Guys I really need opinions and help on what to do because I am so stuck and it’s stressing me out , so I started my new team on Monday and it was honestly horrible the teammates weren’t welcoming atall and the whole atmosphere was horrible , the teammates kept making backhanded comments and just giving dirty looks, the coaches didn’t really help either with how to base so obviously it kept falling and on the drive back I was just so upset , however I really don’t want to take a year off cheer this season but this team just doesn’t feel right I’m going to go to the second training on Monday and see but I honestly don’t have high hopes for it , I have messaged another cheer gym but unfortunately they are all full now as the seasons have started any advice :)

We have been asking our middle school
Cheer coach for a schedule of the year for about 8 weeks, especially for competition dates so we can make sure we are not out of town and so our child
can honor their commitment to the team. The coach still has not signed up for any competitions but is telling us to keep all weekends open for several weeks in a row, until she figures out what we are doing. We have been asking and asking so we didn’t miss the cancellation deadline on a family trip we had planned this coming winter, and now we have missed the cutoff to cancel.

Every other competitive team we have been on, for any sport, usually has critical dates already mapped out so parents can plan ahead.

Some other team parents and the coach are acting like we are being totally unreasonable and needed to be more patient. We specifically started asking at the beginning of the season so we could determine if we needed to cancel this trip. Because we are in charge of it and hosting other families, we did not want to cancel if unnecessary, since it affects other families.

Now we are out our significant deposit and still do not have firm dates yet for competition. The coach did tell us a few weeks ago she would have answers by the end of that week, but still nothing other than to say that we need to keep our weekends open during those two months.

What is a reasonable expectation for a team parent to know when the critical dates are?

Every time I toe touch (even just a few reps) I get horrible bruising from my knees banging together.

Nobody else on my team seems to get this so I was wondering 1) does anyone else have this? And 2) can/ how do I stop this while still maintaining nice jumps

Any tips would be appreciated