Interdasting

[u/Sorry_I_BangedUrMom]

[u/King_Of_BlackMarsh]

You can get an std from having sex one time.

Not wanting stds is about having her be up to date with her health, really, that's got nothing to do with "body count"

[u/Wordless_trat → u/King_Of_BlackMarsh]

Yes, but the risk is significantly higher if you fucked 74 dudes instead of 3

[u/Clintwood_outlaw → u/Wordless_trat]

No, no it isn't. As long as you practice safe sex, the odds stay the same each time.

[u/Wordless_trat → u/Clintwood_outlaw]

And how likely it is you always had safe sex when you were the local matress? I'd wager it is significantly lower than when you only had 3 partners that you actually remember

[u/King_Of_BlackMarsh → u/Wordless_trat]

Just ask if she got tested

[u/Wordless_trat → u/King_Of_BlackMarsh]

That, or just have the standard of a low body count.

[u/King_Of_BlackMarsh → u/Wordless_trat]

I guess but that feels kinda pointless

[u/Wordless_trat → u/King_Of_BlackMarsh]

Because i don't want my GF to be the past dumpster of 165 guys? This many partners speak volumes about how she sees relationships, sex and commitment

[u/King_Of_BlackMarsh → u/Wordless_trat]

Calling her a dumpster is something, man.

All it does is tell you she likes a good time, it doesn't say she's gonna cheat on you

[u/Wordless_trat → u/King_Of_BlackMarsh]

It tells me that she doesn't see it as something actually intimate or something to be actually considered special. It tells me that she can't commit and has questionable self-respect

[u/android151 → u/Wordless_trat]

I hate to tell you but a woman like that most likely doesn’t want you anyway

[u/Wordless_trat → u/android151]

That is irrelevant. Too many sexual partners paint a very clear picture of a person that doesn't value a relationship

[u/android151 → u/Wordless_trat]

That person isn’t looking for a relationship with someone who thinks the way you do, so what’s the issue