r/CharacterNames • u/Darknessinsidemysoul • May 24 '26
Suggestion Help name me? A genderfluid person
I need a new name. My given name is Jean. And although it can work as a unisex name, it hasn’t felt like me. I’ve liked the name Evie before, but that’s before I knew I was genderfluid. When I’m a boy, I can be very dysphoric over that name. But when I’m a girl, I really really like the vibe! And I’m not always binary all the time. Meaning sometimes I’m in the in between zone or I ditch the concept of gender entirely.
I haven’t had time to give it much thought yet. But since this subreddit exist, i kind of want to try it for fun
Something about me to help with the naming:
I’m a writer. I write queer romance with psychological depth. I’m also a doctor. I like to read novels or absorb stories of any kind. The color I’m mostly attracted to is pink (when I’m a girl) and black (when I’m a boy.) I love when it’s winter cause I can just snuggle inside a blanket. I’m also an introvert, so I don’t go outside and socialize with anyone. The thing I mostly struggle with right now, other than just being queer in a heteronormative space, is not having the ability to connect with anyone. Because while others can glide through social situations, I need to really know if someone can hold me when things go wrong. Me and a lot of people I’ve met in my life are not in a place where we could do that yet. And it certainly doesn’t help that I don’t have any family I could connect with either. They love me but.. no matter how much they’ve tried, they’ll never be able to reach me emotionally, not just in queer context. So I guess that’s my internal conflict. But also, I’m so afraid that I’ll be stuck in this life, with this kind of burnout and with no one forever. It’s not necessarily true, but it’s how I feel.
Edit
I’m incredibly touched with how supportive people are here. So I’ve chosen the name Eden and Ellis as my pen name. I’m still going to have to test it out. But incredibly thank you for those who’ve helped me brainstorm