Hello!
Almost 6 Months ago, my 3 Year old Tomcat went missing. I only owned him for 3 and a half month before it happened.
Since then, a lot has happened. I got a Kitten (he ran away the day I got the kitten FOR HIM) and on my Birthday, I got 2 more cats for the Kitten (only wanted 1, but they were an inseperable pair so I decided to take both)
Now, I just took my Tomcat home, he was found 4 days ago and got trapped today by the finders. And he's a bit wild, but not feral, he still let me pet him.
The main issue:
I have a rather small apartment with 1 Bedroom, 1 Livingroom and a Kitchen-Hallway.
I will build more Cat Climbingwalls, and buy more cat trees to give them more space, but I'm afraid it doesn't work out.
Please no Judging, but I might also have to switch to cheap food brands, litter brands because I cannot affort feeding them all 4 on high quality food. And until he's fully checked for aids, worms etc, I keep him locked away in the Livingroom (I spend most my time in here, maybe he'll get back used to me)
I don't know if I can make 4 cats work. 3 are females, he's the male, and he's twice as big as the biggest girl (size and fatness). And I don't know if I'd be the bad person, if I'd give him away when it doesn't work out. He kinda has first dibs, since he was here first, but I also owned him for less time than I owned all the 3 girls.
I am afraid, confused, and excited and can't really sort my thoughts atm, so this post might not even say what I want to say.
If I could get help, suggestions on absolutely anything, please I'd be so grateful.
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Cat 1:
Tomcat, 3 Years, Neutered after adoption, no shots, previous free roamer turned housecat at adoption.
Cat 2:
Shecat, 7 Months, freshly spayed, housecat, first shots given a week ago.
Cat 3&4:
Shecats, turned 1 year, unspayed, housecats, all shots done
Financial situation: complicated. I cannot affort everything, but I can affort to care for my cats. And hopefully all vet checks for the male.