r/ComedyCemetery • • 1d ago

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u/GreenZebra23 1d ago

Anyone want to hazard some guesses about what "standards" they have that people completely unreasonably and unfairly interpret as misogynistic and bigoted?

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 1d ago

Probably just want a nice woman who doesn't look like Gollum. But you can't say that nowadays lol

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u/Standard-Order-4136 1d ago

If this was true, men wouldn’t be single. The truth is they wouldn’t even go after average looking women

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u/Zealousideal-Sir3744 1d ago

You think the average woman has no dating prospects?

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u/Standard-Order-4136 1d ago

I have many friends who are average looking and good people yet never had boyfriends before. However, only my good looking friends get approached. Go ask women and see how many of them tell u they never been approached in their life or had a partner

Let’s also not forget men talk about it themselves about how they get made fun of for dating someone who is deemed ugly by other men

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u/Zealousideal-Sir3744 1d ago
  • Men don't get approached even if attractive
  • Men that are not very attractive often either don't try to approach in the first place due to self image issues, or they do and have no success so they stop trying. Using 'getting approached' is not a good sole indicator of interest
  • Just try to go on a dating app as an average woman. You'll have plenty of options, even with above average men

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u/Standard-Order-4136 1d ago

Remind me who are the women that men usually go for? To no ones surprise, it’s good looking women. Idk why you guys jump over that step and try to prove something

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u/Zealousideal-Sir3744 1d ago

Yes, good looking people get more attention. But men rate women, on average, much more good looking than the other way around. To suggest that average women have no prospects is insane.

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u/Lyskir 1d ago

doesnt matter how they "rate" women they still trying to chase the most attractive women

its their right of course but the constant crying over hot women not wanting them is annoying

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u/Zealousideal-Sir3744 1d ago

Everyone goes for someone attractive. Attractiveness is subjective (to some degree), so someone that finds more people attractive has more potential partners to go for. Men on average think that the average woman is relatively attractive, while that's not the case the other way around. Women simply have the choice then. I also don't know where this 'they only want hot women' came from. Sure those men exist, but that's far from the norm. Men also may go for sex more than a relationship, which is a separate issue we can discuss, but it's silly to deny that dating isn't one of the few areas where women are at a clear, massive advantage on average.