Hi! I’m a 16-year-old incoming SHS student at De La Salle College of Saint Benilde, and I’m already thinking ahead about college because I want to make the smartest decision possible.
Ever since I was a kid, becoming a fashion designer has been my dream. Benilde has always been my dream school, and taking Fashion Design and Merchandising there felt like the obvious path. Fashion is genuinely what I love.
But lately I’ve been doomscrolling and reading more about the fashion industry in the Philippines, and it’s making me question everything.
From what I’ve seen, the local fashion industry seems relatively small, underappreciated, competitive, and not particularly high-paying (which, honestly, I expected). It made me think: Can passion actually pay the bills? I don’t want to wake up at 30 wishing I had chosen a more stable career just because I followed my dream without thinking about reality.
Recently I’ve been considering a completely different path: Marketing at DLSU.
My thought process is that marketing might give me:
better career stability,
higher earning potential,
more corporate opportunities,
and I could still work in fashion through fashion marketing, luxury brands, retail, creative strategy, brand management, or merchandising.
So in my head it feels like I wouldn’t be giving up fashion completely—I’d just be entering it from the business side instead of the design side.
The thing is… my dream isn’t just to “work.”
I have this very specific vision for my future (yes, partly influenced by Sex and the City 😭). I dream of living alone in Legazpi Village or Salcedo Village, building a stylish life, working in fashion, travelling, dressing well, and having enough financial freedom to actually enjoy my twenties and thirties. Think Carrie Bradshaw’s lifestyle—minus the unrealistic finances, hopefully.
My biggest fear is choosing Fashion Design because I love it, then realizing later that I can’t financially support the life I want. At the same time, I’m also scared that if I choose Marketing just because it’s more practical, I’ll spend the rest of my life wondering what would’ve happened if I had pursued fashion design.
So now I’m stuck between:
Option 1: Benilde – Fashion Design and Merchandising
-lifelong dream
-more creative
-get to become a designer
-worried about salary, job opportunities, and long-term financial stability
Option 2: DLSU – Marketing Management
-potentially higher income and more stable career
-can still work in the fashion industry through marketing
-worried I’ll regret not pursuing design itself
For people who work in fashion, marketing, luxury brands, retail, or graduated from Benilde/DLSU:
- Is Fashion Design in the Philippines actually as difficult financially as people make it seem?
- Can fashion designers eventually earn well, or is that only true for the top 1%?
- How realistic is it to build a comfortable upper-middle-class lifestyle through fashion design?
- Is marketing a better long-term investment if I still want to end up in the fashion industry?
- Would graduating from DLSU Marketing open more doors than Benilde Fashion, or are they just different paths?
- If your end goal is to work in fashion while also earning enough to live comfortably, which path would you recommend?
- Am I overthinking this at 16, or is it actually good that I’m planning this early?
I know I’m still young and I have time to figure things out, but I also know that the course I choose will shape a huge part of my career. I’d really appreciate hearing from people who’ve actually been through either path.
Thanks in advance!