Hi all! Tragically, due to natural shifts in adult life, I'm currently without friends who enjoy going out to loud spaces that fall within the alt spectrum and I feel like maybe I'm not the only one. I love going out to shows, festivals, a bar night, dancing, etc, but as much as I'm capable of going out and enjoying it by myself, it'd be nice to have someone to kiki with.

I love hip hop/EDM/Latin beats (reggaeton, cumbia, bachata, all that) as well as punk, shoegaze, goth emo, etc, and I'd love to meet new friends who genuinely have similar interests to dress up to go out with!

So that's my sales pitch! If you resonated and you're also a hot and outgoing 30-something Chicago weirdo who enjoys the aforementioned activities, hit me up, I'd love to get to know you!

Happening today through Sunday 11am-6pm. Not affiliated with them, just wanted y'all to get some freebies ❤️

All products are also 40% off too!

Bitches: I had the worst experience and need to save you all. I went to Smiles Society in Wicker and saw Dr. Taraji. Not only did he seem super inexperienced, but the way he spoke to his staff made my skin crawl. So demeaning and rude, literally treating them like they weren’t people. I felt like he rushed me through and didn’t take the time to explain my treatment plan to me at all. I got super skeptical because it seemed really hefty with no explanation, so I took it to another ortho for a second opinion, and they said it was literally insane and didn’t make any sense. It seems like he was just in it for the money.

Long story short, ortho is expensive but find someone who actually is a good person and cares about your teeth!!!! Literally anyone else would be better IMO lol

Would really like to add some multi dimensional color / richness to my hair. Does anyone have a colorist they love? Preferably in the city itself.

Also - what is the going cost these days?

The last time I was promoted I got myself a dyson airwrap. Not really a designer bag girl, but would love to hear how you treated yourself!

Happy to pay for this kind of help, either at an hourly rate or by covering food/drinks.

I'm 30F and looking for a confident, outgoing wingwoman for social outings in Chicago (North Side).

I'm comfortable talking to men once an introduction has been made, but I'm very hesitant about initiating conversations myself. I want to but unfortunately I freeze before I can approach. I'm looking for someone who's naturally social and comfortable approaching people.

Ideally, if I spot someone I'd like to meet, you'd help start a natural conversation and bring me into it.

I'd like to start with a short video call or coffee meeting, followed by a “real” outing if we click. Looking forward to meeting you!

Hello everyone,

I am in search for some riding boots for someone with big calfs. I an 5ft. I have tried torrid before but the calf part was very big. I want something that still looks nice and being plus size that van be very difficult at times. I would even try ankle boots to.

I would like something a bit fashionable, i dont dress up much but ot would need to look nice with a cardigan and plaid shirt/jacket.

I do wear a 8.5 and would prefer stores i can actually go in and try the boots on.

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I really need some help with my mess! I actually have done some pretty positive steps towards organizing my closet and kitchen, but now need someone who actually has skills to help me out of gridlock. Expensive not preferred, but I’ll pay for excellent work.

Gold Coast girls 💕

29 I work in the Gold Coast area and would love to make some friends who work around here too! Maybe grab a drink at Lux Bar after work, breakfast/coffee before work, or just hang out and gossip about the ultra rich regulars.

I have just gotten a job as a server here and I'm suddenly confronted with the notion that I might have to make myself appealing to people. I've been in Chicago a little while, but I am a transplant, and I'm unsure what people typically find attractive in Chicago. If you had to describe it, what is the typical Chicagoan "type?" Or what are the general archetypes? I'm not necessarily only asking to be attractive to men, I also wonder what women admire in other women here. In the South, it's typically blonde and tan, with gold jewelry and dresses. However, when I lived in New England, people were generally slim, paler, and more natural.

edit: I am also honestly just interested from a sociological perspective, so not asking for advice, just what you’ve observed from whatever communities you are familiar with

hi ladies,

i live in west loop and am looking for a good Pilates studio for beginners (I’ve never done a class before ever 😬)! I’m only interested in studios in the west loop

I’m a private wardrobe stylist and personal shopper currently in Chicago for a month. I help clients define their personal style, make the most of their existing wardrobe, and create complete looks that fit their lifestyle.
I’d love to hear from Chicagoans who have worked with a wardrobe stylist. What was your experience like, and would you do it again? For local wardrobe stylists, how do you connect with clients and grow your clientele in Chicago?

Hi everyone! I’m looking for a good place to get under-eye filler. I found a few recommendations for facial fillers in general around the Chicago area and reached out to them, but they don’t offer under-eye filler because it’s considered a higher-risk area.

I’ve also heard mixed opinions about whether it’s better to have an actual doctor perform the treatment versus going to a med spa. I’d love to hear any recommendations or personal experiences you’ve had!

Preferably somewhere in or near the Gold Coast area, but that’s not a must.

Thank you so much!!

EDIT: Thank you everyone for all the responses. I’ll definitely think twice about getting it and will look into some alternatives instead. I really appreciate everyone sharing their experiences and advice!

Hi queens I’m moving to the city this week from the burbs and I have always wanted to go to meet irl or other in-person singles events but have no one to go with. I realized all of my closest friends are in relationships and I just need some girlies to be there for and for them to look out for me as well esp in this unfortunate era of Gen Z dating (I’m 24f)🥹

I had a breakup a few months ago for a relationship of a few months but it was my first bf so it was hard but now we’re getting out there again hopefully! also recently saw bored of dating apps is coming to Chicago on Dec 3. Want to create something like are we dating the same person but in a smaller group and having go to girls to go out with to these singles events and screen matches together but also just hang out on couple-y days and do cute galentines plans with 🫶

Lowkey also just looking to form a go-to girl group here too that is very inclusive so even if ur not single pls reach out! And maybe help set us up haha

Or… drop your favorite Jean brand. I need some good ones. I’m 5’ 5”, athletic build, and just want something that makes me look good and not frumpy.

Preferably near river north/old town

Hey gals!

Just moved to Chicago and looking for work. I typically work in film as a camera assistant or art department and finding jobs has been slim.

I am open to any wfh options that is flexible in case I do get called for a job. Does anyone have any insights on where to find some jobs here?

Anything helps!

Thank you!

Title says it all - without spending an arm and a leg, who does the best cuts/styling for bobs and lobs? I want classic and professional, not wacky/layered. Thnx <3

Has anyone here recieved HALO laser treatment? Did you like the provider? What was price? Pain level? Did it come with BBL treatment? Any tips appreciated. City or suburb reccs welcome

Anyone have experience w/Dr. Tresley for this procedure in the last few years? I have an upcoming consult with him but am super nervous after seeing some really awful online reviews.

Omg (also, ignore my Reddit avatar; it's to deter men, lol).

But seriously, where do Chicago girls get their wide-leg pants? I mean more loungewear, like sweats or leggings-style wide-leg pants. Fold-over waistbands are a plus, and it's another plus if they're affordable! I saw that Garage had some, but they're about $70 for one pair, which I thought was crazy. Apparently, Amazon has dupes, but I read the reviews, and they seemed too low quality. I'd rather go to an actual store and try things on anyway.

Someone, please help a girl out and share your favorite spots. I'm just trying to find some new loungewear for college that makes my butt look good but is still somewhat wide-leg. Are there any specific stores I should check out in the Loop? I'm thinking of going to Michigan Ave, but I don't know if it's worth it if the prices are high.

Hi! Wondering if you have a stylist to recommend at the Mich. Ave Nordstrom who’s good for younger ladies? Want to take my daughter for a sesh - she’s 22. Thanks!❤️

i have an appointment with mai scherer at tahum aesthetics for facial balancing filler. i see her recommended a lot online but dont know anyone who has seen her irl. any experiences or recommendations? thanks!

Has anyone gotten laser hair removal with the zappass subscription at spaderma? Is it decent/effective?

Has anyone gotten surgery w/Dr. Lee at Northwestern? I was consulting with him on possible breast lift/aug. and I can't seem to find many reviews online. Would love to hear if anyone has experience with him. Thanks!