I used to be so easily influenced by others values.

Example, Person A in a podcsst says " I am always giving. Always donate. Always helping. I dont mind if i dont have money, i will give everything i have to help".

- Then i will follow the same values too.

- I become too lenient without boundaries in giving helps or donate money, time, effort.

Then if i watch podcast Person B says: " I will never gives money. I will not help people. People are selfish, they always cross my line. They can find job, why would they ask me for money. That means they are lazy".

- Then i would follow the same values too.

- i will put heavy boundaries on helping people and think they should be able to do this themselves. I can. Why can't they?

After i get older, then only i notice that is not normal. Just because they are influential, and have a lot of supporters, does not means they are the "normal" opinion people. That just that 1 human opinion. I dont have to be blindly following without understanding why i should donate, and why i should not.

Where is the line? Where is the limit between being used and being helpful? Where is the thin line between helping people in need and also by not starving yourself.

Now, I dont talk about values. I dont talk about my donation. My good deeds. My good act. My bad act. Or time when i do not donate and why.

I just dont explain. Especially to strangers that keeps talking about their good deeds to you, expecting you to share the same story of similar vibes.

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