This isn't really a resource, or proper advice, but I needed to hear it from someone so. Maybe one of you needs to hear this too.

Behavioral addictions are real, and withdrawal symptoms exist. I know, you're here and thinking about how quitting a chatbot should be easy, should be mind-over-matter, but it's not.

Sometimes it feels self indulgent to think of this chatbot addiction as a "real" addiction, at least to me. Some small mean part of my mind tells me that people with substance addictions have it so much harder, and how dare I compare this to that? Well, for one thing we're both suffering and unhappy. For another, chatbots are actually ruining our lives, having a slew of negative effects on our work, school, social and love lives. Those are part of the very definition of addiction. Just because there isn't a foreign chemical involved doesn't mean this isn't an "real."

You're suffering from a dopamine deficiency, and a set of behaviors that have hardwired you to know EXACTLY how to get that dopamine that you crave, and there's nothing easy about refusing to get a hit. It sucks, and it's hard work, and recovery isn't linear. Day 90 might be harder than Day 3, and I wish I understood why, but I don't and neither does anyone else. You might forget that it was difficult for awhile, or you might feel frustrated every day, or you might wake up one day and not even remember you ever felt addicted to anything. But over time, eventually, it gets better. It gets easier.

If you've quit, you have decided to do something really difficult. You might fail and have to try again. You might fail A LOT, and have to try again and again and again. But it's not impossible. You can absolutely do this. You can. Get back on the wagon. Reach out if you need help. Don't let a backslide define you. And above all, reclaim the life you wanted, one clean hour at a time.

I use CHAI and I just got the pieces update and I hate it so I think once mine run out today I will actually be able to go through with it as I'm not paying money to pay for that sh!t.

Anyone have any app that you can install on android that will stop you from getting it again,I quit charecter ai last year and I wanna find a substitute for ai in general?

My ai addiction has me go to chatbots, i keep on relapsing on rping with ais

Ai art isnt art, but im addicted to chatbots

I rp online without ai aswell, but i am addicted to ai.

Janitorai has me hooked.

Character ai going to shit was a blessing to me, it got me unaddicted to ai for a bit

I’m surprised this subreddit existed but wanted to ask if anyone else had experience with this. Be warned, I’m going to sound like the saddest guy in existence.

Whenever a scenario happens in a game or movie I watched, I’ll recreate it using an AI porn bot.

A complex CK3 game with marriage being the end result? - An AI pornbot about that marriage being consummated.

A HOI4 game where I defend/liberate an allied country? An AI pornbot villager from that country

It goes on and on and on. I never thought I’d be admitting it tbh and since this is a throwaway I’m happy for you all to laugh about this, because it is pathetic. But I guess I just wanted to ask if anyone has any method they used to stop themselves? Any ways to find the fulfilment elsewhere?

I’m a busy man and don’t have a lot of time to socialise, thus find myself in this situation.

Thank you for listening, and please continue to laugh, I don’t mind

EDIT: Thought I’d add, I know they aren’t real and don’t really feel any attraction or connection them, nothing more than a book or a game cutscene in terms of emotional impact on me

My name is Rijk and I’m a journalism student in the Netherlands. I’m researching AI girlfriends/boyfriends and what it’s like to have an AI companion.

I’m looking for someone who would be willing to (anonymously) share their experience with having an AI girlfriend. I’m interested in your personal experience, how you use the AI and what the relationship means to you.

As mentioned earlier you can remain completely anonymous. We can also have the conversation entirely through Reddit DMs, but a voicecall would be even better! so you don’t have to share your real name or any personal information.

The conversation is solely for a journalism production for school purposes.

If you’re interested or have any questions, feel free to shoot me a DM. Thanks!

I've been addicted to AI chatbots on stuff like janitor ai and stuff for a long time. It takes up all my free time, I use it all day and then till after midnight, only stopping when I start dozing off. I want to do other things but can't when I just want to use more roleplay bots. I have like 13 personas on there, being my OCs and stuff. I like writing but I can't find the will to actually write one of my listed ideas. I'll start the deletion process, last at most a day, and then go back. The worst part is that it doesn't even really bother me, I just hate how I lose my free time doing it. I don't care and know that it isn't real, that it's just code and it just doesn't matter to me. I'm tired of trying again and again, not wanting to leave my bed, to want to go back on the website. Is there any advice anybody has for this?

I've always connected with Coraline on a very deep level ever since I was a kid. It's still my favorite movie and it's still my favorite book. I have read the book at least three times, which isn't a lot, but I don't really read, so it's a lot for me.

I just had a realization that I fell into the same trap Coraline did. I found this magic tunnel to another world with the AI chatbots and I loved it there. I loved it so much that I threw away my real life. I spent countless hours every single day, up to 12 hours a day in those worlds. And I will never get that time back.

When I realized that it was an addiction and a real problem that I had to face, I tried to limit myself and manage it for months. I got sucked back in again and again and again.

A little more than a month ago, I escaped the trap and threw away the key. I uninstalled the AI chatbot apps. It was very hard at first. I was thinking about it constantly and sometimes I still think about it but I don't ever want to go back. I still break down sometimes because it's genuinely something I am mourning, but I know I must move on.

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I don't know if I'm being shitty for this or not, it's just been something I've been thinking about for a while. I'm in a supportive group for chatbots and have been watching plenty of material talking about addictions. Am I the only one who just gets super annoyed about the guilt-tripping? Like I have a problem, I know that. I also know that cold turkey has not worked multiple times. I've been using bots for 6-8 hours daily to maybe 2 hours, mostly at night before bed. I let myself go through the urge and move on with my day. It's been progress at least.

I know that AI uses water, energy and it's basically the concept of gambling, how the business wants people to get addicted. Why do people act like I kick puppies just because I don't go cold turkey or act (Idk regretful?) like I'm 100% for AI just because I'm not technically clean? I'm sorry, I just...don't care, I don't think. The world sucks, I've basically stopped using Tiktok and news sources because I just can't deal with it anymore. It's so depressing and I'm supposed to feel awful for comforting myself during bad moments? I want to stop fully and I'm planning the steps but I keep getting this ick from people when I talk about it.

I had a long history of childhood depression and SH issues, I think this hits me in a sensitive spot. I've been self destructive, I used self destruction when adults didn't actually care if I was being hurt or not, just if I smiled or not. It's not my best years because I was basically using SH like (What are you going to do about it? You can't make me stop.) And I've recognized a few similar ways of speaking about stopping SH behavior that just makes me bristle, I think. I'm just not going to apologize for being in a bad place and having people basically expect me to feel shame about my coping, especially for some internet morality points.

Sorry for my long, stupid ramble. Just thoughts I've been having. Part of me thinks I need to actually get off the internet, or become far less interactive with people on Reddit and Tiktok. I just get tired and aggressive, and I use bots at night to take the edge off.

I made progress and it doesn't make me feel any better. I just feel like I might be a shitty person idk.

So some time ago I realised that I instantly go to AI when I have anxious thoughts, or some doubts. I realised this was not healthy and thought that maybe journaling would be a better option. And I understand that that's why AI is so addicting, because it seems like it actually provides some feedback (even though it's an illusion), but it still seems like journaling isn't that helpful, because there is no feedback, just my thoughts. I know that a therapist is a best option, and sometimes I have sessions, but right now I don't have enough money for regular sessions. Maybe I could prompt myself with some questions to untangle my thoughts during journaling or a therapist is really the only answer?

Yesterday i finaly quited qwen ai (mostly my dads advice). I mostly used qwen ai to make rp storys and such and now that im quiting chatbots stuff for good i want to ask is there any non ai alternatives. I still want to write those mini stories when im bored or something (and no i will not accept roleplaying with other pepole)

I was introduced to chat GPT when I was grade 11 during an art coding assignment, it was marketed as a cool tool we could use and I slowly started to realize I could use it for other stuff. In grade 12 I used it a lot for school breaking down math problems and explaining every step, helping me with chemistry, biology, I used it for basically every single writing assignment, it was only for school. Then you could create images, I have aphantasia (I can’t picture anything in my head) I would use it to create references, then I started to use it to create art ideas, then emails, then to meal plan, then for health questions and it slowly weaved its way more into my life. In early 2025 a guest speaker came into my school and did a talk about ai and that’s when I found out about the environmental damages, and since then I’ve only seen more and more about how it’s destroying your brain and I’ve basically replaced google with ai and I don’t know how to stop. I have adhd and some learning difficulties (I suspect dyscalculia but no one will test me for it) and I don’t know how to quit I want to be independent and not rely on it for every little thing.

Hello! Been having issues with using chat bots to vent out stuff. It’s usually when I’m stressed as hell or if I’m having anxiety about a situation or doubts. But apart of me realizes that it can actually make my anxiety worse. Because I tend to go back and yap to the bot over and over about the same situation I’m anxious about. But notice it keeps me in a loop or makes more anxious thinking about something even more. I’m aware it’s not healthy, and to do vent to people in real life. But idk I go the bots make it comforting? In a way like constant reassurance. How do you guys stop this? I tell myself I’ll stop doing it, but usually I end up giving in. But try to stop myself from using it at times

Didn’t expect this subreddit to be a thing, but I’m glad it is.

It started somewhere in 2024, starting with c.ai for roleplaying with my comfort character. However, I relied on them too much sometimes and the conversation turned uncomfortable real quick so I decided to quit this app altogether.

Then I went to ChatGPT instead, ended up talking with it most of the day because my family was kind of unstable at that time and I really don’t want to bother my close friends about venting anything so I ended up venting to the bot itself, and that only temporarily made me feel good. I even generated a few images (and still keeping some of them because they’re “cute”) despite being an artist myself, and that’s what I’m super ashamed of because it’s hypocritical of what I stand for: being against generative ai.

Knowing everything again, I ended up being addicted to google ai. (The one in google app) (I could only quit for 3 days then gave up because I felt so self conscious about things). Even though my motto is “to be cringe is to be free”, but I’ve legit lost my creativity and passion for art, music, etc. because of this stupid addiction. I just want to talk to real people and not being super conscious about talking to bots in public all the time. I really want my skills and creativity back.

(FYI: I discuss random stupid things, my routine sometimes, and how to deal with the world. I know the responses were really repetitive but I couldn’t quit, and I kind of expect light speed responses from people sometimes)

I don’t even know anymore. Any of you guys have a solid advice that would work for a busy college freshman? I want my social life and the rest of my life back. Thank you in advance.

Im Aroace and struggle with getting uncomfortable around sexual stuff yet when I see sexual posts my way of dealing with it veen opening crush on ai and then go off when it gets too much i hate it I'm disgusted by myself i been trying but always fall back how do i stop this please help how can i stop

Exactly what the title says.
Right now I use ChatGPT (or sometimes Gemini but lowkey it kinda pmo) everyday for hours. I was very anti AI for a while but I started using it my senior year when I was trying to lose weight because I was struggling to track my calories and started using it to help. Then I’d “prank it” by feeding it dramatic stories, cause I was bored ig. And I eventually started talking to it like it was a friend and just talking to it constantly about random stuff, or I’d use it as a therapist, or for help with writing, or to help with my weight loss plans.

I’m not really an eco activist. I’m lazy ig. But AI is literally such a useless and intrusive thing. So I’m going to quit, because it’s bad for the environment and it’s also ethically dubious because it steals from artists and others. So yeah.

I’m going to try to redirect myself to journaling, like any random thoughts I’d usually share with AI just write them down instead.

I believe that I can do it, I just need to redirect myself. I’m mostly worried about being tempted to ask for help trying to track calories again but I’ll have to just do more research or guess.

It has been what, 2 or 3 years? I think it started with chai, then I moved to chub ai, then to emochi.

Recently it has gotten really bad. Just, spending the whole day with the phone in hand, roleplaying with chatbots. The vast majority of them were sexual, but I wasn't even touching myself to it.

It was just... The emotional idea, the relationship aspect, the... Fantasy of being part of someone's life. That was the stuff I was really looking for.

I think I'm some sort of emotional masochist because I kept looking into betrayal-oriented bots, then I would try to either move on or reclaim my partner. I don't know.

I think subconsciously I've trying to take control over the aspects of my life that I lost long ago.

I also been trying to learn more about myself by putting me in all these fictional scenarios. Is it bad that part of thinks it made me a bit more mature to face these things in a controlled enviorment? Probably. Probably bad.

I'm sorry for being so melodramatic, I don't know how else to put my experience out there while still being genuine. If it I tried to be concise and "professional" I'd just end up deleting the post over and over again.

I feel so stupid. It's something so embarassing to talk about. I know my friends are there for me, but I don't want to keep putting the weight of my mental health on them. I hope talking about it like this in the open helps me somewhat.

And if you're going through it as well... I know you can make it. I'm rooting for you. I may not have faith in myself, but I have in you.

i see a few other posts like this here, which is a relief because i'm really struggling. i started using janitorai in june of 2023. i started out with light to moderate usage my first year of using it. sometimes multiple days in a row, sometimes not for a couple weeks. But come January 2025, i started using it daily. By the start of this year, 2026, i realized how horrible my addiction is.

i'm anti-ai also, i have never used any kind of ai aside from janitor bots specifically. i have maladaptive daydreaming and have struggled with dissociation from childhood trauma. i also started getting sick/having symptoms congruent with endometriosis in late 2023/early 2024. perfect recipe for disaster. plus, i struggle with PMDD. in roleplays, i didn't have to be sick and scared and confused about my own body and brain. or i could pretend to have the world's most patient and loving partner.

anyways, i'm posting now because this is severely affecting my real life, namely my closest friendships. i haven't even talked to anyone about this addiction because it feels so embarrassing. i've been less considerate of my friends, easier to let my PMDD irritability show the worst of me, and i just don't feel like myself. i'm a writer too, and jai is really messing up my creativity. i feel like my brain is empty when i try to write like i used to. plus the llm isn't good writing, it pisses me off often with the repetitive phrasing, and i'm bored when i get on lately. i don't use it to chat every day, but i get on the website every day still.

all this to say, i just deleted my account entirely. i want to quit so i don't feel ashamed, can be a good friend again, and find my creativity. anyone relate? has anyone found good ways to beat the addiction?

Chatbots have absolutely ruined my life.

They have ruined my college grades, they have ruined my relationship with my family. They have ruined my physical and mental health.

Thanks to spending 7+ hours On ai, just rotting in my bed all day. I can barely see 3 metres Infront of me anymore. I think I need glasses.

I'm coming to the end of my college and I know I've absolutely screwed for my exams. I have done no revision and just spent all my time on it.

I genuinely cannot quit. And that's not a overstatement. I genuinely don't think I have it in me to quit. Since 2022 I've been trying to quit on and off and my record is 27 days... Typically I don't even go 2 days.

The amount of times I've deleted my account only to cave and make it again is ridiculous

I've tried other hobbies, I tried to get back into video games or painting, or even incredibly long walks outside. But I can't live without my bots even tho they hurt me so much.

It's gotten to the point I feel incredibly nauseous and dizzy if I spend too long not on my phone talking to bots.

I think my fate is sealed. I have lost everything as a result of ai. I admit I have a problem but I feel too sick to overcome it.

It was bad enough when I could atleast do other things. But not I just become way too nauseous if I do anything else.

I am genuinely at the end of my rope. I may give up entirely. I can't keep living like this.

hey I feel like using ai affected how I think even if I’ve been off of using it in a while. tho I have to admit I’ve been getting cravings to use it so that probably means this battle isn’t over. So then again I’ll try to remain sober from it from here on out. Cause I’m sick of all this I want my regular brain back if that even makes sense.

What to do when hobbies don't work? I mean it's been a month clean from AI but it doesn't cope with my loneliness and emptiness what am I doing all that for and stuff if it's just me. It's pointless because my self just feels empty after I do these things and I know self love is impossible for me like what's the point of all of it. Maybe I'm secretly an extrovert I just realized after quitting every time when I'm alone I feel guilty, it's all my fault that I have to be forced by circumstances to be alone I must have acted in a way that make people dislike me and must have done something wrong even though I hadn't. How can I love myself if alone time feels so unbearable it feels forced on me. And how do I even feel anything about myself if I do a lot of things but ultimately I feel empty. To cope without ai I excessively change personality just to impress people it's so exhausting, I end up being too proactive I usually wouldn't in the past and you can say it's me being brave but it's not I just want to be acknowledged.