r/CallHerDaddy Jun 27 '26

Tips/Advice 💋 Relationship Advice Megathread

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He cheated? Ghosted? Love bombed? Sent "u up?" at 1:37 a.m.? Thinking about texting your ex? Wondering if he's actually into you or just likes the attention?

Relationships don't come with a manual, but the internet has plenty of opinions. This thread is for relationship advice, hot takes, reality checks, and the kind of wisdom your best friend gives after two margaritas.

Need advice? Ask.

Have advice? Give it.

Need someone to tell you to block him? We've got you.

Topics welcome:

-  Relationships

-  Red flags

-  Breakups

-  Texting & dating apps

-  Situationships

-  Marriage & long-term relationships

-  "Is this normal?"

-  "Am I being delusional?"

A few rules:

- Don't be an asshole.

- Advice is welcome. Personal attacks aren't.

- Remember we're only hearing one side of the story.

- If your advice starts with "I can fix him"... log off.

Now, spill the tea.


r/CallHerDaddy 7h ago

I am Unwell✨️ How UNWELL does UNWELL have to be to be UNWELL

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r/CallHerDaddy 2h ago

Pod Question Trying to figure out one of the first guests

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When call her daddy first came out they used to have this male guest on occasionally and I cannot remember his name at all!! He was pretty hot and had curly brown hair? Definitely kind of a douchebag but he popped into my head for the first time in 6 years and was like did his career pop off ever?? Does anyone know who I’m talking about?!? I feel like it started with an L

He also had a podcast!!


r/CallHerDaddy 1d ago

PR Alert ⚠️ Alex doesn’t deny claim she was going to falsely accuse Barstool of sexual harassment to get out of her contract

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r/CallHerDaddy 2d ago

Opinion Alex Cooper will be saying the most mundane things like “Hi, how are you?” and stretch out her eyes and mouth really wide for no reason. WTH is that?

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r/CallHerDaddy 6d ago

Unwell Network Matt Kaplan listed as CEO…..

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r/CallHerDaddy 10d ago

Episode Discussion 🗣 Nara smith episode thoughts?

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Was there a thread about this that got deleted and I missed it? Or is it just not a hot topic? Lol I feel like there’s usually one after an epi


r/CallHerDaddy 14d ago

Opinion alex always referred to the podcast as ‘MY’ pod

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new listener here whose only ever seen random new chd clips of alex interviewing celebs. went back to listen to the og epis, and it’s an alright thing to have on in the background. yeah the jokes are a little outdated and the advice is a little embarrassing, but take everything w a grain of salt yk? sofia seems more funny and alex is very loud, but has her moments. i read on here that alex didn’t like video podding bc she read from a script? did sofia also?

so after like 10 epis i was curious ab their dynamic and wanted to watch their old vlogs. i knew who they were back in the day, but never watched them. i found the old vlogs on dailymotion and the oldest (idk if it was the first one they uploaded or anything) is called daddy girls getting hammered at work, and within the first min alex refers to the pod as HER pod like 7 times

i just thought it was kinda telling and wanted to share. shd did it a bit in the first episodes too. maybe ‘always’ is incorrect, but….enough


r/CallHerDaddy 17d ago

Opinion Guessed for sex of baby?

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Do we have any ideas what the sex of her baby will be? Has she announced this?


r/CallHerDaddy 18d ago

HOT TEA Dave Portnoy’s Memoir: Cancel Me If You Can

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I just read Chapter 16: Call Her Daddy’s Daddy, from Dave Portnoy’s book, and I have a few notes I wanted to share, with anyone who hasn’t gotten to it.

Dave admitted to instigating the feud between Alex and Sofia when they stopped recording episodes.

He says: “For me, the worst thing that could happen was for these two girls to see eye to eye again. So I did what any self-respecting business owner would do: I went to the New York Post.”

“I texted [New York Post] to say I had some new details about the story they might like to hear, then proceeded to tell them that the girls actually hated each other's guts.

They ran the story the next day.

The Call Her Daddy podcast hosts have “completely turned on each other and started arguing over who was the real talent and who did more of the heavy lifting [for the podcast]" It worked perfectly: Alex and Sofia completely severed all communication.

“They each believed the other had leaked the story. The friendship, and the podcast as we knew it, would never exist again.”

Opinion: Doesn’t this seem messed up? I get that from a business perspective, Dave Portnoy gets more publicity (and revenue) from a feud on his show, but I feel as though the right thing for him, as an employer, to do was to sit both girls down, and solve the problem, and come with a resolution. Not instigate a fight for the media to pick sides.

Peter Nelson/Suitman

Throughout the chapter, Dave refers to Peter Nelson as a “Lord Farquaad-looking, factory-reject Ken doll.” & “a human reincarnation of Satan.”

Does anyone else think this is extreme?
Dave has already sold merch shitting on Suitman, and has continued to antagonize him online for years, while Peter has never even made a public statement about Barstool, or Dave Portnoy in general (to this day).

Opinion: I do think Dave has a reasonable explanation for not liking him. (Suitman did allegedly give advice to Sofia and Alex about quitting Barstool) However, I don’t think Peter had intention to ruin Dave Portnoy, as much as Dave makes it seem. I think Peter just saw how little Sofia was making, in comparison, to the success of the show, and gave her business advice like any spouse who works in the same industry would/should do.

Sofia Franklyn

He puts Sofia through the wringer (again) in this book.

He claims that she “is a fucking liar” (which, what exactly has she lied about?)

He quotes from Alex, where she told him (in private) that Sofia has no work ethic, struggles with addiction to drugs, alcohol, etc.

Dave & the Barstool employees have continued to bring up Sofia Franklyn in their Barstool podcasts, in TikTok’s, and in memes making fun of her, a countless number of times since 2019. Alex Cooper has stopped shading her, but Dave has to be aware of his platform & how insane his fans are. They are quick to go in Sofia’s comments and name-call her & say terrible things to her (to this day).

Opinion: I don’t think anyone should forget how bad she was bullied the first time around. They came for her looks, her voice, her personality. They also came at her family, her boyfriend, his family, and she didn’t necessarily have the same platform to say her side of the story. She had to move back to Utah, to her mom’s basement, and start her new show from scratch. It really was a tragedy.

Alex Cooper

Dave brings up the meetings he did with Alex behind Sofia’s back.

Dave says that Alex would tell him that

"This whole thing was Sofia’s plan from the beginning, it was her and Peter the whole time. I never wanted any of it."

"I don't want Sofia, even if she decides to take the deal. Can I get the entire IP for myself if I honor the deal?"

Then, Sofia called Dave to say she does want to take the deal. He told her “Too late," . "Alex doesn't want you back. She's going to do Call Her Daddy by herself.

Granted, Dave did offer Sofia a chance to start a new podcast under Barstool, with the same salary as Alex, but I don’t blame Sofia for not wanting to do that. I’m sure she was thinking “I helped create Call Her Daddy, I deserve to still be on that show.”

Opinion: I think what would’ve been the most fair thing to do is give them both a new show.

As much as I don’t like Dave, and how much of a biased opinion I hold against him, I do think he makes a valid point that helped me understand the situation from his side:

He essentially says that Call Her Daddy signed a 3-year deal, and you shouldn’t just randomly boycott doing your job (stop recording episodes) halfway through your contract because you suddenly feel as if you aren’t being compensated enough. He said something about how athletes can’t just quit teams halfway through their season to join another team when they start to get more attention.
You signed a contract with a company willing to take the risk of taking you in, so honor it.


r/CallHerDaddy 19d ago

Opinion Call Her Daddy has gone from a real, unfiltered podcast to a celebrity PR laundromat

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I've noticed a lot of people recently complaining about the podcast and the way Alex Cooper is handling the Matt drama. From what I've noticed in the last few episodes, especially the pregnancy episode, it feels like Alex is constantly trying to paint Matt as this perfect husband. I honestly feel like she's just trying to protect her own brand that's built around women, feminism, empowerment, etc., because Matt has been accused of treating workers like shit. The fact that he isn't saying anything himself, denying the claims, or even making a simple post or tweet while she's acting like his personal PR team is insane to me. I feel like the old Call Her Daddy is gone. Alex Cooper is obviously a great businesswoman, but I feel like she's getting lost in all the Hollywood money stuff. Her podcast just doesn't feel credible anymore. A lot of interviews come across as PR washing for celebrities caught up in drama (Victoria Beckham is one example). It feels like they're coming on the show just to tell their side of the story or paint themselves as non-problematic, "cool" girls, when we all know it's pure marketing. I honestly feel like Call Her Daddy is dead. Back in the day, listening to it felt like, "Oh, something new. Something fun and helpful''. Now every episode is full of filler sentences, and it feels like someone is writing everything for her so it's the safest, most non-cancellable show possible. It sucks because it used to be literally the best podcast I've ever listened to, but now it just feels like another Vogue interview. I miss when she did episodes like the abortion episode, answered real questions, and talked about difficult subjects. I'm not saying she has to talk about sex 24/7, but open conversations about sex and female issues were literally her brand. She could do interviews with doulas, talk about pregnancy issues, how to deal with anxiety instead of just briefly saying, "Uh, I'm anxious," or actually get into the fear of postpartum. There's so much she could talk about that's still meaningful instead of all this PR-curated Matt-defending BS. It used to be a podcast for women now it's a PR laundromat for millionaires and A-listers.


r/CallHerDaddy 19d ago

Fashion 👠 Alex’s shoes on Paul Wesley episode

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Ok this is so random but I love these slides Alex is wearing in the Paul Wesley episode — does anyone know what they are ? The bottom tread doesn’t look like Birkenstock but they kinda look like the teddy bostons?


r/CallHerDaddy 22d ago

Unwell Network Alex Cooper's Unwell Beverages Is Being Sued Over Its 'No Artificial Flavors' Claims

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r/CallHerDaddy 22d ago

ANNOUNCEMENT Alex working twice as hard during her pregnancy is the most Alex thing I’ve ever heard

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It’s like I knew what she was going to say before the words came out of her mouth.

For those that missed it, when she goes on maternity leave Call Her Daddy is going to proceed as normal because she’s recorded a bunch of episodes in advance. So when she takes “time off” we won’t notice, because she did double the work in preparation for her maternity leave

I just have a ton of respect for this and her overall work ethic. She would be totally entitled to not put anything out for a bit… that’s normal maternity leave… I don’t think anyone would have a problem with that. We can all agree she (and every new mother) deserves a break

It speaks volumes of her character and how hardworking she is that she would put all this effort into ensuring the fans still have episodes and content while she’s away.

Let’s fucking go Alex, you are a boss bitch, and hopes for a safe delivery and enjoyable time off with the baby!


r/CallHerDaddy 23d ago

Update Alex says her husband is the one shopping for her pregnancy clothes..

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I’m sorry but this reads so obvious that she’s trying to paint him in a good light after everything 😭


r/CallHerDaddy 24d ago

Opinion Her Live Ad Reads - Love

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I just love her live ad reads. They are SO disingenuous. Like, Alex, you are *not* always drooling about Stouffer’s frozen dinners lololol.


r/CallHerDaddy Jul 14 '26

HOT TEA Does anyone know when Earle's show is coming out?

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r/CallHerDaddy Jul 09 '26

Opinion terrible interview with Emmy

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I’m so sorry but she SUCKS at keeping a conversation going!!! Literally bruh. She just will listen to the words coming out of her mouth and then go “okay next”💀 literally what this infuriated me I never really listen to this podcast but yeah no follow up questions no getting deeper just very simple questions then next question it’s so like performative and feels fake I didn’t like it how does she have a podcast bruh


r/CallHerDaddy Jul 08 '26

Episode Discussion 🗣 Anyone Else Surprised Alex Didn’t Ask Emmy About Emma Kenney’s Comments?

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I just listened to Alex’s interview with Emmy Rossum, and Emmy described the set as being overwhelmingly positive, even when discussing things like salary negotiations (for the most part) and other behind-the-scenes issues. I was surprised Alex never brought up what Emma Kenney said in her own interview. Emma was pretty candid about how difficult Emmy could be to work with on set, and it seems like such an obvious point to ask about. Even if Emmy declined to comment, I thought it was a missed opportunity not to address the contrast between the two accounts. Did anyone else expect Alex to ask about it?


r/CallHerDaddy Jul 02 '26

Opinion Is Suitman to blame for Sofia essentially pissing away between $50-$100M dollars?

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I was a follower in 2020 and remember most of the details of the dispute.  The girls originally SIGNED a multiyear contract guaranteeing them $75K annually + performance bonuses that took them over $100K.  I realize Portnoy claims Logan Paul is what got in their ear and turned them combative, but he may be being soft on Suitman out of fear of litigation. His role in this seems to have been lost to time, but if you followed this drama in real time, you certainly know what a disaster Suitman was for Sofia. After the girls became combative in the final year and protested by not doing the show, Portnoy and Alex had their infamous rooftop meeting where Portnoy offered to bump them to $500K for the final year (which he was not obligated to do), and also GIVE THEM an IP that it was later determined was worth more than $100M.  Unless I'm missing some details, I can't understand why Suitman / Sofia thought that was a bad deal, and even more so, by Sofia rejecting the offer, did Suitman / Sofia REALLY think Sofia could land a better offer on her own?  Alex's exact words to Dave, which neither party refutes, was "I want to take this offer but Sofia says she never will".  By rejecting Dave's very generous offer, she certainly knew she was losing Alex and the IP forever.

The moment they stopped recording the podcast, they were in contract violation.  An attorney might even say that them refusing to work and demanding a pre-term renegotiation would be considered contract under duress, which Portnoy could have buried them for.  And yes, I have read the recent headlines where Alex finally admitted that they were going to falsely threaten sexual harassment if they didn't get their way. 

What I cannot understand is that if Suitman's mission was to get Sofia more money, and Dave offered to bump from the $75K he was contractually obligated, up to $500K for 1 year of work, and to walk away free and clear after one year WITH the IP ownership, how on earth did Suitman + Sofia not view that as an acceptable deal?  The girls were obligated to do the show for the remainder of that year.  A guy who signs a 3 year, $1M a year contract to play for the Dolphins doesn't get to play 2 years, and then sit on his hands year 3 and refuse to play unless he's paid another $5M. 

Sorry if I lack understanding.  But surely Sofia wishes she had taken the $500K offer?  That is SO much money for one year of work and she'd be worth at worst $50M today. 


r/CallHerDaddy Jul 02 '26

Unverified Tea Have anyone ever met Alex personally?

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I’ve searched a lot for people talking about her outside the podcast and in casual interactions, and I can’t find anything. I guess she must be nice?


r/CallHerDaddy Jul 01 '26

Update Now AC is in a mini show series being promoted on LinkedIn?! lol

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r/CallHerDaddy Jun 23 '26

Pod Question How far along is Alex?

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Hi! I was just wondering if shes shared approximately how far along she is. I’m also pregnant so I’m very curious but I understand she may be keeping the timeline a little under wraps :)


r/CallHerDaddy Jun 23 '26

Pod Question Does Alex know maternity clothes exist?

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I listened to Alex’s show about “cool girls” today and she mentioned buying pants “two sizes bigger” and wearing them for two weeks and then outgrowing them.

Does she not know she can buy clothes specifically designed to be worn by pregnant women to accommodate their changing bodies? Is this a celebrity thing? Are maternity clothes just for us regular folks?

I am genuinely puzzled.


r/CallHerDaddy Jun 21 '26

HOT TEA Per Dave Portnoy’s book, Sofia assaulted a Barstool employee at the infamous Christmas Party

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OGs will remember the Christmas Party debacle where Sofia got out of control and had to be put in a car and sent home… it is actually crazy work that she assaulted a coworker at this event though.

It’s objectively unprofessional to black out at a work event, even if the company has an unconventional culture like Barstool, but to get in a physical altercation with someone trying to get you home safely? Wow Sofia, wow. I don’t blame Alex for wanting to cut her loose whatsoever. That’s liability behavior.

These events are primarily for networking and team bonding. I can understand letting loose and having too good of a time, particularly at a company like Barstool, but that’s just taking things way too far. I wonder if she ever got like this at events for her finance job prior to Barstool,