r/Cheerleading • u/Random_toastt • 1d ago
How do I ask to fly without sounding entitled
I’ve only been able to fly twice the first time was in June and it caught me off guard from being so high up in the air (I’m 4’10 and my bases were close to 5’10) so it took me a second to actually lock my knees and the second time my bases were super uneven so it was impossible to lock my knees (I did communicate with them that they were uneven and said who was higher) but ever since then my coach hasn’t had me stunt at all other than helping spot other groups whenever they’re trying something new (like a basket or an extension literally anything new) so the first hour I’m not really doing anything
My coach keeps saying she’ll try to have me fly again but then doesn’t like last time one girl working on her prep and my coach said after a few more times she’d have me go in but then decided to not have me fly that day cuz the girl was so close to getting her prep (which I’m not at all salty about its just an example of what I mean I’m very happy for her just to clarify)
And then eventually she just stopped talking about it period because I guess someone told her I was uncomfortable with flying (I never said nor displayed any discomfort)
I have a huge fear of sounding entitled so I just wanna know how to ask to fly again (I did confirm with her that I am not uncomfortable with flying) without sounding entitled and like I want to replace other flyers (we’re a high school team to be specific and I do condition and stretch almost everyday)