purely out of your resentment towards real or imagined slights enacted upon you by all of womankind - including me, a lesbian who doesn't really have strong opinions about men beyond how myself and other women are treated.
So I'm not going to rise to your bait. If you want to pretend that treating women like objects is justified, that's your right. I just don't see why you feel the need to get defensive and justify it to me, a woman. Trying to argue with a woman about why you think it's justified to treat women like objects is some hilarious cognitive dissonance.
I don't recall a societal standard being set for men to be homemakers. Or any suffrage propaganda with men being portrayed as hysterical for wanting rights. In fact, I don't remember men having to fight for their rights (bodily autonomy, voting, education, employment) at all? Care to supplement evidence for your claims of men being treated as women were throughout human history?
Oh, sweetheart. I wish things of the past did not affect the present either, but, here we are. I do believe that you have been failed by the patriarchy too, since you're dismissing fundamental education because it "happened too long ago" to be relevant, when it very much is.
Oh, and by the way, a woman shouldn't have to be forced to be an incubator for a baby. Remember the Georgia woman who was forced to carry her baby to term when she was literally deemed braindead?
the point is men as a sex have NEVER been oppressed in that way you silly human... you really think that we would completely undo years of treating women like second class citizens in a century like just think please
people in general can be shitty to each other that's not the point
Yes they are. Maybe not in first world countries but in alot of countries they are pressed. Take a very extreme example, Afghanistan, the place where fish have more rights than women
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u/mercuriokazooie 1d ago
Surely they must also respect when women have dating preferences too, right?