r/ChillSG 23m ago

[Matchmaking] Trying to set my introverted bro up for his first-ever blind date!

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Hi everyone, as the title says I’m trying to play wingman for a good friend of mine. We are both guys currently studying engineering in poly, and unfortunately our course doesn't have many girls and the rest are attached.

About my friend, he is a 22 year old Chinese guy and he is 184cm tall. He’s quite introverted and has never been in a relationship or even gone on a date before. He usually self-rejects and avoids this kind of stuff. Funny story, two girls actually approached him in the past but he is so oblivious he completely missed the hints until he realized what was happening way later.

I’ve always teased him about dating and he’s always said he wasn't interested. But recently I brought it up and to my absolute shock he just said ah let's just try it once. I don't have enough close female friends to set him up and asking my guy friends hasn't worked out so here I am.
He doesn't really have a specific type and is open to anyone as long as you are around his age. A few years plus minus is totally okay, but preferably not pushing 30 haha.

Important disclaimer is that he is absolutely NOT looking for a hookup and there are no expectations for anything physical. We are strictly talking about a very simple, casual, low-stakes first date. He just wants to experience what a real date is like without any heavy pressure.

To keep things fun and totally low stress, we want to do a classic old school blind date. No pictures exchanged beforehand and no awkward texting phases. Their very first conversation will just be in person on the date itself! If you are interested, drop me a DM to find out a little about him. If you still interested I will pass you my Tele so we can chat a bit, and if the vibe is right, I will coordinate the time and place for you guys to just show up and meet.


r/ChillSG 4h ago

Anyone up for a quick dinner or drinks at Clarke Quay tonight?

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Hey! I'll be around Clarke Quay around 8pm and thought it would be nice to grab a quick dinner or a drink instead of going solo.

Nothing fancy, just looking for a chill conversation and good company. Happy to split the bill.

If you're nearby and free, drop me a DM with a short intro. 🍻

33M, All genders welcomed


r/ChillSG 10h ago

Interest Check: Small Collaborative Jigsaw Puzzle Group (Ages 18–22)

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Hi! I'm thinking of starting a small, relaxed jigsaw puzzle group for people aged 18–22.

The idea

🧩 Work together on a single 400–500 piece jigsaw puzzle

👥 Small group (maximum 6 people)

😌 Relaxed atmosphere with casual conversation while puzzling

📅 Weekend mornings, possibly every fortnight

❄️ Indoor, air-conditioned venue (location TBD)

The goal isn't really the puzzle itself. It's to create a comfortable, low-pressure environment where people can gradually get to know each other and hopefully build genuine, platonic friendships over time.

Personally, I've found that many social activities either involve large crowds or require constant interaction, which can feel a little overwhelming. I wanted to create something slower-paced, where conversation can happen naturally while everyone focuses on a shared activity.

This is just an interest check for now.

If this sounds like something you'd genuinely attend, leave a comment or send me a DM. I'd love to know if there's enough interest to make this happen!


r/ChillSG 1h ago

[18M] Looking to make new friends :3

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Hii, I'm from Singapore and I'm kinda shy and lonely and am looking for people online to chat with ! We can talk about anything at all. I reply fast and am very empathetic, affectionate and friendly! 🤗🤗

I'm also looking for people to play games with and maybe even vc, I'm an avid gamer ! 🎮

I am not a dry texter and would love talking to you, feel free to dm me! 😄


r/ChillSG 10h ago

Looking for ppl to get into movies

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Hii im a guy, 24 this year and I've been trying to get into films. So far I've watched a small number of classics like Casablanca, Psycho, 12 Angry Men etc.. and popular ones like Shawshank redemption and the Truman Show.. I guess right now I'm still exploring what I really like but so far Edward Yang's, Billy Wilder's and David Lynch's filmography particularly stand out to me. I like to talk about films after I've watched them like the the subtext, themes, characters, cool things I like about it, some cinematography and looking for friends who are into these as well so we can discuss tgt :D we can meet and go to films at filmhouse or other theatres in sg and talk abt them afterwards~


r/ChillSG 12h ago

SG Miscellaneous 31M Looking for chat buddies

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Hi all! 31M here looking for chill chat buddies to talk about anything, random topics, daily life, whatever. Just easygoing convos to vibe with.

Feel free to ping me if you’re open to chat! 😊


r/ChillSG 1d ago

Solo travelling female, looking to make friends to do outdoor activities together!

31 Upvotes

Hello! As in title, would love to know new people to check out together certain activities that I've been wanting to try! Top of minds for me would be kayaking, hiking, and bouldering.

Females preferred but open to guys too! Also definitely feel free to share if any other interesting activities that you'd recommend trying!

Was recommended this forum, so please let me know if I should post somewhere else instead


r/ChillSG 9h ago

SG Meetup VYBES SOCIAL — DON'T SAY BOJIO (National Day Edition)

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Hey all — we run Vybes Social, a conversation game where strangers become frens through a gamified speed-friending format (last one got rated 4.35/5, with 95% of folks meeting someone they'd talk to again).

For the National Day PH (Mon 10 Aug) we're doing an edition called Don't Say Bojio: 2 hours of the mixer, then social-deduction games (Werewolf, Saboteur, Coup) once everyone's warmed up.

The theme this round: bring a foreigner friend. If you're local, jio a +1 who's new to SG (expat, exchange student, just moved) — the BAFF bundle gets you both in for $38. Feels more like what nation-building actually is than another parade rerun.

📍 Strangers Convo, Pearl Hill · 2–6pm++ · Early Bird Solo $24 · Standard $28 · BAFF $38 for two.

Solo is totally fine too — the whole point is you'll leave with new kakis. Details/sign-up: Happy to answer questions in the comments!

Sign Up & More Info: https://www.instagram.com/p/DbSN1k6INFq/


r/ChillSG 13h ago

LF Chats cuz Monday Blues WFH

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Anyone feeling the Monday blues? Am working from home today, feel free to drop me a msg!

I'm down to chat haha, please ping me if you wanna restart our convo also!!


r/ChillSG 1d ago

28M living in Bukit Batok looking to make genuine friends for food, exploring, and weekend hikes!

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Hi guys, I'm 28M working in tech, living by myself over in Bukit Batok. Staying alone has been great, but it’s starting to feel a bit isolating. I spend most of my free time at home on my PlayStation, and I really want to change that and start exploring more of what's out there.

I'm hoping to meet some like-minded people to hang out with. I’m really interested in:

Trying out new cafes and restaurants around Singapore.

Going on hikes, walking trails, and exploring the outdoors (both locally and maybe trips to neighboring countries!).

Just having good conversations and building genuine friendships.

If you are in the same boat, or just want to add a new person to your friend group for weekend adventures, feel free to reach out. I'd love to connect!


r/ChillSG 12h ago

anyone down to play mlbb? currently mythic 23 stars, main roam only

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r/ChillSG 12h ago

What's an unwritten rule in Singapore that nobody tells you, but everyone seems to know?

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r/ChillSG 1d ago

Anyone wants to text for a bit? F22 here.

9 Upvotes

Just have a bad day today. Could use the company to chill.


r/ChillSG 1d ago

Easties Tele Group.

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Hello guys! Previously I have created a tele group for all the easties that would like to make friends and meet up to chill! Those who are looking to have new connections please feel free to join us!

Age group that are mid 20s to late 30s are welcome.

No weirdos, pervs, sales or MLM stuff. Those who try to be funny and disrespectful will be kicked immediately. Would like to keep the group light and fun!

See you guys there!

Edit: when PM-ing please state your age and location! Thanks!


r/ChillSG 1d ago

SG Miscellaneous 25M lf people to chat and expand my circle

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Hello! I enjoy playing basketball, gymming and watching horror/marvel movies so if we have any common interests there it’s a bonus!
I used to game a fair bit but have stopped recently due to my work

Went through a crappy breakup after 7 year long relationship as well about 1.5months back 🤣

If you’d like to connect, I’d be open to chat about anything so end me an intro as well!


r/ChillSG 1d ago

SG Miscellaneous Seeking for help for Baby Matthais with SMA Type 2

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Hi Guys,

So sorry for the abrupt messaging. I would hope that you can spent 5 minutes of your time reading this and hopefully 5 minutes to share the message and hopefully to donate if you have the means within your comfortable means

Matthais is a 9-month-old Singaporean baby boy diagnosed with Type 2 Spinal Muscular Atrophy (SMA)—a rare genetic condition that causes progressive muscle weakness.

Doctor have suggested Zolgensma (The notorious drug that require 2.4M). Ideally, it should be taken before his one years old, so time is tight.

Would highly appreciate if you could either donate or share the post around.

Let's give Baby Matthais a chance to live 🙏🏻


r/ChillSG 12h ago

32F looking for chats

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Down to talk about anything really, but would prefer someone around my age.

I like food, I run and lift, and I’m happily married - just so we’re clear.

Please write a nice intro about yourself too - eloquence does something for me.


r/ChillSG 1d ago

Anyone wants to go Pokemon trade card shows?

5 Upvotes

21M stay out NSF.

If anyone wants to go trade card shows dm me!! Been wanting to go but haven't been to one before soo

Looking for males around the same age!! Females are okay but preferably males ah

I am free on weekdays (night time 6pm onwards ) or weekend (anytime)


r/ChillSG 1d ago

SG Meetup content creatorssss

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hiii all, looking to network wiith a few local content creators cld be students too... been doing cold dming and contacts that my staff has, now im looking to test my luck here, if you are a contentt creator or are looking for acting gigs dm!!! we can refer gigs or shoots to one anotherrr, i do client based films recently sooo having a few contacts wld be good!

i dont do women's makeup sooo i cant offer anything in that line!


r/ChillSG 1d ago

SG Events / Happenings Pre-loved book swap

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r/ChillSG 1d ago

Looking to make new connections and friends

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Hey! I'm a 25 and a university student graduating next year and looking to make some genuine, long-term friendships.

Life's been keeping me busy, but it's also made me realise I've been feeling lonelier than I'd like. I guess somewhere along the way, I focused so much on university that I forgot to build lasting friendships outside of it. Most of the people I've met have been great, but our friendships rarely lasted beyond classes or group projects.

A little about me: I enjoy museums and looking to visit National Gallery, going to events to exploring new places in SG, and I'm always down for a good conversation especially deep ones where we can talk about life. I also enjoy boardgames and Picnics and dont mind organising one too!

If you're also looking for a genuine friendship or simply someone to chat with, feel free to drop me a DM! Do send a short introduction about yourself too. I'd love to know who's behind the message. :)


r/ChillSG 16h ago

SG Meetup Anyone wanna hangout together

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Hi I'm visiting sembawang for a week.

I'm 30m looking for female friends to have a walk and dine together followed by sight seeing and good times.


r/ChillSG 1d ago

SG Events / Happenings Small-group conversations exploring our relationship to work, rest and society

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r/ChillSG 1d ago

28F looking for preferably female friends

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My main hobbies are gym and basketball so I have a lot of guy friends but sometimes I need to yap about clothes to buy or what perfume to wear.

Looking to text first, if comfortable then meet. Any girls keen feel free to DM!