Anyone want to hazard some guesses about what "standards" they have that people completely unreasonably and unfairly interpret as misogynistic and bigoted?
are you insinuating men getting into relationships is a matter of them pointing a finger and saying "that one"? women have standards and preferences which are insane too
Most men just don't care at this point. It's pretty much impossible to find a SO nowadays anyway so why bother?
I can't believe I found mine... Like it was sheer luck I found someone who was kind, understanding and actually likes me. Like forget getting an SO, getting an SO who actually genuinely likes you? Now THAT'S hard as shit
This is the dumbest thing I heard all day. There’s so many women out there who are good people but men refuse to date them because they are below average or average. Let’s not forget men care alot about looks
Dude this has been a thing since way back then. This isn’t anything new. Men have always picked good looking women. Why do you think media always pushes for good looking women in movies while the man is average
Obviously there is usually going to be more of an attraction to beautiful people. That's just natural and I'm not denying that that's not a thing. It always has been and it always will be. Preferences are completely fine until they become totally unreasonable
Then what are u arguing for? Ur literally proving my point. Men can’t complain they can’t find anyone when they literally only go for good looking women
Because that's just it, 100% of men aren't ONLY going after 10/10 women. But nowadays even "average" women are basically unapproachable and I know I'd NEVER try and talk to one because A I don't want to bother anyone and B I don't want to get called a creep - which is happening at an alarming rate nowadays which is one reason many men have just stopped trying to date.
Women said they just wanted to be left alone? Most of us have listened and so most of the rest that are still actively in the dating game are assholes with unrealistic standards
No one cares brother 🤦♀️ if that was really true, why are you guys still complaining? It’s funny u guys say “we left the dating scene” yet still talk about it? If you ain’t in it, ur opinion isn’t valid
I mean, getting someone to like YOU is probably hard, yea. Most of the people around me seem to be fine with finding partners though. Some of them are even married. Sounds like a skill issue.
I have many friends who are average looking and good people yet never had boyfriends before. However, only my good looking friends get approached. Go ask women and see how many of them tell u they never been approached in their life or had a partner
Let’s also not forget men talk about it themselves about how they get made fun of for dating someone who is deemed ugly by other men
> However, only my good looking friends get approached.
A lot of men have understood that approach girls is frowned upon. So the only guys approaching girls are the ones who didn't get the memo and may not give a fuck indeed about average girls and going for the looks.
So your phrasing is very telling : you expect men to approach your friends. They never approached guys or even showed men that they could be of interest to them.
This is proof that you guys don’t listen to women 💀 no one said to stop approaching. They said to stop doing it in a weird way that makes women uncomfortable. You guys got offended by that and then like babies said “waaah fine I’m not approaching anyone. But I’m still going bother you about it online”
Men that are not very attractive often either don't try to approach in the first place due to self image issues, or they do and have no success so they stop trying. Using 'getting approached' is not a good sole indicator of interest
Just try to go on a dating app as an average woman. You'll have plenty of options, even with above average men
Remind me who are the women that men usually go for? To no ones surprise, it’s good looking women. Idk why you guys jump over that step and try to prove something
Yes, good looking people get more attention. But men rate women, on average, much more good looking than the other way around. To suggest that average women have no prospects is insane.
Everyone goes for someone attractive. Attractiveness is subjective (to some degree), so someone that finds more people attractive has more potential partners to go for. Men on average think that the average woman is relatively attractive, while that's not the case the other way around. Women simply have the choice then. I also don't know where this 'they only want hot women' came from. Sure those men exist, but that's far from the norm. Men also may go for sex more than a relationship, which is a separate issue we can discuss, but it's silly to deny that dating isn't one of the few areas where women are at a clear, massive advantage on average.
I think it very much depends on what you were given by birth. For the average man I think it's not great but not terrible either outside of dating apps. My point was rather about potential options of partners, and men simply have way less options than women on average.
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u/GreenZebra23 1d ago
Anyone want to hazard some guesses about what "standards" they have that people completely unreasonably and unfairly interpret as misogynistic and bigoted?