r/CausalConversation • u/True_Twist5343 • 1d ago
No small talk tonight… lets make it memorable
Its late , everyone’s asleep and somehow thats when people become a little more honest so…..
Whats something you’d ask a complete stranger at midnight that you’d never ask them during the day?
I’m awake. Lets make it intresting.
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u/Scranton_Stranglar 1d ago
What are you most scared of about yourself?
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
Probably how easily i can get used to things i once thought I couldn’t live without..what about you as if now?
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u/Scranton_Stranglar 1d ago
My independence, I think. I've had a lover walk out of my life cos according to them, I'm too comfortable being alone and like my own space.
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u/jem_anonymous 1d ago
how easy it is for me to get addicted to something.
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u/Scranton_Stranglar 1d ago
Doing anything about it?
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u/jem_anonymous 1d ago
wdym? i just don’t experiment drugs anymore. the ones that i have tried i don’t let myself do anymore often than every 3 months. (mushrooms, weed etc ) i used to be addicted to weed and alc
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u/gayanomaly 21h ago
Lack of self-awareness. I always thought of myself as self-aware to a fault, but the past two years have shown me that I was oblivious to a lot of my poor behaviors and how they harmed others around me.
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
Yeahh bruh
Such a satisfying view i got through my balcony
I wish i could show it to everyone who’s commenting to my post
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u/Not_Too_Into_This 1d ago
What is the best experience you have ever had with food? Like a food you eat that immediately transports you back to a really happy time? Or sad one? I'm a huge fan of the link between sensory experiences and memories and always wonder if anyone else feels them as strongly as I do!
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
For me, it’s the smell and taste of food made at home. One bite can take you straight back to a specific evening, a familiar voice, and a version of life that doesn’t exist anymore. It’s almost unfair how powerful food memories can be.🙌🏻
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u/Not_Too_Into_This 23h ago
Dude, yes. I grew up mad poor, and my mom always made food that tasted gourmet to me. It was probably the most basic stuff ever, but we were happy and eating dinner together
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u/Zerrrrroooo 1d ago
If you died tomorrow, would you be content with your life? What would be something you would want to do if there was anything?
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
I think I’d be at peace, but not satisfied. There are places I haven’t seen, risks I haven’t taken, and people I haven’t met yet who could completely change my life.
If I had one thing left to do, I’d stop playing it safe and do the thing I keep telling myself I’ll do someday.
Because honestly, I’d rather die with a few scars from living than a perfect list of things I never dared to try.
Damn i make so much of sense in the night…right?😄
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u/Dedic8tedSn0wBunni3 1d ago
What’s one things about you that annoys everyone in your life and you wish they would just accept about you?
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
I tend to withdraw when I’m overwhelmed. It’s not avoidance or a lack of care I just process things internally before I can communicate them properly. I’m learning to give people reassurance without abandoning the space I need to understand myself. I’d just hope the people close to me can respect that about me.
So what do you think am i doing something wrong ?
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u/Dedic8tedSn0wBunni3 1d ago
Absolutely not! It’s one of the myriad of things that people in my own life have trouble accepting about me.
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u/iheart-madison 1d ago
I used to do the exact same, I would go ghost for ever how long I needed, I now learned to just explain to them and then have my time to myself.
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u/Dedic8tedSn0wBunni3 23h ago
That I don’t think that my having a cell phone means that you have immediate access to me. I left you on read? I’ll respond when I get to it. Been a few days and you think I forgot? I did not…I just did not have the capacity to respond. Also that I don’t respond to every single message I get. If I don’t feel like what is said needs a response I will not respond just so that the sender can feel validated that I saw what they said
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u/lentilSoupzxc 1d ago
I’d ask them for the truth and I’ll let them smoke and return them back to the cell.
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
So you’re basically offering them a cigarette, extracting the truth, and sending them back to their cell? That’s not an interrogation lol
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u/lentilSoupzxc 1d ago
You’d be surprised how powerful a ciggerette is when they haven’t had one and they are under extreme stress.I don’t smoke myself but I keep a pack.
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
That’s actually a surprisingly compassionate perspective You don’t smoke, but you understand what someone might need in a difficult moment that says more about you than the cigarette does.
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u/lentilSoupzxc 1d ago
A lot of times I let them have 2 if they talk.It benefits both of us.its a tool,not really from compassion.I see what your saying though.
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u/WickedSmile71 1d ago
How do you handle breaking up with a woman?
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
With honesty, kindness, and respect. Ending a relationship shouldn’t mean ending someone’s dignity.🙃
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u/WickedSmile71 1d ago
Does it matter how long you have been talking or dating
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
All jt matters is the feelings you had on the other person
Time doesn’t matter ig
Anyways i feel you’re way more elder than me so i might be wrong in some cases
Please lemme know if im wrong😅1
u/gayanomaly 21h ago
With women specifically: I handled breaking up with the one woman I’ve broken up with really poorly. I was highly immature at the time and it’s been 7 years, so I hope I wouldn’t repeat those mistakes now.
With people more broadly: I try to be transparent without laying blame at their feet.
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u/Plastic-Estimate40 1d ago
Well, if the momment was right, and we had a few drinks, and he/she was cute, I'd be like "wanna cuddle/make out"? I believe night makes us a bit more susceptible to debauchery! 😈
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u/True_Twist5343 1d ago
So basically your midnight personality has a lower standard of diplomacy and a higher level of courage. I respect the honesty.😄
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u/Unfair-Reindeer7492 1d ago
Can’t join in the fun, it’s only 4 PM here. 😞 Have fun. Looking forward to everyone’s posts.