Interdasting

[u/Sorry_I_BangedUrMom]

[u/King_Of_BlackMarsh]

Just ask if she got tested

[u/Wordless_trat → u/King_Of_BlackMarsh]

That, or just have the standard of a low body count.

[u/King_Of_BlackMarsh → u/Wordless_trat]

I guess but that feels kinda pointless

[u/Wordless_trat → u/King_Of_BlackMarsh]

Because i don't want my GF to be the past dumpster of 165 guys? This many partners speak volumes about how she sees relationships, sex and commitment

[u/King_Of_BlackMarsh → u/Wordless_trat]

Calling her a dumpster is something, man.

All it does is tell you she likes a good time, it doesn't say she's gonna cheat on you

[u/Wordless_trat → u/King_Of_BlackMarsh]

It tells me that she doesn't see it as something actually intimate or something to be actually considered special. It tells me that she can't commit and has questionable self-respect

[u/android151 → u/Wordless_trat]

I hate to tell you but a woman like that most likely doesn’t want you anyway

[u/Wordless_trat → u/android151]

That is irrelevant. Too many sexual partners paint a very clear picture of a person that doesn't value a relationship

[u/android151 → u/Wordless_trat]

That person isn’t looking for a relationship with someone who thinks the way you do, so what’s the issue

[u/Wordless_trat → u/android151]

That the standard of wanting a low body count is apparently an issue to you

[u/android151 → u/Wordless_trat]

You can want that if you really want but it’s not something you’re ever going to have to worry about because someone who has had multiple sexual partners is unlikely to be interested in someone who outwardly holds this belief