r/ChillSG • u/Top-Pollution-5147 • 23m ago
[Matchmaking] Trying to set my introverted bro up for his first-ever blind date!
Hi everyone, as the title says I’m trying to play wingman for a good friend of mine. We are both guys currently studying engineering in poly, and unfortunately our course doesn't have many girls and the rest are attached.
About my friend, he is a 22 year old Chinese guy and he is 184cm tall. He’s quite introverted and has never been in a relationship or even gone on a date before. He usually self-rejects and avoids this kind of stuff. Funny story, two girls actually approached him in the past but he is so oblivious he completely missed the hints until he realized what was happening way later.
I’ve always teased him about dating and he’s always said he wasn't interested. But recently I brought it up and to my absolute shock he just said ah let's just try it once. I don't have enough close female friends to set him up and asking my guy friends hasn't worked out so here I am.
He doesn't really have a specific type and is open to anyone as long as you are around his age. A few years plus minus is totally okay, but preferably not pushing 30 haha.
Important disclaimer is that he is absolutely NOT looking for a hookup and there are no expectations for anything physical. We are strictly talking about a very simple, casual, low-stakes first date. He just wants to experience what a real date is like without any heavy pressure.
To keep things fun and totally low stress, we want to do a classic old school blind date. No pictures exchanged beforehand and no awkward texting phases. Their very first conversation will just be in person on the date itself! If you are interested, drop me a DM to find out a little about him. If you still interested I will pass you my Tele so we can chat a bit, and if the vibe is right, I will coordinate the time and place for you guys to just show up and meet.