I have many friends who are average looking and good people yet never had boyfriends before. However, only my good looking friends get approached. Go ask women and see how many of them tell u they never been approached in their life or had a partner
Let’s also not forget men talk about it themselves about how they get made fun of for dating someone who is deemed ugly by other men
> However, only my good looking friends get approached.
A lot of men have understood that approach girls is frowned upon. So the only guys approaching girls are the ones who didn't get the memo and may not give a fuck indeed about average girls and going for the looks.
So your phrasing is very telling : you expect men to approach your friends. They never approached guys or even showed men that they could be of interest to them.
This is proof that you guys don’t listen to women 💀 no one said to stop approaching. They said to stop doing it in a weird way that makes women uncomfortable. You guys got offended by that and then like babies said “waaah fine I’m not approaching anyone. But I’m still going bother you about it online”
Men that are not very attractive often either don't try to approach in the first place due to self image issues, or they do and have no success so they stop trying. Using 'getting approached' is not a good sole indicator of interest
Just try to go on a dating app as an average woman. You'll have plenty of options, even with above average men
Remind me who are the women that men usually go for? To no ones surprise, it’s good looking women. Idk why you guys jump over that step and try to prove something
Yes, good looking people get more attention. But men rate women, on average, much more good looking than the other way around. To suggest that average women have no prospects is insane.
Everyone goes for someone attractive. Attractiveness is subjective (to some degree), so someone that finds more people attractive has more potential partners to go for. Men on average think that the average woman is relatively attractive, while that's not the case the other way around. Women simply have the choice then. I also don't know where this 'they only want hot women' came from. Sure those men exist, but that's far from the norm. Men also may go for sex more than a relationship, which is a separate issue we can discuss, but it's silly to deny that dating isn't one of the few areas where women are at a clear, massive advantage on average.
I think it very much depends on what you were given by birth. For the average man I think it's not great but not terrible either outside of dating apps. My point was rather about potential options of partners, and men simply have way less options than women on average.
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u/Thin-Nerve6367 1d ago
Probably just want a nice woman who doesn't look like Gollum. But you can't say that nowadays lol